Family & Relationships - 23 December 2007

i love a guy from india,i am a russian girl but i am a muslim, his religion hindu.... i love him a lot. can i marry him?

2007-12-23 18:00:28 · 9 answers · asked by jjjj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you agree or disagree with the 80/20 rule (I heard this on "Why Did I Get Married" movie):
You never get all you want or need in a marriage. At most, it's about 80%.
Because of this, we can't help but look outside our marriage at what we're missing, and think that the grass is greener on the other side because we're looking at that 20%.
However, if we go over to the other side, we find out that's all we got: the 20%.
Do you agree or disagree? Why or why not?

2007-12-23 17:57:55 · 8 answers · asked by Jen 4 in Marriage & Divorce

They both live a couple of hours drive from me and put pressure on us to come on Xmas Day.

2007-12-23 17:56:29 · 4 answers · asked by JazzE 3 in Family

I have my sister and her fiance.....my AA new friends.....a home for now and some food....a stuffed bear who keeps me company.....the memories of my parents......a future to come.......great friends on the internet....the new realization that there are people who care who may be even strangers.....the idea that I can better myself...and some good shows I can watch on my own tv in my own bed or sofa this holiday!

2007-12-23 17:48:10 · 3 answers · asked by theartisttwin 5 in Marriage & Divorce

There are all these girls trying to talk and get to know him. He lied to his ex saying he was sick to hang out with me.

We went to my friends birthday, even though he didnt know anyone. He's so sweet and if he wasnt so flirty with everyone id think he likes me...

but he is, and when he was walking me home he was saying how winterbreak he's so busy because he's got 4 other girls wanting to hang out with him... and i dont know if thats true...

but i go on his messages and read them.. and him and this other girl was talking about a "prize" he got.. i dont know exactly what...

he msged me however... and reminds me of our inside jokes, at this point have grown to many.

should i wait? ask him to hang out again or wait for him to do it?

2007-12-23 17:47:22 · 1 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Singles & Dating

1."There are plenty of retards that will only care that you are pretty, that will be flattered by your insanity, that are basically at your intelectual level."
2."I still have feelings for my ex-girlfriend, and I always will."
3."I wish I didn't have to say I regret meeting you."(I told him he didn't fit in my life anymore, I was being honest)
4."You're a paranoid *****"(Most recent)

2007-12-23 17:46:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met this girl at a party about 4-5 weeks ago and then we were in touch through facebook and she gave me her number and we were so close to go on a date but everything changed...we stopped talking for no reason and then once on msn she said im sorry that i didnt call u or sent u anything cuz i was busy and bluh bluh and i said it's alright and then we talked a bit and she said g2g ill talk to you later thu bye ..we never talked after this.... lol i kindda miss her so i thought i would send her a facebook gift for christmas to just make her happy...do u think that would be ok ? or lame and creepy ?? she is special to me !!! im 19 and she is 17...it would be a gift and that's it !!!

2007-12-23 17:46:08 · 1 answers · asked by Ali 4 in Singles & Dating

I have this relationship with a guy via mobile phone. All this time we contact each other, but never see each other. It's almost a year since we become a couple. I wanna know how is possible for this relationship to go far?

2007-12-23 17:44:58 · 1 answers · asked by cHa-LeN 1 in Singles & Dating

How do I tell the guy to take a hint and quite bugging me. He knows my policy but continues to call weekly. It's very annoying. I can't afford to have this guy cut off my company's business but I have no intention of going out with the guy. Should I have a cup of coffee with him and remind him that I don't go out with customers? He's starting to actually harrass me at home. help..

2007-12-23 17:43:40 · 1 answers · asked by joey 2 in Singles & Dating

Because i do it quite often but i do it just for fun and blow it in their face later on that it's a farce just to see their reaction.Wot do u ppl think?

2007-12-23 17:42:53 · 1 answers · asked by Jack 1 in Singles & Dating

K well my sisters ex boyfriend likes me and well, I dont feel the same. The main thing is that I wouldnt do that to her, and second, I just dont like him hahaha. Well anyway i dont want to just say NO cause hes really nice and really wants to get to no me and he says we would be a cute couple but like, i just dont feel the same. What should I say to him? ((oh and my sis doesnt kno about this, and i dont plan on telling her haha)

2007-12-23 17:42:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My grandfather recently passed away. My grandmother who I believe has never lived a day on her own is now all alone. Is there anything I can do? I'm 20, live with my parents about 4 blocks from their house. I just feel like I should be doing something to help.

2007-12-23 17:42:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How many girlfriends can a boy handle at a time.

2007-12-23 17:42:23 · 1 answers · asked by Jasvinder s 1 in Friends

2007-12-23 17:42:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is the name of the girl im gonna marry. hows this name and what do you think of it?

2007-12-23 17:42:09 · 1 answers · asked by brodi 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 1 year and we are like 2 peas in a pod, but now he just dosent spend time with me or answer my calls, he has no family problem or anything but he says he is sorry so many times, I'm not sure anymore if he is telling the truth.

2007-12-23 17:38:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-23 17:37:07 · 2 answers · asked by urs4tostay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well i am havin a lotta problems with parents supposedly going to get a divorce and threatning.. i am havin troubles with friends and makin friends and such and problems with tryin to keep good grades.. i imean its hard with all goin on..

also i have treated friends like **** and i just need to let them know i am terribly sorry and i really am not like dat..i dont know wut came to me.. i just have a lotta stress and such goin on.
i know it was wrong. please just forgive me. it is the right thing to do.

does anybody have any advice on parents gettin a divorce? and friends? and school problems and such? if u do it wuld be great. cuz i just cant get thru dis..especially on my own..

2007-12-23 17:35:34 · 3 answers · asked by Emily H 2 in Friends

i really like this gut at my school and just recently i found out he likes me but wants to get to know me better before we go out, he's kinda hard to talk to him so, you have to really try to even get one word out of him, so what would be a good way to become good friends with him without coming on too strong

2007-12-23 17:33:37 · 1 answers · asked by jaslkdfj 2 in Singles & Dating

you found some naked pictures of your husband in a file on the computer?

2007-12-23 17:33:18 · 7 answers · asked by Stacies Mom 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband have not been getting along for sometime. However, I have been trying to work it out because we have 2 small children together (18 months & 5 weeks old). Amongst mysterious hotel receipts, secret strip club visits and unaccounted for ATM withdrawels I found out through a friend that he was on match...

2007-12-23 17:29:54 · 4 answers · asked by jazzygirl1020 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How long does it take to fully trust that person again or does it depend?

2007-12-23 17:28:20 · 9 answers · asked by God Bless America!~ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a guy, early 30s, with a good education, job, and have been told that I'm pretty decent looking. I love to make people laugh and want to be social, but always had trouble making friends because of self-doubt -- I have a stutter in my speech and in my early days, I would rather stay quiet than go through the embarrassment of stuttering in front of crowds. Ironically, now I'm in a consulting job with a top-tier strategy firm (after getting my MBA) that requires me to talk a lot on the job, and I'm not sure how successful I will be. I've been single for a few years now.

Anyways, all my friends from school are married with kids and I'm not even close to having a girlfriend. My classmates at school actually ranked me as one of "hottest" guys on campus, but I haven't had much luck with girls (other than one-night stands -- haven't had meaningful relationships for a while, although I've tried). If I visit family, they keep asking why I'm single. I'm sick of it. Anyone else alone & blue?

2007-12-23 17:24:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife just said ''I'm the one who looks after you''.

I said ''Er, no, I look after you''

She said 'How?'

Help me here..

2007-12-23 17:23:35 · 7 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so there is this guy that i like. he is in only one of my classes. i never get a chance to talk to him. he is super duper cute. when i am around him though he seems to kind of like me. idk. boys, when you like a girl do you smile and kind of give a shy laugh? for secret santa in that class he got my name and got me lip gloss too.........does that mean something? i hope it does. i really want him to ask me out. so, boys and girls tell me. how can i get this guy to notice me more? if he does like me how come he isnt asking me out?!!

2007-12-23 17:19:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is one girl in my office who looks at me quite often.
The problem is that my workstation is not facing her workstation(I mean it faces backwards).So even if she looks at me she could look me from behind & most of the time I do n't even come to know that. One of my friends have told me that she looks at me quite often.Another friend told me that she was asking about me. She had once given me a smile.We both have never spoken to each other.

Could u plz interpret & analyze the situation

Plz help me .......

I only need serious,logical & anlaytical answers.

2007-12-23 17:16:12 · 210 answers · asked by STEVE 3 in Singles & Dating

We text an stuff sometimes an were kinda matez!!

2007-12-23 17:15:58 · 186 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been going out with my girlfriend for a month and just recently she has brought up that she monopolizes the conversations and that she wants me to talk more. But i really like to listen and reply back to wat she says. When i try to think of sumthings to say or try to talk about sumthing i cant.

what do i do?

2007-12-23 17:15:55 · 96 answers · asked by skankerkid 1 in Singles & Dating

have you ever wondered about your contacts and who they might be? Maybe the girl next door or the next serial killer...

2007-12-23 17:15:23 · 6 answers · asked by nomorecapri 5 in Friends

Ok, I dont have as much as money as I did last year on Christmas. I only have $5 or so, so what can I get her? Something thoughtful & nice. Plz help me out.

2007-12-23 17:15:18 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family