Family & Relationships - 23 December 2007

I met her one day in the cafeteria, and ever since then we bacame the bestest of friends. I've been flirting with her for the last month and i think that she likes me because of her actions, but she keeps on telling me who she thinks is hot. but then at the same time i think shes flirting with me. Please help! Also, if i do ask her out i'm afraid of losing her as my friend. We're really good friends and i'm afraid of losing that relationship between us.

2007-12-23 15:58:07 · 19 answers · asked by Vincent 3 in Singles & Dating

Is there anyone who is married to someone and the age different is 10+? I am just wondering if it could work out and what are some of the problems. Not in that kind of relationship yet, just thinking bout it. Thanks

2007-12-23 15:58:01 · 13 answers · asked by Randy W 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I wouldn't say I'm spoiled but I wouldn't say I am deprived either, but when I get straight A's, I expect something in return. My friend usually gets a B or two, but this semester, she got all A's. Her parents gave her $100. I asked my mom, and she said that I have somewhere to sleep tonight. I am just asking if it is fair that my friend, who gets A's occasionally gets rewarded and I, who consistantly is receiving A's doesn't get anything. I feel that since I work hard all the time, it is not a big deal when I succeed. Whereas my friend works hard once and gets soo much.Is this fair or am I asking to much?

2007-12-23 15:57:00 · 13 answers · asked by Ashley P 2 in Family

My husband is currently in jail right now. I am eight months pregnant with his child and so far it has been rough, thanks to him. He is an alcoholic and throughout my pregnancy there's been many occasions where he'd loose his job, not come home at night, not cheating but out in the bar or passed out somwhere, or I'd come home to a drunk husband after a long night at work. We talked about two days ago after getting his one phone call from jail which he's in there for a misdmeanor but he's finally promising me to get the help he needs and that once he gets out which will probably be in a couple weeks he is going to do everything he can to get help and do what he's got to do now. A part of me is so mad at him and I feel I can't trust him. I really do love him though. Unfortunately his childhood was very horrible which is the main reason he is the way he is. As his wife, what am I supposed to do?? He's promised me this before, but he's finally hit rock bottom now......

2007-12-23 15:56:01 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay i know this question may be weird. why women or girl must cook, tidy home or do some work at home? and what if women or girl can't do that?? and last question why women must make-up????

2007-12-23 15:54:46 · 8 answers · asked by sweetgurlz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how much does your hubby do around the house? how many hours a week does he work? do you stay at home or work yourself? how many kids do you have? does he work normal hours or grave-yards?

thanks... your helping settle an arguement. =)

2007-12-23 15:53:20 · 21 answers · asked by <3 3 in Marriage & Divorce

like having conversations about who, what, when, where, how, how she feel and ****...just stuff that is no one's business

2007-12-23 15:50:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am wondering why does men like to look for mistress. I just wondering to know what is the actual reason behind. No matter how pretty and how good the wife is! I guess it must be some interesting to find out more!

2007-12-23 15:49:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he was my best friend of three years.
i broke his heart.
he broke mine.
we grew apart so fast.
so it's been months since we've personally talked after being nearly inseperable for so long. i never knew how much i relied on him, how much i actually need him.
for the past three months he has been in the back of my mind every minute of every day. it's been complete hell. i ache in places i had no idea i had.
i feel pathetic because it seems like he is doing fine. he has a girl friend now, and i want to let him go, but at the same time i'm scared.
i told him i was in love with him a month or two ago, he said he didn't feel the same. but then he told my friend that the after math of saying that was horrible (whatever that means.)
but there's this nagging feeling inside me that this isn't the end.
i have no idea what to do. i really just want it all to end.
he loved me so much, how can that just end?

2007-12-23 15:48:08 · 1 answers · asked by Sara 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 16 and I found out today that my mom has told a lot of people about all of the "trouble" I'm causing her! But I''m not really doing anything wrong. She told them that me and boyfriend were having sex, which we are, but that isn't anyone's business since it's my relationship and not there's. We were at a Christmas party today and a lot of her friends ganged up on me telling me I should stop having sex or I'll end up pregnant. And some of them are telling me that my mom doesn't want to be a grandmother so I should stop seeing my boyfriend for her sake! They have some nerve saying that to me! And I can't believe she would even tell her stupid friends that. The only reason I told her is because when she asked I looked guilty and that told her everything. It seems like she would take me to get birth control now instead of having her friends gang up on me. What is her problem anyway?

2007-12-23 15:47:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

And........what is the best thing they can do?

2007-12-23 15:46:57 · 5 answers · asked by Love and Happiness 2 in Family

I told my boyfriend if he didn't do something I wanted, he couldn't touch me anymore. He told me not to be ridiculous and swatted my ***. It was something pretty silly. What should I do?
What do you think he thinks now?

2007-12-23 15:45:41 · 18 answers · asked by crc00000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-23 15:45:38 · 23 answers · asked by !!BamBam's Mom!! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive heard that some men like that sort of thing....

2007-12-23 15:45:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-23 15:42:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-23 15:41:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like.. keeping her room clean.. showering everyday... not leaving the house looking like a slob...
she also always loses her socks and underwear, god knows where they go i always find them everywhere.
how can i get a sense of hygenine and organization in her? help her set up a schedule? like.. shower every morning, put dirty socks and underwear in a special place? we live together and this has got to stop.

2007-12-23 15:40:35 · 14 answers · asked by Me 1 in Family

2007-12-23 15:40:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1st time I had friendship w/a professor gone desperate. I was as fault, but my mom still called him the devil. Then I had a boyfriend, he only stayed sober while we were dating, mom didn't like him but afterwards says that she really did like him. Now I like this man that has all the right stuff and she doesn't what to hear it. I don't have my mom's support for this area of my life. Can anyone offer objective advice?

2007-12-23 15:38:29 · 3 answers · asked by aletheiapneuma 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i need some help here, my x is acting really wierd around me, me and her talk hang out, but when i asked her a question she changed the subject fairly quickly, and the question was, if me and her would ever be together any time soon. i mean when ever i ask her that she'll change that subject, i even had her bff try and get it out of her but she changes the subject on her as well? so if you under stand this question than please HELP...thanx...

2007-12-23 15:37:54 · 3 answers · asked by spikex02boy 1 in Friends

2007-12-23 15:37:28 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have $1500.00 and a new car and i just broke up with my girl of 6 years !! i feel like i just got to get far away from here !! before i do something nuts !! i spent a few days in agusta georgia last year i like it there but i dont know anyone there!! should i go i dont know !!!!!

2007-12-23 15:37:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my ex and i r having problems. i'm not going to forget him cus in the past he was my closest guy friend ever. hes now mad at me for some reason and hes making up excuses. hes saids hes not mad or anything when he cusses and yells at me when i wanna talk too him. help?

2007-12-23 15:36:06 · 13 answers · asked by lil hottie<3 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-23 15:35:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tomorrow is Christmas Eve and of course that's the day for the WHOLE family to get together. I don't mind this, because I'm not a scrooge and I enjoy Christmas just as much as the next person but...it's some of my family that I don't enjoy seeing. Half of them are snobs and act like the world revolves around them. I always try my best to be nice, but it's pretty obvious that they don't like me and I don't like them. Frankly, I know that some of them judge me for my past and they don't seem to understand that I'm not that person anymore. I've been dealing with alot of things lately that's made me feel depressed and I'm trying to deal with everything in the best way that I know how, but I just feel like seeing them tomorrow will make me pull my hair out. How can I get through it without losing my mind in the process?

2007-12-23 15:32:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i mean seriously WTF?

2007-12-23 15:29:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Fell in love with this one guy in 7th grade. Broke up with me bc he thought he didnt like me anymore. Dated other guys that lasted only 1 month. They all left me. Then dated two guys that lasted for four months and then I didnt want them anymore but couldn't let go, now this is the third guy, same situation. Somethings wrong with me. It is more than not wanting to let go because right now with the third guy, I was calling him and he wouldnt pick up and I broke down because I felt scared he just left me hanging [traumatized from the past]. And I get kindaa angry if I call him and he's with his friends and I was expecting him to come over. You see? Its just strange. I dont get whats up with me, really I dont. :( Now Im in 11th grade.
Whats this pattern?

2007-12-23 15:28:46 · 2 answers · asked by Melanie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-23 15:28:34 · 17 answers · asked by JOhn 1 in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering how a white/asian guy would think of me. I'm a mixed girl. I'm a little light skinned, thicky thick girl. a lot of guys say they think i'm beatiful. they're all latinos and black. i don't know if they compliment the way i look just to get in my pants or if they really think i'm a pretty girl. i hope it's the truth. but anyway, i was thinking i would like to date a white guy. maybe even an asian. but i don't think that would ever happen. i work with a bunch of white guys and asian guys. they all seem to be into the blondes with blue eyes and who are a size zero.

2007-12-23 15:28:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this girl that i like in high school, but im not really sure if she likes me back. We sometimes hang out together and we seem to always have a blast when we do. I asked her out on a date not to long ago, but she said that she couldn't because she had her friends birthday. Now I dont know what to do.

2007-12-23 15:27:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating