my ex and i r having problems. i'm not going to forget him cus in the past he was my closest guy friend ever. hes now mad at me for some reason and hes making up excuses. hes saids hes not mad or anything when he cusses and yells at me when i wanna talk too him. help?
2007-12-23 15:36:06 · 13 answers · asked by lil hottie<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ya alcohol or sad music usually gets a gui=y all emotional
gl with the dude and happy holidays : )
2007-12-23 15:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by Nic B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he's mad. Some guys are hard to get their feelings out because they are so called "macho types". Tell him that the way to respect you is not to yell and curse at you because there is no reason for it. If that doesn't work, let some time pass by and try again. If that doesn't work, ignore him and let him go to you. Don't try too hard.
2007-12-23 15:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by Sun Shine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes got somethin buggin him, my opinion you cant get him to open up right away. try to tell him things about yourself mabey, open up to him. mabey he willl start to feel more comfratible
If this fails, then try to assume whats wrong, then you will be able to tell by his facial expressions. sometimes guys just go threw a low stage because of hormonal issues.
All in all try to make him feel comfratible and back off when you know you are invading his space. Over time he will start to open up :) hope tihs help a little.
2007-12-23 15:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off. Don't allow people to cus and yell at you, I don't care who they are, just leave him alone. Obviously, he does not want to talk, that is a clue.
2007-12-23 15:39:37 · answer #4 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alcohol.
2007-12-23 15:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by diomedes44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't feel like talking to you. Leave him alone for awhile and see what happens.
2007-12-23 15:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by Mariana Straits 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone for a while. He'll talk when he feel more comfortable.
2007-12-23 15:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by elge13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could try writing him a letter...... or if you have someone who could be the third party in your conversation maybe... otherwise it sounds like you might be in sticky situation
good luck
2007-12-23 15:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by soren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your friends who also know him and ask on behalf of u....dont pour flammable things into burning spots
2007-12-23 15:40:56 · answer #9 · answered by yo2iv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can we have a chat in yahoomessanger
samratkalinga@yahoo.com
2007-12-23 15:39:36 · answer #10 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋