I met her one day in the cafeteria, and ever since then we bacame the bestest of friends. I've been flirting with her for the last month and i think that she likes me because of her actions, but she keeps on telling me who she thinks is hot. but then at the same time i think shes flirting with me. Please help! Also, if i do ask her out i'm afraid of losing her as my friend. We're really good friends and i'm afraid of losing that relationship between us.
2007-12-23 15:58:07 · 19 answers · asked by Vincent 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think she likes you. but keep in mind that relationships will ruin friendships. and for me, friendships are betterr :] but thats just my opinionn.
hoope this helps
2007-12-23 16:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by ms.problemsolver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Billy loved Katie with all his heart. But he never told a Single soul. Katie secretly loved him too. But she thought she would never have a chance with him. Billy asked his friends what they think of her and they didn't like her at all. So Billy just went along with them. One day they followed her home from school making fun of her the whole way home. Once she got inside her house she dropped to the floor cringe. She had a crush on Billy since 3rd grade. She didn't know what to do. When Billy got home he felt real bad about what he had done. So he decided to go to Katie's house to tell her he was sorry and that he really loves her. When he got there he knocked on the door no one answered. The door was open so he walked in. He walked into the living room and found Katie lying dead on the floor. Billy was so upset . He knew it was his fault she killed herself. And now he could never tell her how he really felt.
Ok maybe your situation isn't like this one very much, but TELL her cause she probably does like you.......and if she doesn't then how are you ever going to know??? I seem to like to talk about other guys when I am around guys I like too
You should ask her out because it most likely will not ruin your friendship and you do not want to go throughout every day wondering and wishing you had asked her if she really liked you
Please save yourself, do yourself a favor
hope this helped :)
~Kels
2007-12-24 00:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by thats pretty spiffy!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything silly.You friendship with her is invaluable.I think , just allow the things to to take its natural shape....why hurry through.....there's no point .In fact , you also started the relationship just to flirt with her .If she is doing the same with you now, just accept it as it is. You don't lose anything.If at all she also likes you the way you do , it will be apparent very soon.You don't have to spell out your feelings for her.....at least , now.Give sufficient time to mature your friendship in a firm shape and then you will know yourself when to express your thoughts about her.
Wish you all the best.
2007-12-24 00:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...it could be that you are misinterpreting her actions and she is just being nice.
Or she might be trying to make you jealous- I would never do that but some girls do.
Remember that you can think a guy is hot but not like him.
Ask some of her girl friends who she likes or how she feels about you.
2007-12-24 00:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by k_maxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling you who she thinks is hot is a form of flirting! It's how girls play "hard to get." I'd say she definitely likes you. And if she does and you two go out, it will only improve your already awesome relationship!
2007-12-24 00:04:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that when she's telling you that someone is hot, she is looking for your reaction. She is looking for signs whether you really like her or not. She jus wants to make you jealous. Why don't you make her jealous as well? If you see that she is jealous, then that's a sign that she likes you back then you wont be afraid to tell her your feelings
2007-12-24 00:02:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u r sure that this girl is flirting with u.. give it a go man. nothing will happen if dont do anything .give it a try.Who knows she may even like u and may be feeling the same way as you are. give it a go
2007-12-24 00:02:40 · answer #7 · answered by Mystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will regret it when she gets a boyfriend and has no time for you.?Tell her how you feel...she sounds like a good girl.Most of the time best friends make the very best b/f, g/f relationships...and even if you split you often remain very good friends...
2007-12-24 00:04:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has happened to me.
i liked my best friend that was a guy for over two years.
we would flirt allll the time but he never asked me out.
and he finally did. and i said yes! but we broke up and are still very very good friends. = ]
2007-12-24 00:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by ashley. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you because when I tell the guys I like who I like that means I am wait on him to ask me do you like me and most of the time that happeneds ask her out
2007-12-24 00:02:23 · answer #10 · answered by Jasmine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just follow the three steps of a healthy relationship. 1) have sex with her 2) get to know her 3) break up with her
2007-12-25 21:44:02 · answer #11 · answered by Russell M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋