Family & Relationships - 23 December 2007

2007-12-23 14:26:03 · 14 answers · asked by Billy Hughes 1 in Family

I like one of my coworkers. We have worked together for a little over a year and we always have a great time. We have gone out with groups from work several times and she always hangs around me and wants me to dance with her. I am going to be starting a new job in a month or two and wont see her that often anymore since we wont be working together so when I was talking with her on the phone the other night about a concert we are going to next month I kind of sprung the question would you like to go out some time on her. I could tell it really cought her off guard and she said maybe and then went on to tell me that she has had alot of bad relationships (a couple had kids, one ended up in jail, and one in a mental institution). We ended the conversation there. I have worked with her alot since then and gone out with her a couple times and she still seems comfortable around me. We talk and joke around and she is still always trying to get me to dance with her.

2007-12-23 14:25:49 · 2 answers · asked by Joe H 2 in Singles & Dating

How is that at splitting everything 50% ? You cannot add if you think that is equal?

2007-12-23 14:24:53 · 13 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Singles & Dating

i'm a generally nice person, friendly, smart, ambitious and thus far accomplished. i'm shy at first but when i open up i'm really funny and all that good stuff. i don't think i'm pretty but people have told me that i am and that i have a great body, etc. (i was very insecure when younger and i guess that still lingers). i have had guys who stare at me when i go out, guys who have had crushes on me throughout the yrs.....
but i've never had a bf. i'm in college. what's wrong with me?

2007-12-23 14:22:11 · 18 answers · asked by abby j 5 in Singles & Dating

yeah It will be two years that my mom died in jan of 06. But the last time I saw her and the last memory of her was on Christmas Eve... pasted out on the couch half drugged up. Not a good memory. I don't no if this is really a question. I no I only can let go but I don't no if I'm not letting go because it's the last memory and image in my mind of her before I found out she was dead.. any opinion or help.... I miss her so much...:(

2007-12-23 14:17:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I really like this girl. Shes 18, I'm 19...neither of us have had a BF/GF... She drives me crazy... when i see her at church, in SS, when none of her family is around, she'll smile and laugh at me, look at me alot, etc... When i see her around her family (her parents are WAY overprotective, to a point where its actually a bad thing, and her little siblings tattle on EVERYTHING), she doesnt really talk to me/ look at me, and almost seems to avoid me... We talk a bit around them, but mostly only briefly...Its like two different world, like night and day difference... Shes not the "playing" type, so dont get the wrong idea.

Also, if I see her when shes alone/ stop to talk to her at her work, she's shy/ nervous, until i joke around/ make her laugh, then she opens up. Am i reading too much into nothing, or is she just afraid of judgement from her parents (mainly her mother)?

Opinions? I can give more specific details/ situations that confused me mainly, if interested.

2007-12-23 14:16:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that has horrible body odor. Unfortunately, I haven't had the guts to tell her. I just don't know the right way to approach it. She is quite sensitive and I feel that I'll hurt her feelings if I don't handle it properly.

2007-12-23 14:15:21 · 19 answers · asked by Talkstress 6 in Friends

Ok, i've had it up to here with being single. I am 18 and I have never had a girlfriend. I've never kissed in my life and I've never even seen boobs in the flesh.

Problem is there is no way a guy like me can find a girl on an island like this. the girls here suck, they are close-minded, boring and it takes a girl 6 months here ona varage to move to base 2. Could ALL the girls be like that? Yes, that's what happens when you live on a small island, everyone is the same.

Another thing is that most girls i've met are 'scared' of being in a long relationship. So what am I sopposed to do? go in a relationship which I am for certain it's not going to work out? no thanks.

I've already tought it over to 'fix' myself and get rid of this sexual urge. I'm 6 years past my ******* puberty god dammit.

2007-12-23 14:13:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a friendly guy...I feel good meeting new people and make friends..I meet some new friends and we were having a good conversation..
I talked equally well and the conversation went well for an hour...we were just chilling and chit chatting getting to know eah other well..

Now someone in the group said "you are a calm guy like one of my friend in Chicago"

My question is:
If I talk good and I am not silent then why I am called calm..

then what is the diffference between calm and silent??

I use my hands tomake guestures and I bet it makes me look energetic atleast to some extent..

So I talk good, maintain a good conversation and look energetic enough to nod head and make guestures..

then why am I sometimes get this 'you look like a calm person" comment ...please help me understand what that means actually!?

2007-12-23 14:12:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

It has been two months and he says it was a big mistake, but I'm still having trust issues. Me questioning him all the time is making things worse. Guys- is talking to girls online serious? And girls- what would you do?

2007-12-23 14:09:22 · 25 answers · asked by Lynnesky 2 in Singles & Dating

idk what to do. im white btw and im not attracted to white guys at all!!! and my family doesnt approve of interracial dating. but i dont want to end up with someone i dont really love because i want to please them. ..any advice?

2007-12-23 14:08:35 · 21 answers · asked by xolifeislove 1 in Singles & Dating

I was taken from my mom when i was young.there was 4 of us .They put use in two differnt homes and i was just looking for the last 2 of us.So if anyone knows a sight that could help i would apperact it

2007-12-23 14:04:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My friend is going to propose his girl tomorrow and he feels that getting down on one knee in a restaurant is corny and cliche...since I ave the task of picking the restaurant they go to ....I am supposed to pick one where there is no possibility of them going back to and where no one would recognise him.....is he wrong...

2007-12-23 14:01:05 · 44 answers · asked by The Saint 1 in Weddings

In advance I THANK YOU!
My friends And I were talking and decided to take this conversation to the people.
Express your thoughts on this please, You'll say that;
A good leader leads by
Example or
Truth?
I believe you can help me and my friends bring this issue to the light.

2007-12-23 14:00:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i hate my cousin she yells at me she thinks she is so popular she also laughs at me bc i have pimples

2007-12-23 13:58:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i recenty did a singing concert and i had three rehersals with a band and i thought the guitarist was hot but we never spoke, the concert was a few days ago and it all went well, and after when i was walking out the guitarist turns to me and says hey you did really well in your song, i said aw thanks you too then i walked off, and i cant stop thinking about him now, it doesnt take much for me to like someone, im 14 but almost 15 and my friend thinks hes like 20! but no way i think hes about 16 or 17. in a week when the place opens agin i will ring them for his number because i need to ask him if its ok for me to put the footage of the concert on the internet, please help, what shouldi say to him on the phone thats flirty but not desprete? and i want no answers of people saying i shoudl stay away form him becaus eim too young or stick to my studes as alot of peopel say. thankyouuuuuuuu

2007-12-23 13:54:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently seperated from my fiance about 3 months ago, during that time I guess I got lonely and started seeing this other guy. I never gotten completely over my ex even though I seperated from him because of cheating issues on his part. I still love him and want to be with him its just a matter of rebuild the trust if I can and Ive been afraid to give it another try. He keeps telling me he has changed and he wants to be with me. He never physically cheated on me but he had online flirting relationships with women, recieving inappropriate pictures. Now I have this other guy in the picture and he is so sweet to me and he is so much fun to be around he could be a great boyfriend, he is trying to be patient. I really like him at the same time and would like to get to know him better I just dont know how I would fit in his life he is twice my age. I feel like I have made a mess I am torn between two guys. I like him yet I still love my ex, and I dont know who to move forward with.

2007-12-23 13:52:01 · 3 answers · asked by ecuaprincessachi 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend of 40 years severed our friendship in a Christmas card, we live in different states and were casually writing, well her letter was quite nasty saying what an awful friend I was and it hurt my feelings, but I did not respond, although I wanted to say something mean and nasty, I just ignored it. Now that it is Christmas again, the hurt feelings are back and I want to send her a nasty note. I guess i'm venting, but what do you think I should do? Just forget her forever? I know I should be over it and honestly I haven't thought about it for months.

2007-12-23 13:50:14 · 23 answers · asked by snowwillow20 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am going insane over here......I often hear people say that you cannot really love someone unless you trust them. I beg to differ. I love my boyfriend to DEATH. I would do absolutely anything for him and I REALLY want to be with him. But I DON'T trust him. Here's Why: We broke up a couple of months ago and he immediately began messing around with his ex. It bothered me because I felt he didn't even give us anytime to be apart first. Well. A month or two passed and he tried to get back with me, implying that his ex was just a "rebound" because he had so much on his mind and blah blah blah.....anyway. I forgave him for acting so nonchalant and being a total and complete asshole about everything and making all those stupid choices...but I cannot forget. Today is his birthday and when I called he didn't answer. he called back after 2 hours (very unusual) and told me he fell asleep after one of his guy friends bought him out to eat and to the mall.. I Do Not believe him.


He has definitely been letting his actions speak for him and his intentions seem to be good, but I just can't trust him no matter how hard I try........has anyone ever had to regain their trust with you and if so, how long did it take and how did you shake those feelings of resentment?

2007-12-23 13:49:45 · 2 answers · asked by Tnisha 1 in Family

I am going insane over here......I often hear people say that you cannot really love someone unless you trust them. I beg to differ. I love my boyfriend to DEATH. I would do absolutely anything for him and I REALLY want to be with him. But I DON'T trust him. Here's Why: We broke up a couple of months ago and he immediately began messing around with his ex. It bothered me because I felt he didn't even give us anytime to be apart first. Well. A month or two passed and he tried to get back with me, implying that his ex was just a "rebound" because he had so much on his mind and blah blah blah.....anyway. I forgave him for acting so nonchalant and being a total and complete asshole about everything and making all those stupid choices...but I cannot forget. Today is his birthday and when I called he didn't answer. he called back after 2 hours (very unusual) and told me he fell asleep after one of his guy friends bought him out to eat and to the mall.. I Do Not believe him.


He has definitely been letting his actions speak for him and his intentions seem to be good, but I just can't trust him no matter how hard I try........has anyone ever had to regain their trust with you and if so, how long did it take and how did you shake those feelings of resentment?

2007-12-23 13:48:59 · 45 answers · asked by Tnisha 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was shocked by a recent question from a 6th grader (11 years old) regarding a boy and dating.

At what age are kids actually going out now and do parents get involved in this? I can't believe a parent would allow a 6th grader to go out by themselves, would they?

2007-12-23 13:47:36 · 32 answers · asked by MadforMAC 7 in Singles & Dating

They all say happy holidays.

2007-12-23 13:46:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i know im young but ive had two serious relationships of 3 years and recently 1 year. both girls have broke my heart. i hate being single i get afaird that i wont find someone else.my friends say im attractive but i still get nervous i wont find someone.my last girlfriend dosent want a bf anymore but every few days she will call me or text me saying she misses me. so it gives me hope we can get back together then i wont hear from her for days. do you think she is playing with my head? i want to get over her but i keep calling her and driving by her house to see if shes home. i hate being alone

2007-12-23 13:45:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do girls think of bodybuilders??? ive been training alote but im not really a bodybuilder but just really fit i would like to become one but i kinda find that nasty to be so big and most girls tell me that dont like bodybuilders so thats pretty much why i dont push it to the next level but i just want to know what other girls think???

2007-12-23 13:45:13 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

i admitt. i was in the wrong . i had never cheated on my husband . but i was filled with this other man.s lies and cheated on my now .ex. husband and he divorced me over it. i lay awake at night thinking how stupit and silly i was . my .ex. was always good to me but i just cant forget him . he wont even answer his phone i have called pleading to him just talk to me .he wont you never know how much i miss him but over what i did it was very wrong to. do him like what had happened .he never brought this up in court when we was divorced about the other man at all he just said wish you the best. ibelived the other man telling me he truley loved me what a lie. i fell for that hook .line as well sinker. but to late when i truley trusted him once he got what he wanted he was gone. and he was 10.years younger than me how stupid i was over what i haad lost my. man. family. friends. over it. why cant he my.ex. just say hi. on his phone i miss him deepley. and now see how much i really loved him

2007-12-23 13:43:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I
ok so I wanna surprise my guy and showed up on his doorstep naked he has no roomates BUT he lives in an apartment where neighbors are close by should i do it

GUYS if your girl did that how would u react

GUys if u saw a nude girl on your neighbors doorstep what would u do

2007-12-23 13:42:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in 6th grade and there is this boy I really like and he knows I like him. My friend also knew I liked him, but when he asked her out, she said yes. I really want him to break up with her and ask me out. What should I do?

2007-12-23 13:41:06 · 20 answers · asked by coolnerdpopular 2 in Singles & Dating

im 16...? i like 1 girl which is in our class i love her too much . i dont know wheather she loves me or want to be my friend . i dont know wat to do to make her frnd .

2007-12-23 13:39:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance is sort of religious (Lutheran) and I am really a Wiccan, but I tell him that I am an Athiest.

And I was wondering what sort of wedding we should have, like how can we combine it considering that I don't have the same beliefs as him...actually, he doesn't know my true beliefs.

Do you think that he would be suprised if I told him that I was Wiccan?

And how can we combine our religious beliefs into our wedding?

2007-12-23 13:35:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

me and hubby agreed we would cook christmas eve dinner together...my mother in law came over earlier to drop of presents... and she asked if we wanted her to cook for us and i said no ... i went to the store to get some drinks and snacks..and when i came back she was cooking our meals ! i asked hubby what was going on and he said that when i left to go to the shops..she got upset and started saying that i hate her cooking thats why i didnt want her cooking and so on..and hubby felt sorry for her and told her she could do it.

i got upset at both of them ... and my hubby is saying im over reacting.

she isnt even having dinner with us..its just going to be me hubby and our son..and we're going to her house like 2 days after because she's wanted to spend it with her friends instead.

dont say it took the stress of me cooking..because i was looking forward to doing it..this would of been my first christmas eve dinner i would have cooked at our new house.
what do you think?

2007-12-23 13:34:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce