Family & Relationships - 23 December 2007

I want one1

2007-12-23 12:44:44 · 8 answers · asked by Fufu Head 4 in Singles & Dating

one of my sons, left in 1992 in an accident, and I am still sufering an cring, I dont now whaT CAN I DO

2007-12-23 12:43:59 · 12 answers · asked by eluna46 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

or alone?

2007-12-23 12:42:06 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a guys tells a girl he isn't looking for a serious relationship...but tells her alot that he misses her & when she doesn't call him, then he questions why she hasn't...what is he doing? What does he want? If he really & truly doesn't want to be serious yet, then does he want her to call/text him all the time & seem really interested or does he want her to back off a little & only call/text him every few days or so? I'm a little confused. He said he isn't looking to be serious right now but we talk everyday & he wants to see me Christmas. I try not to be clingy but we didn't talk for one day & he was wondering why I didn't call him. Can you guys help me figure this one out? When I speak of "him" I am referring to my friend w/benefits.

2007-12-23 12:41:20 · 4 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Singles & Dating

i am a girl and i was mastu****ing in my room and then my brother came in and asked if i was ok because he probably heard me i was loud. i thought he wasnt home but he was and now idk what to do? im really freaked out and i dont wanna face him what do i do?

2007-12-23 12:41:06 · 4 answers · asked by I want to TALK to you <3 ;) 1 in Family

I will retire in a year and move here permanent. My GF seems quite content and obviousuly I am pleases with the situation. She doesn't seem to notice the body and even conisders the extra weight as being a sign of health. I guess that means that I can eat well. The fact that I can't make it up a flight of stairs without getting winded seems to raise no concern.

Clearly my abiity to provide a far better lifestyle and future even after i am gone are big players here but there are some other probably lesser factors involved also.

This is not an uncommon occurance here in the Philippines. Basically a 63 YO guy with a 19 YO girlfriend draws no special interest. Possibly a look of uneasy humor from some of the local Pinoy (males).

I wonder what the long term result of such a relationsihp might be. Well - long term being within my life time.

2007-12-23 12:36:51 · 16 answers · asked by Moondog 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 29 years old and i have two twin girls who are 2. My husband and i take care of them but he is a doctor and he lately he has been at work alot leaving me to take care of the twins. and he brought up the topic of more kids, i just said i cant talk about this now. what should i do? i dont know how to say it. no smart *** answers plz.

2007-12-23 12:35:58 · 18 answers · asked by Have you got it in you? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it traditional to give your new husband/wife a gift? If so, is it given before or after the ceremony?

What is a typical gift for a groom? Also, how much is spent on average?

2007-12-23 12:35:22 · 8 answers · asked by Why? 5 in Weddings

Ok so some of the questions I have asked in the past on here I have gotten some really rude comments back to. I dont understand why people have to respond with a..hole answers on here. All you people that do that its just not called for, dont think your cool just cuz you can go crazy with the Keyboard. Why cant you just give some helpful answers. Thats what most people use this for, so they can get help. NOT STUPID MEAN AND HEARTLESS RESPONSES... Well anyways I would love to know how to email these jerk offs back. But I'm just computer stupid. I'm sure I'm still gonna get some a..hole responses back but w/e...

2007-12-23 12:34:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a friend of mine is getting married next week, and then moving to australia. with that in mind, what would be a good gift for them? they're in their early 20's.

2007-12-23 12:33:57 · 6 answers · asked by lillejetaime 1 in Weddings

I am a hopeless romantic.
My bf wrote some sweet things in my card.
I am hopeless with coming up with things like what he wrote:
"I am very fortunate to have met you"
"I look forward to spending more Christmas' with you and i hope we grow old together"

Girls what would you write?

2007-12-23 12:33:13 · 8 answers · asked by Glamourous_Girl 5 in Singles & Dating

I have met this guy about about a month ago and the first night he was interested in me but I want his flat mate who takes advantage of me and not meaning to,i've known him for nearly 5months now. His lituanian. We had sex twise and spent time together lots of times and our friendship was good but he asks me for loans and offers me pleasure which I love but feel ashamed about.One night he admited that I had either fallen inlove with me or that he was inlove with me but this was nealy 4months and a half ago before he changed flats.He'd give me that sexy look and smile and feed me sometimes with his money and we kissed alot more than we had pleasure,so even the days without pleasure we kissed but when I ask him he says he loves me soo much but as a friend and confessed that he has been infatuating about a girl he met in a niteclub with his friend who he never touched but recently misses her and wants to be with her.He started being with her 4/6 weeks after we had sex and I want him...?

2007-12-23 12:32:28 · 4 answers · asked by conwayrockchick 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know. Maybe it's just my age group. But, I can't find anybody with real thoughts and feelings anymore. I know people like my friends and family are okay, just because I know i can trust them. But, I've had several relationships that have all been the same way. Everybody has to play a game. No one can just tell you how they feel anymore. Dose anybody else have this problem?

2007-12-23 12:32:18 · 33 answers · asked by corrola_1995 3 in Singles & Dating

my hair is naturally wavy and curls at the end. its brown with a few natural streaks of blonde and red. it long enough to reach my butt when straight, but since 99.9% of the time its reguar curly/wavy, and in a ponytail, its maybe 2 inches above my butt. from what i told you, would you say its pretty?


i swear, im not as superficial as this question makes me sound. if i was, i would probably bother to straighten it or style it rather than put it in a ponytail.

2007-12-23 12:30:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i say egg. You?

2007-12-23 12:27:46 · 12 answers · asked by hi 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy & I(we're like friends w/benefits..I guess would be our "title")usually talk everyday. We've known each other about 2 mos. He said before he isn't trying to look for a serious relationship, but hopefully we could lead up to more. Anyway, I try to not be a clingy girl. So 1 day passed(1) that we didn't talk. He called me Thurs. & then Fri. we didn't talk. Saturday he called me & one of the first things he asked was "why haven't you called me?" I told him I didn't think he had his phone b/c he was supposed to get it fixed b/c he can't get text msgs. He was like "I still have my phone, why haven't you called me?" He wasn't rude...he was just asking. It made me feel like he missed me.(aww) But it also made me wonder why he was sweating the fact we didn't talk for 1 day when he doesn't want serious. Am I doing right by not being clingy & letting him do most of the calling & initiating, etc...since he doesn't want serious? Or should I try & pursue him more than I have?

2007-12-23 12:27:45 · 9 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Singles & Dating

i have this friend who says he loves me more than a friend..i don't know what to say to him or what to respond to his statement,,i already have a boyfriend..it's kind of complicated..i am being paired with this friend of mine when we were about 11-12 y/o..he started calling me "luv"...i said that he should stop calling me like that but he won't stop..what should i do/say to him???...he always play a joke on me, that's why its hard to believe if he is serious or not..

2007-12-23 12:27:38 · 5 answers · asked by honey_106 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a good friend that I like very much but I have a few problems that I don't know how to approach her about. She lives right next to me and finds excuses to come over. Sometimes when I tell her I can't hang out she comes over anyway and stays for hours with my roommates untill I come home. I am pretty sure it is because she is insecure but I am not sure how to talk to her about it. One thing that just recently started to happen is she will invite me to go somewhere and then decide not to go after I have gotten ready and then come over to my house instead.She knows when Im home because she lives so close so I can't lie to try and get space...Please help lol

2007-12-23 12:27:13 · 4 answers · asked by Katharina Reher 1 in Friends

i'm a senior in high school and all through my high school year i'll have feelings for these girls... i talk to them for a while and it feels like i really like them, and then after i get some from them my feelings totally change. i don't mean to be a douche bag, but idk y i'm like this. i always tell myself when i find my love i won't be this way, any advice?

2007-12-23 12:25:59 · 25 answers · asked by jeff ray 1 in Singles & Dating

my teacher wants a report and on how many lesbians im taking a sex class

2007-12-23 12:22:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work out of my living area and only can fly back once or twice a month. My wife is meeting new people, says she is working, but never has any money for bills. Maybe my imagination but she seems concerned when I tell her the dates I am flying back. Should I hire a PI to resolve my concerns?

2007-12-23 12:22:37 · 15 answers · asked by aqua_diente 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend wants me to stick it in her poopar during her period. Should I? I ain't scared of getting feces on my penus or anything.

2007-12-23 12:21:18 · 7 answers · asked by 2-D 1 in Singles & Dating

is it true or is it a myth. can men be loyal or is cheating part of their being.
Can a man be loyal for life....?

2007-12-23 12:18:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Shallow as it seems, after 6 years together my fellas birthday and xmas gifts to me get smaller by the year. in the first year he bought me the world.This year I got a few gifts without...A CARD!! I know he loves me, we spend every night together, and he is not a man for talking about emotions. I am not in it for gifts anyway I love him. But just wondering does this mean anything?

2007-12-23 12:17:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know there are lots of questions similar to mine, and I already browsed for some answers, I've tried
dig - incubus
friends will be friends - queen
you're my best friend - queen..
most of the other stuff that I see are either too cheesy or something that's more for your gf/bf than a friend.. I'm looking for a song that is not cheesy, and not a song that is umm, overused? (like the song from vitamin c or mariah carey songs) i'm looking for a song about good memories or having fun together, not about goodbyes, saying sorry or a broken friendship.. it would be good if the song is fun to listen to, or if possible, rock.. and yeah, it would be best if it sounds like from the band suede.. hehehe.. but any suggestion is fine.. thanks... oh wait, even korean and japanese songs about friendship are welcome also... thanks again...

2007-12-23 12:17:25 · 17 answers · asked by bading 2 in Friends

i am wrapping gifts for my nephew's daughter and didn't know whether to sign it as "great aunt" or what?

2007-12-23 12:16:46 · 11 answers · asked by Steven H 1 in Family

2007-12-23 12:16:23 · 2 answers · asked by leah 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my grandmother who just died who was the real "link" between us and we weren't super close before she died.

I know I need to give him sometime to himself but how long?

Before my grandmother died, I would call every two weeks and talk to her, and go see her about once a month. How often should I try to spend time with him? How often should I call him if he's not much of a talker?

I was semi-close to him, just closer to my grandmother.

Help!

2007-12-23 12:14:29 · 18 answers · asked by Jake 3 in Family

I get sooo jealous of one of my friends, and I find myself copying her city chic style and trying to be like her
She's prettier than me, richer, has better clothes, has had a boyfriend, she has a perfect family and her parents arent divorced, and she is the leader of my group of friends. I used to be the leader than she kindof overshone me and became the leader, so there's something else to be jealous of!


This happened to me with a friend from 4th to 6th grade, (im in 8th now) and It got terrible, so I want to stop this before it gets out of hand.
How can I form my own style instead of being jealous of hers? How can I shine more brightly than her, to become a leader, not a follower? How can I ignore my jealously and focus on myself?

Basically, all I want is to become the leader again and stop being jealous!
As you can tell, I'm overwelmed with this problem, so any advice whatsoever is appreciated.

2007-12-23 12:14:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

who do you think would win in a nude no rules fight between a man and a woman of the same height, weight, and strenght? and how would they win?

2007-12-23 12:14:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating