Family & Relationships - 23 December 2007

Im really great friends with this guy, we have alot in common and get along really amazingly,we flirt all the time and i have always gotten the feeling that he liked me but i never used to consider him romantically
that is until recently...
the problem is one of my close friends has told me that she likes him
at the time i told her i was happy for her but on the inside i felt jealous... i was really confused because i never thought of him in that way before and now i cant stop thinking about him...
i know i should back off for my friends sake but i feel such a connection with him(like ive never felt with anyone before), and i know he feels the connection with me.
i love my friend and i dont want to hurt her
is there anything i can do?

2007-12-23 10:49:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-23 10:42:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Nan has recently died and she kept what seems like years upon years of family photos, i am stuggaling to find a way of being able to store them and keep them safe whilst also finding a way to let people be able to look at them without just sticking them into a box.. Any help would be really apprciated.

2007-12-23 10:41:20 · 4 answers · asked by corrinab2705 3 in Friends

I had a dream last night about this guy i used to have a major crush on, i had a dream that he finally noticed me because i came back to where he was, but i dont know what to thik of it. Im confused, he lives in another country and we dont talk. HELP!!!!!!!! wat do i do about the dream.

2007-12-23 10:39:13 · 17 answers · asked by Princess M 2 in Friends

I really love her and i know she loves me too, but we always have to be hiding from everybody including her family, we made a big mistake, we had sex w/out protection and she got pregnant, she was really scared she told her aunt, what was going on between us and that she was pregnant. Her sister asked her have an abortion i ask her to marry me she aborted the baby that's when we split and after 2 yrs we met again she told me she was sorry, she said that she regrets what she did she also show me that she still loves me but still can't be with me. I thought about what is going on with us and i really love her. We met a few other time and we agree not to see each other anymore for a long time. to see if what we feel is real love she said she might marry me in 5 or 6 yrs when we're ready but until then she told me to live my life normally and if i find somebody else she wants me to be happy, also she ask me to forgive her if she marries somebody else but i don't think she meant it.

2007-12-23 10:37:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-23 10:37:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright well. My girlfriend's usually very very modest.

Sex is definantly not her top priority O_o. I know for a fact that, she's a virgin like me, and she's actually dumped guys, who wanted sex with her.

However, we've been together for a year or so now, and we both want to marry soon. But today was very odd.

I'm currently in England right now, and was on Messenger. She came on, and she was extremely strange O_o. I was quite shocked by this and I tested her for information, and she told me things, only we would know O_o.

She then was asking for me to talk dirty to her, and to moan sexually. Initially I kinda refused (no i'm not gay or frigid), as I didn't really expect this from her and was kinda embarassed, she then lured me back in with odd sweet talk O_o.

I guess what's really weird here, is that she told me she only wanted to have sex when she was married, or engaged, as she didn't want men running off once they took her virginity...

was she horny O_o?

2007-12-23 10:35:14 · 25 answers · asked by -.-Chris-.- 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-23 10:34:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my bf have been together almost 2 years now. We have 2 children (because we had them so close together) and now all we do is argue. He's a great guy and doesn't cheat, but hes unemployed going to school, while i feel like i do mostley everything around the house. Is it normal to cry every single day from this? How do i approach him on everything just right? I've already tried and it causes more arguements....this is a never ending battle. What should i do?

2007-12-23 10:33:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, I used to be his friend until something happened to our friendship and that made us not friends anymore. I'm not telling you what happened because it's going to make me cry again. he's mostly there for me and when I'm upset or sad. I haven't talk to him for a couple weeks already and I don't want him in my life anymore. we used to like each other really much until he starts to fall in love with my friend and I went out with Jake (His friend). I already removed him from my contacts here, my 360 page and my messenger list. he did the same except his contacts here. I'm still on his contacts list! I really don't know why he hasn't remove me yet! I'm already out of his life! if I'm really out of his life, then why am I still on his contacts? plz be honest! Thanks so much for answering this question and I will check on this later!

-ConfusedGirlForever *(Diane N)*

2007-12-23 10:31:36 · 13 answers · asked by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 in Friends

....can your ex still take you to court and say you cant move. Especially after you have given him a 30 day written note? And if no does he have the right to state where the meeting place is at or is it always the half way mark nomatter the state?

2007-12-23 10:30:26 · 8 answers · asked by guest360 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom is shouting at my dad unnecessarily and they don't usually argue but she has gotten really angry at really pointless things. What can I do?

2007-12-23 10:26:27 · 18 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

freaking! ugh. i like him he likes me!
hes a good friends (not a best) ex though..

am i doing something wrong by liking him?????

2007-12-23 10:26:11 · 7 answers · asked by becca p 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-23 10:25:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My uncle(who is 5 years older than me) lives in another country than me. Everytime my family visits his family, we have to end up picking on each other at least by the end of the week long vacation. Last year, I promised myself I would get on better relations with him, but he made a joke about me and then I had to fight back. I'm pretty sure we're both joking when we "fight" ,it's like a hate-love relationship in a way, but I just want to be normal friends with him -maybe even little jokes now and then about each other. Something always triggers it though, and we end up being "enemies",pulling pranks on eachother. How do I fix this without confronting him about it? Please help. I really want to be nicer to him. : /

2007-12-23 10:24:02 · 4 answers · asked by pepperland 4 in Family

2007-12-23 10:21:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They've always made fun of me for being too sensitive. It's gotten to the point where whenever I hear them walking towards me or they just knock on the door and start talking my heart starts beating faster because their manner of speaking is so frazzling. They've always been loud, stomped when cats got in their way, bossed me around because I'm the baby of the family. I really don't know how to tell them about they make me feel though. I've already asked them to maybe talk quieter but that wasn't effective because everyone else in my family is the same so it doesn't faze them.

Any thoughts on what I can do please?

2007-12-23 10:20:40 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-23 10:20:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay. me and my boyfriend. both 17. We want to find a place where we can be alone. Not to have sex but to fool around. We can't go to each others houses, our parents are always home.
And my car is way to small, it just doesn't work. We tried. Anywhere else.?

plz keep in mind. its cold outside. nething we taking our clothes off outside...not good idea.

2007-12-23 10:19:17 · 9 answers · asked by Ace 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-23 10:15:26 · 15 answers · asked by cas 3 in Singles & Dating

i find it very difficult to know that my mum loves my junior brother the most it pains me that he is always given all the attention. what do i do?

2007-12-23 10:15:02 · 3 answers · asked by diva babe 1 in Friends

i was at my bf's house with my little brother and my bf's little brother(lets call him joey) answered the door and he said that my bf was in the shower. I said ok well we will wait in the living room. Then my little brother and joey went upstairs to joeys room and i really didn't care since joey and my little brother play togther a lot. Then I hear my bf scream so i ran upstairs and discover joey with a camera taking pics of my bf in the shower and my little brother laughing his head off behind joey. My bf seemed really mad at me after that so we left. What should I do?

2007-12-23 10:14:38 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Šümmęrłãńd♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that when a woman disrespects herself its easier for her to attract someone but then if she respects herself it is harder?

2007-12-23 10:12:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-23 10:09:27 · 3 answers · asked by momo p 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-23 10:06:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The guy I already went on a date with is very interested in me and wants to go out again after he's back from his trip of two weeks...I'm not that sure I like him in that way, it all feels a lot more friendish for me I guess.. However, I'm very new to dating and have pretty much no such experience at all but this guy I've met a couple of times and have flirted with asked me out. The thing is I'm more into him than to the guy I already went on a date with. I'm just wondering is it terribly wrong to go out on a date with someone else when you kind of have a second date planned with another guy...

2007-12-23 10:03:59 · 18 answers · asked by the.golden 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont really have feelings for her and i have a new girlfriend. I saw her makin out with her new boyfriend the other day. she didnt see me i dont think but they were getting into it. for some reason i was in a bad mood for the rest of the night. My new girl doesnt seem to make me feel like i did wen i was with her though. I never thought about the ex b4 that but since then ive been having dreams with her in it. Anyways apparantly im not completely over it but i think whats left of that is out of my control. So any advice

2007-12-23 09:59:25 · 8 answers · asked by John 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently called a girl on my boyfriends phone. Without telling her who I was or telling her my boyfriends name, I said she worked with him and wanted her to leave him alone.

10-20mins later my boyfriend called me upset. I told him the truth & he started laughing at the situation saying it was nothing & that recently they've just become really good friends. He blew it off and hasn't said anything either other than the fact that hes upset that I would not trust him.

Here's the suspiscious part...

She called him right after I spoke to her. Hence, she knew exactly who I was talking about.
He said she called him b/c he's one of the guys at work she talks to. I BTW sent him a text that implied some stuff which was obvious it was me.

Jealous ***** or what guys?

2007-12-23 09:54:28 · 6 answers · asked by Chrissy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-23 09:52:23 · 30 answers · asked by JustMe♥. 3 in Singles & Dating

this annoying guy that met me on yahoo answers named RICH SCHAEFFER annoys the sh!t out of me. Hes too nice and he said he was a dork that likes science studies, I absolutley HATE him, no matter what i say to him thats mean he always forgives me and says gay things like "i like you too much to leave you alone" and he calls me sweetie, i wish i could SLAP THE SH!T OUT OF HIM through this computer. I want to make him regret ever talking to me by saying something super mean that will make him sad for the rest of his life. I told him to kiss my *** to get rid of him and he was like "Anything you say i'll do"
HES SO F-ING ANNOYING!!!!!
HELP ME! WILL HE EVER GO AWAY!
hes like obesessed with me! please help me get rid of him, i told him i hated him and he still likes me and he never even seen a picture of me and he thinks im gorgeous, HELP

2007-12-23 09:51:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating