If a guys tells a girl he isn't looking for a serious relationship...but tells her alot that he misses her & when she doesn't call him, then he questions why she hasn't...what is he doing? What does he want? If he really & truly doesn't want to be serious yet, then does he want her to call/text him all the time & seem really interested or does he want her to back off a little & only call/text him every few days or so? I'm a little confused. He said he isn't looking to be serious right now but we talk everyday & he wants to see me Christmas. I try not to be clingy but we didn't talk for one day & he was wondering why I didn't call him. Can you guys help me figure this one out? When I speak of "him" I am referring to my friend w/benefits.
2007-12-23 12:41:20 · 4 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, well...he's saying one thing, but his actions are saying something else. He's getting attached...how do you feel about that?
2007-12-23 12:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's commitment phobic. He doesn't want to feel trapped, but at the same time, it sounds as if he really likes you...
2007-12-23 20:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by serf m 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is just playin.....do you want a serious relationship with him?
R
2007-12-23 20:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by Rich E 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's playing games. Find someone else.
2007-12-23 20:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋