i'm a senior in high school and all through my high school year i'll have feelings for these girls... i talk to them for a while and it feels like i really like them, and then after i get some from them my feelings totally change. i don't mean to be a douche bag, but idk y i'm like this. i always tell myself when i find my love i won't be this way, any advice?
2007-12-23 12:25:59 · 25 answers · asked by jeff ray 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u like sex.
2007-12-23 12:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by it stinks in here! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. You're just a typical high schooler. Everybody when they are young feel like they are in love at the slightest sign of interest, then once they really get to know the person, things change. Once you get what you want, you tend to look at things for how they really are instead of how you wish they were. It's almost as if you wake up from a daze. You just need to put the hormones aside when you're getting to know somebody, take it slow, and really see if this is the right person for you to pursue a relationship with, or if you would be better off as just friends.
2007-12-23 20:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by Sal A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like sex is the challenge for you. Once the chase is over for you, so is the relationship. There will be that one girl that will tell you NO and now you have a mission to accomplish, but again once you accomplish what you're after, you say by by.
Personally I think you're a user of women and they give in to your demands in hopes of a potential relationship.
How about taking a lady out to dinner, maybe see a movie and call it a night without trying to get into her pants. Try a second date, again without any advance towards being sexually involved with her. If you can do this two dates in a row without the involvement of sex, you have hope. If you can't, your a man whore.
2007-12-23 20:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a boy, you're horny..it happens girls are like this too. Try looking for the good in the next girl you have interest in or even one of the girls you have "done" before. If that's all you are looking for that's all you're gonna get. And if that's all the girl is looking for you may want to try looking somewhere else
2007-12-23 20:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by crazychic705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, you're normal. Girls do the same thing you do. It's like testing a new car before you buy it. You want to know if it all feels right for you before buying it (or making a commitment). Eventually you may want just one person, but you're young and should test out many cars before deciding !
2007-12-23 20:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by matt79matt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea....i totally know how you feel. my husband and I are that way for a second after we have sex...but then after a minute or two the feelings come back. If I were you....before you decide to have sex with a girl...get to know her..spend several months with her and actually fall in love with her before having sex..that way afterwards your feelings are still there.
2007-12-23 20:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make up your mind on one girl, because you seem to be acting like a swinger. If you're feelings change for someone, try to think it through and actually see if you don't like them anymore.
2007-12-23 20:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by Ewa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This always happened to young people (especially teenagers). Nothing to worry about, it just merely your reactions (or worst to say is lust) over seeing girls. Start controlling yourself and think about it twice or even better more than that . When you find your love, you'll find it hard to express it to her because you afraid she'll answer differently from what you hope for....
2007-12-23 20:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I basic primal instinct to "spread your seed". The best animals that imitate this behavior are the large cats. Lions, tigers, leopards. I'm still doing it. when your pituitary gland fully develops you'll start look for "the one". Or when the condom breaks. then your given the one no questions asked, lol.
2007-12-23 20:36:22 · answer #9 · answered by jamerican01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend like you! And he gets on my nerves. But it seems like you just want them for a temporary satisfaction. Dont worries it will pass when you find someone that you want to always be with.
2007-12-23 20:29:03 · answer #10 · answered by :.:Mrz. C Holden:.: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me before, i though i liked this guy, until something happened, and then i realised i didnt like them like that, maybe it was because after something happens,it shows you wether or not you really liked the person or if you just liked them as a friend and thought it could have been more.
2007-12-23 20:30:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋