yeah It will be two years that my mom died in jan of 06. But the last time I saw her and the last memory of her was on Christmas Eve... pasted out on the couch half drugged up. Not a good memory. I don't no if this is really a question. I no I only can let go but I don't no if I'm not letting go because it's the last memory and image in my mind of her before I found out she was dead.. any opinion or help.... I miss her so much...:(
2007-12-23 14:17:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Samantha, your question really touched my heart! What a terrible last memory of your mother for you to have! I don't know if you pray or believe in prayer, but I do, and I am going to pray for you right now - Dear Heavenly Father - I come to you on behalf of Samantha. This is a particularly sad time of year for her, as her mother passed away almost two years ago. I pray Father that you will give Samantha the strength she needs to be able to go through the days ahead. I also pray that you bring to her remembrance some happy times she and her mother shared so that Samantha can dwell on these, instead of the last memory she had of her mother. Comfort Samantha as only you can. It's in Jesus Name I pray, Amen.
God bless you Samantha, and please email me anytime! You are a very special person!
Lovingly,
Virginia
2007-12-23 15:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by Virginia B (John 16:33) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Damn, sorry. But listen, it's not about Christmas, that was about your mom's sad tale.
Christmas is an all commercial pumped up over rated holiday sold to you by retailers, television, norman rockwell, kay's jewelers, toys r us and b rated otherwise unemployable actors who star in far fetched christmas story fabrications of the hopeful next christmas classic movie, none of which has anything to do with christmas.
Christmas is really for christians celebrating the birth of christ their savior. It really shouldn't hold any kind of alienation reaction for so many, but it does if you are unhappy during the holidays.
So button up, save your money, ignore Christmas "fever" and all it's stupid retorical conversations with all the unitentional and insincere questions of how you will be spending your holidays, etc. and take control and derail yourself from it.
Why don't you just pack up for a weekend in Las Vegas or somewhere tropical and get your head out of the snow and mistletoe until this very deep and sad loss feels less painful, make a promise to yourself each year.
I lost my mother when I was 23 and it was painful and she was imperfect also which made it more confusing, nonetheless this is the most important pivotal point in your life saving you gracefully for when you may be a mother yourself.
See you in the virgian islands! See you in africa! It's summer there right now and they aren't materialistic! Go downtown whereever you are and scoop soup for the poor, you will feel less sorrow and understand that life is full of sad stuff lending more appreciation for the good and small things.
Do you have a picture that is pretty and young and healthy of your mom that you could place in a special place that you could have a positive association?
Love
Me
2007-12-23 23:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by Helen Ready 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear Friend, Life is full of disappointments and Heartaches. And it seems as if you Had Your share. However, God says He does not want us to have a troubled Heart, So Only He has a Way to Mend it and Make it well. He knows how to remove Sad Memories from our Minds. He can also fill our heart with Joy Thru His Strength. God can give you a very sweet Life with all bad Memories Gone. You Have to ASK HIM Dear. He tells us "we have not because we Ask Not" So we must ask Him to remove the Last memory and image of Your mother from YOUR mind. It is very unpleasant for You and God understands that. I am going to Pray that you will Turn to Him and Trust Him to do these things for You. I will be Praying about it also, and May you realize how much you are loved and Blessed because God Cares How You Feel. Let Him Show You. Please remember "YOU can do all Things thru Christ "!! In His Name I ask these Things Dear Lord, and Thank you for answered Prayer Amen & amen
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2007-12-24 00:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by minnetta c 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear this, and I pray over time that you will only remember the good things about your mom. When I have problems, I turn to the Lord and pray. I will pray for your comfort.
†Prayer Warrior At Your Request†
2007-12-24 17:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by electroprayer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss. Let God comfort you. Remember the good memories of your mother, and be with friends or loved ones. I hope the best for you. God Bless!
2007-12-24 03:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by bambi10 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oo imm ssooo soryyy:[[ do u noe wen ppl say there in a better placee well its right. . . . im reely and trully sorry try to have a nice holidayy
2007-12-23 22:27:14 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋