How to know if a girl is interested in u ?

Question

There is one girl in my office who looks at me quite often.
The problem is that my workstation is not facing her workstation(I mean it faces backwards).So even if she looks at me she could look me from behind & most of the time I do n't even come to know that. One of my friends have told me that she looks at me quite often.Another friend told me that she was asking about me. She had once given me a smile.We both have never spoken to each other.

Could u plz interpret & analyze the situation

Plz help me .......

I only need serious,logical & anlaytical answers.

Answer 1

keep it simple and small talk with her.
whats there to analyze.

Answer 2

Hello. Well for one thing, she'll begin talking to you more frequently than she has in the past. She will make herself more noticable you to as well. Smiling at people doesn't always mean that they're interested. I smile at people as I walk down the street and I have no interest in any of them. It's just me non-verbally greeting them so don't assume that she likes you just because she smiles at you. Also, she will be a lot more receptive to conversing with you. If you catch her at the water cooler or whatever and you make idle chit chat and she listens intently and gives feedback that would lead to another conversation it's a pretty good bet that she's interested. The more that you offer a woman a good conversation the more she will begin to feel comfortable with you and the more comfortable she is with you the more likely she is to go out with you. If nothing else, it would place you in her mind as a serious possibility of someone that she will like to get to know better and she will begin to tell her girlfriends about you and that works out well for you because she knows that you're employed, where you work, how you act, whether or not you are a hard worker, if you're likely to show up late and a slue of other little tidbits of information. I hope this helps.

Answer 3

Well, she has given you all the signs that say she likes you! Looking at you, smiling a lot, and asking about you! Since she is too shy to come up to you, it looks like that's what you need to do. Sounds like she is hoping that you will take the hint that she is interested and that you will make some sort of move. Don't disappoint her! Start with something casual just asking how she is doing and such. Every time you talk to her talk a little more then if she still smiling and looking at you, ask her out on a date. Good luck!

EDIT

Do not give her yours if she doesn't ask for it. Talk to her before asking for it so she doesn't feel too uncomfortable. Then ASK FOR HERS. There are several reasons why you should ask for a girls number instead of giving it out. But if she gives you her number, do not just keep it. Call her! I could go on and on, but i am starting to get ahead of myself.

Answer 4

You've presented us with the facts that indicate she likes you. Are there any facts that indicate the contrary? Do you trust the people who say she looks at you a lot and asks about you? If the majority of the facts say she likes you, and you like her, would you get into trouble for dating a person who works in the same place? What is the company policy?

If all things are positive, then say hello one day. Once you can say hello comfortably, ask how her day is going. If you start talking comfortably then ask her to lunch one day. If things go well ask her to a movie some night. Good luck

Answer 5

Different girls have different ways to show that she is interested in a guy.
She most likely just wanna be your friend, get to know you more, have a chat with you. I hope you dont jump to conclusion that she's interested in you. Take baby steps at a time. Approach her when there's an opportunity and just ask her about her work or day or have lunch together. From there, find out more about her. See if she already has a b/f. Thats my interpretation. Hope you can be patient. ALL THE BEST!

Answer 6

I would say usually a girl who is acting like that which means she is really shy to express her feelings directly, at least she is really worrying about that if she makes the first move and you'll reject her, so she would rather quietly look at you from her corner and not to do or say anything. Therefore, I think you should first decide if you want to get to know her or not; then think if you want to take the first step to know her more. If your answers are yes to all of the above questions, then you can make the first move; otherwise, don't even start it! Because you rather show no interests in her so let it die out than take any actions and it ends up feeling awkward to see her in the office later.

Answer 7

Different girls have different ways to show that she is interested in a guy.
She most likely just wanna be your friend, get to know you more, have a chat with you. I hope you dont jump to conclusion that she's interested in you. Take baby steps at a time. Approach her when there's an opportunity and just ask her about her work or day or have lunch together. From there, find out more about her. See if she already has a b/f. Thats my interpretation. Hope you can be patient. ALL THE BEST!

Answer 8

you need to be the first person to say something, so start on a monday or whatever day it is when every one return to work, (make sure you look good,smell good etc,) go up to her and say" hi " she should then reply whatever then you say' how was you weekend" if her answer is short shuch as a 3 second response she does'nt want you but if it is 10 seconds long you have a shot, the rest is up to you ask her what could have made her weekend better, and when she replies tell i her "ok i'll make sure i do that next time" if she smiles then your in, if she does'nt then leave her alone by now both of you should be talking make sure you tell her your name and then some how leave, don't try to get with her on the first round you want to make and impression, so maybe wait 2 days go back up to her start talking, make sure she wants to talk and then say" we should hang out sometime" if she says yea we should then give her your number and say whenever your ready i'm ready and let her know that your open to anything even ballet, that will let her know that you are really into her. and the rest should be fate, well i got you this far the rest is up to you, but since i helped you, you have to let me know how things went write me back and let me know what happened good luck,

Answer 9

You just need to talk to her one day. Odds are she is just curious she probably thinks you are good looking, or there is some unique quality about you and she is trying to think of a reason to go talk to you.

Sometimes if you just make the move she'll open up and you'll really be able to tell. For instance, if she goes to the break room follow a couple minutes later, don't be creepy just act natural.

I think the number one thing you need to do is have a conversation with her, if you talk to her every day for a week and still like her then ask her out.

Answer 10

ok from the way it sounds shes interested in u...but just incase ur not sure here r some tips 2 find out if she is. 1st u have 2 talk 2 her...thats the only way these tips will work. ok so the 1st tip is probably the hardest 1 2 do but is usually a good sign if u can spot it...when u talk 2 her and she looks at u...if u notice her pupils dilate when she looks u in the eye that means shes interested in u. the 2nd thing u can do has worked 4 me b4 and is relatively easy 2 do...engage her in conversation (make sure ur standing up...it makes it easier) and while talking casually take a small step toward her...if she backs up then she doesnt like u...but if she lets u get closer 2 her then she does like u. people r naturally very defensive of their personal space...but if some1 likes u then theyll feel comfortable letting their guard down 4 u. i hope these tips help

Answer 11

It's really hard to say that she does b/c she could be just curious who you are. I think that if you start a small talk with her you will probably able to know a little better by how she looks at you since right now you cant really judge on your own but rather just getting your friends opinion. The way she looks at you could mean a lot of different things if you know what I mean and you don't want to jump into wrong conclusion. Best bet is to start a friendly chit chat or hello and see how she acts. You might be better able to judge for yourself trust me you will know from the way she would look at you face to face, one on one if she's interested. They eyes says a lot.