With All of my relationships that I have ever Had , I always got Love letters , but yes I was young then . I have been married for 9 years and with him for 15yrs. And I have never gotten A love letter from him. The only thing that would even come close was a few sticky notes that said he loved me and wants to be with me forever. Now just to give you and Idea , HE Dosen't have A romantic bone in his Body , well he trys so hard to , but he said it makes him fell embarresd, oowww. He is A sweety , and I love him so Much and he would do anything for me and our 2 kids. AS A matter of fact my forst child I had at 16yrs old , and he met me when she was only 2 weeks old and he was only 18yrs old , and he stuck by my side and heres , asaA matter of fact she has no idea he is not her real dady. he loves her. He has worked his tail off for us , and he lets me stay home , because he knows im sick. So here is what I want to KNOW I Ask himm always to write one but he wont. What should I do.
2007-12-23 21:56:04 · 12 answers · asked by Home Is Where The Heart Is 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just one more thing when he works , he always lets me buy what I want , and he works so hard for it , and he has always paid for my Daughters things , and to him she is his , and she is 15yrs old now. I just want A love letter so bad , I have never got one from him why????
2007-12-23 21:57:54 · update #1
You are all very right and now i am in tears , thank you for the wake up call , but yea I have given him plenty of love letter and thank you letters and i do good things too. but yes I LOVE YOU HUNNY i DO .
2007-12-23 22:12:39 · update #2
not everyone can express themselves in words. He sounds like he does everything to show you he loves you. And as a young man to take on the challenges of a new child that is not his shows he is a good kind and caring person. You are lucky to have some one like him. I think the love letter thing is a woman thing, I also wanted one from someone as if when he wrote it then I would be sure that it was true. He finally started to send me romantic cards and that helped but never did send a letter. I think since he was so perfect I expected him to do as I asked and I kept pushing him over the letter thing next thing I knew I was questioning his love and that led to a break up because he said just because he didnt write it down did not mean he did not love me and i felt that it did. I guess what I am trying to say is if you love him and he is good to you one little thing like a love letter should not come between you. I once had a friend that made up a love letter that had multiply choice answers in it. Like I love you as
a) big as a ocean
b) as much as I love life itself
c) as much as football
then left it for him to fill out kinda like a joke they had a lot of fun with it and he was not so pressured and now writes to her
once in a while. I know what it is like to want a letter but I also know what it is like to lose someone over something small that gets out of hand . enjoy your man and love him lots
2007-12-23 22:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by asia dawn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Generally speaking, guys aren't romantic! If he's supported you in other ways, that's fantastic! Obviously, he cares about you. That's probably the most important thing. Maybe those sticky notes are the closest thing to a love letter. Perhaps collect the sticky notes and put them in a scrap book.
2007-12-24 06:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were to look at this clearly you would see how silly it is. At your age, I can't understand what the importance of a love letter would be. Your husband has made it clear he isn't comfortable with writing one so why would you want to push his comfort level. Sometimes you just have to appreciate what is. This man has shown you so much love through his actions and that speaks volumes. You are one lucky lady and should appreciate him because let me tell you...........his kind is rare and you should be happy that you found one of the rare ones.
2007-12-24 06:06:33 · answer #3 · answered by Primrose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just so immature. He has shown you in a hundred other ways how much he loves you. a love letter could be a lie, but what he has done for you is proof that he truly loves you.
Wake up girl!!! I would give my right arm for a man that that!!!! Romantic men are not always what they are cracked up to be. Sometimes it is a cover up for a cheater!!
2007-12-24 06:02:53 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going to sound mean but honestly why do you need a love letter so hard? I mean there are dofferent kinds of people and they express themselves differently, so you have a way of expressing yourself with love letters and he expresses himself with bringing you all you need and loving you everyday. I mean do you need any more than a man who doesn't care whose daughter he is taking care of simply because he loves you and your daughter too much to even think that he shouldn't raise her up. He's done so much for you and I can tell that he loves you both so much and you shouldn't ask him to write you a love letter, because he doesn't feel like doing so he can't express himself that way and you can't push him to do it. You should understand that he is showing you his love by caring so much about you.
2007-12-24 06:06:41 · answer #5 · answered by Mirada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you complaining about?
Why the need for a Love-Letter from 'him' when he is doing everything possible to make you happy and, as you say, "do anything for me and our 2 kids"!
If you are not happy with such a "man' and keep on desiring for a love-letter from him, then there is something seriously wrong with you!
Wake up, girl; you are too damn lucky to get such a honorable-boy.
2007-12-24 06:10:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U must teach him to write the love letters. He is expressing his love in other ways that he knows, i.e. in action. He is working hard to provide for u and the kid. He is also concerned about your health. It is a more solid and hard way of expressing love.
Writing love letters is no more in fashion. Maybe u should teach him to e-mail or SMS love messages to u.
2007-12-24 06:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people just aren't good at expressing how they feel. Why does it matter to you so much? you say he does so much for you already, can't you just appreciate him. Maybe you should write a love letter to him first as he seems to deserve one for all he does for you. Maybe then he will write one in return.
2007-12-24 06:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by loub33angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus be cool lady... its jus how he is and not that he doesnt love u enuf. sometimes when we r in love we expect our guys to do certain sweet n romantic things but when they dont do them...it really upsets us. I make up my mind thinking that he is better in lots of othr things so why worry abt certain things he doesnt do. In life u can never get everything u want so be happy with what u have.
2007-12-24 06:03:36 · answer #9 · answered by Tani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol hes done alot for you and i think making him a love letter would be weird cause he does more than words could explain well in my oppinion anyway , those who wrote you love letters didnt stay by you so dont try and make him lol cause obviously he loves you alot
2007-12-24 06:00:41 · answer #10 · answered by Malia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋