My dads cousin is about 45 or so. I'm 23 anyway he has cruelly picked on me since i was 8 or so. Everytime i see him the attacks get more & more intense. Now he yells at me, says horrible things about my mother and threatens me. I get so scared by being around him. I seriously haven't done anything to offend him, I like darker music and that's a major problem with him. HE's a super christian and anybody who doesn't beleive the way he does is evil. I'm a nice person and try to always be one. He's a heavy drinker and a serious momma's boy and he's always mean.
2007-12-23 21:55:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Maybe he didn't get along with your dad and was jealous of him so now he's taking his anger out on you. For a Cristian he sure doesn't act accordingly. I don't like the sound of this guy, never stoop to his level. KILL him with your kindness. Don't let him walk all over you. Tell him it's not healthy to worry about you and hate you so much. Tell him the type of music you decide to listen to has no effect on his life so why does he even care? Whatever he says or does to you, everything should rely on one simple fact, you don't care, and you shouldn't. This guy is so immature it's not even funny!! Like I said, if you act nice to him, this guy will be one shocked mother fcker! Haha but never stoop to this guy's level because you don't want to be as low as he is. Good luck and I mean that..
2007-12-23 22:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 07:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by hone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look him straight in the eyes, Tell him he isn't much of a christian to get drunk and spout religion, because God is not looking favorable on him. When you stand up to him and tell him to be quiet, that you have heard it all before, and if he threatens you, call the cops, and let him know you are done being his whipping post, it is best for him to move on and leave you alone. Tell him your God told you to defend yourself against hypocrites. You don't have to take mistreatment from anyone.
2007-12-23 22:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a super christian then why the hell is he a heavy drinker. He isn't a christian, just an idiot. Just stay away from him and he won't have a chance to be mean to you. your musical preference ain't none of his business, so rock on!!!!!!
2007-12-23 22:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by Ginger M 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if people aren't nice to you, dont bother. He's christian but he shouldn't be acting like that...and I dont think christians are suppose to be so...violent. You either ignore him and if he picks on you, pick on him back. And if you cant pick on him...just ignore him. and if he picks a fight with you, fight back.
You have to stand up for yourself. You cant be so naive and innocent (although I wish I knew more people like you in real life)
My dad's the same, I didn't stand up for myself and he seemed to think I was his punching bag or something. he picks on me all the time saying my mom's a whore. One time he got angry and the threw something heavy and it landed on my foot. Now my toes look kindof funny and my toenails look terrible. I was only 9 and now I'm 16. my point is if people aren't nice to you, you dont have to be nice to them. Thats the rule.
2007-12-23 22:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by christy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grab a bat and this ***** in his stupid head the next time he does it. There's only one way to handle a bully, and that's to meet them with ruthless resolve. Bully's are cowards. He beats on you because he knows you won't do anything. You have to beat this dude down. Put him on the ground however you can and stomp his ***. Let him know that his reign of terror on you is at an end. Beat his *** down.
2007-12-23 22:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by abiogeek2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is 45 and probably wasted his life and is angry because you have so many more useful years than he. Those are his insecurities and let him have them. God Bless.
God Bless.
2007-12-23 22:13:40 · answer #7 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would stay away from this angry man who doesn't seem much like a Christian.
2007-12-23 22:08:49 · answer #8 · answered by Primrose 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have answered your own question. First of all, He is a Christian. No Christian likes anything that is dark or evil or things that go against what they believe. When you come around, he sees what he thinks is you dabbing in evil. It bothers him. He has his beliefs. Why set him off? Why do you go around him if you know this? Are you, " Messin with him?" He has his rights just like you have yours. He does not have to like your behavior. I wouldn't aggravate him.
2007-12-23 22:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
He sounds jealous of you somehow. Why dont you stand up for yourself? And if he is talking smack about your mother, well you REALLY need to stand up for yourself otherwise he is going to keep on picking.
2007-12-23 21:57:49 · answer #10 · answered by Nessie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋