What is your sexual fantisy involving only one woman?
I want to know mens oppions mostly, but I don't care if women answer too.
and also, any ideas on how to "be" sexy, would be good.
I think my husband is getting bord of me, and I need ideas.
I'm not saying that he is cheating, 'cause I don't think he is. Just bored.
any real ideas would really help.
Thanks
2007-12-23 07:24:57 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry for asking twice! I ment to sent it to a different catagorey
2007-12-23 07:30:32 · update #1
Well...are you bored?
Mix it up. Play. Try different attitudes and get into each other.
Your gift of yourself means getting into your partner and enjoying the connection that you two have physically, spiritually, and emotionally.
Wrestling is fun and provocative. Strip wrestling is fun, too. So is strip poker or blindfolding and "tying" your partner up to the bed.
Find a closet or a space on the floor in the living room.
Find a weekend getaway. Look into his eyes, drop your drawers and his (for him) and use your imagination.
Go nuts! Ask him for his fantasy!! Tell him yours!!
Good Luck ;)
2007-12-23 07:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by STEVE H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, talk about a loaded question. Sexuality and sexual fantasies are pretty much individual orientated. Sexual fantasies themselves range from the very tame to the very outrageous just involving two people. You say he is bored? Well, what is he looking at in the malls? Take him by a lingerie store and get him to comment. Take/lure/entice him into one of the upscale adult venues if one is nearby. Most men will talk about it given a chance. Failing that , look at what he is reading... Penthouse, Playboy and Variations all provide helpful fantasies for the adult....
Good Luck
Ravensreach
2007-12-23 07:35:38 · answer #2 · answered by ravensreach 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might not be bored of you but bored of what you are doing together. Change it up. you make the moves and maybe try different positions. Also, if you live alone, why not see how the the floor in the livingroom feels....maybe the couch or table. Just try different things, it could be as simple as that. Good Luck!
2007-12-23 08:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by queenbee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knowing my fantasies won't help you because fantasies have to be personally relevant to be effective, but that's an excellent conversation-starter with your husband. (And, he may well be stuck in a rut...it happens to everyone sometimes, but I doubt he's bored with you. There's a BIG difference.) Good luck, and Happy Holidays.
2007-12-23 07:33:24 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go by others fantasy,make your own!It's all the matter of what you and your husband want.Think back to before you got together and how you wanted to do things to this man.Go back to that & then go beyond that!Try something you wouldn't possablly think you would do,take it to the edge.It's that huge fear of something that makes it better,so just do it!
2007-12-23 18:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by PeDeBeeD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....my fantasy a women in a skool outfit or tight leather suit dressed up like cat woman or something, then she (explicit now) come and pulls down my zip slowly (im wearing a 3 pice suit) and mouths on my boxers (explicit nowww) grops my d*** slowly while its getting hard and then leaving it alone making me beg for more, (lol) coming slowly up and kissing me on my neck, while i carress her hair, and then she tries biting me on my neck where it tickles, and she uses her left hand to grope my d*** which is still in my boxer and unbuttons my boxers and slowly starts starts rubbing her hand up and down, she also uses her other hand to grab my ***, and when she biting my neck shes squezzes my butt, then she pushes my against the wall and goes all raw and mental, but keeping her distance to try and get me even more excited, then she finally starts kissing my lips and biting them, then she starts to snog me slowly, and takes her hand off my d*** and puts my hand up her kinickers and makes me pull em down and carress her p**** slowly, she wants me to put my finger in slowly (bearing in mind everything is sxc atmosphere) and then throws me onto the bed where we continue to do what we were doing her hands where they were - one hand on top of myn showing me where to rub her p***** and the other still groping my ***, and then (im obviously lying down with pillows as back support) and then she moves away from my face and starts pretending as if shes having sex with me, basically pushing her p***** up and down (bouncing) on to my hand and me rubbing what i can with that hand, and from there it's all role play, just tease him and do it slowly, to add wayyyyy more excitement do it at his parents house (so its more secrative and sexy) or a hotel room with the door open to create that feeling of being caught - in both the hotel room and at the parents house (not with the door open at his parents house, you maddd) just the feeling of doing it at his house wil give me that feleing of being caught, plus he'll be anxious about getting caught but gagging for sex, hell have to make a decision and youre gunna win it, lol, that was my fantasy, hope u try it out, lol. any additonal infor just ask, ill add some more in, personally i think the school gurl outfit was better, much sxcerrrr.
also do what raven says b/c taking him to a langerie store will turn him on. lol, make him hold some lingerie, play in the shop, take him in to the changing room with you, and make him put the lingerie on you, lol, i think thats sxc. get him invloved with your underwear, lol. how to be sxc, oh well, wear the best of the best perfumes and make him gag to smell some more, dress woth some red colours and make him beg for a kiss, just tease him and stuff.
2007-12-23 11:11:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anal
2007-12-24 00:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by JONES 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋