Family & Relationships - 23 December 2007

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help. I really really want to think of a great song about overcoming fate or creating your own destiny, well anything about fate, destiny, creating your own path, or discovering/ learning that you can change your own fate...

yeah yeah it sounds dumb but I am all out of idea's. The artist and song or what ever you can remember or however you can help will be greatly appriciated:-)

If anyone is curious of my outcome as far as what I am looking for this for, just write it within the reply and ill get back to you with the link you may find it at later when I am done:-)

Thankx for your help!!!

2007-12-23 07:02:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright, way back when I was in 10th grade, I had a relationship with a girl, which ended simply because the year had finished for the summer (stupid, I know). Nothing bad happened between us whatsoever, as it was a very innocent first relationship for both of us, however throughout the last two years of school, we'd occasionally flirt, but left it at nothing more than that.

Last week, I ran into her, and all of a sudden all the feelings I had for her came back. It was obvious that we both we're flirting with each other throughout the entire conversation, and I was going to attempt to see if I could sit down and talk with her about the past. But there's a slight problem: she's moving to Scotland for the next university semester... and I said I would come visit her (which, I will).

Am I crazy to think that there's a possibility for me to start something with her once again, or am I reading into what may be nothing more than harmless flirting, way too deep? Is a second shot possible?

2007-12-23 06:59:31 · 2 answers · asked by faultlines 1 in Singles & Dating

My grandma who i loved dearly passed away on Saturday.Her funeral is Thursday and i'm debating on whether or not i should take pictures, i don't want to look morbid. I know she is happier now and no longer in pain but i wanna take pictures of her one last time, she was seriously one of the most beautiful people ever. What do you think?

2007-12-23 06:58:06 · 29 answers · asked by Mya S 2 in Family

2007-12-23 06:57:50 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-23 06:56:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-23 06:54:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok its almost christmas and i am going shopping to day....i have no clue what to get my b/f. i am 13 and he is 14. what is a good gift for a 14 year old that has been my b/f for only 2 weeks?!?!?!

2007-12-23 06:52:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'am a big fan of romantic movies but im afriad im not a romantic person.Im in love with love but when it comes to relationship I don't fall in love.my last 3 boyfriends were all romantic but i want in love with any of them!!!I strongly believe in soulmate and in love but what is my problem?why nobody is perfect for me yet?I cant tell how much i enjoy the love in the movies but are they real?

2007-12-23 06:50:37 · 5 answers · asked by aida 3 in Singles & Dating

one penny added on for? what the hell was he thinking? i feel bad for the kids. what is the thought on the one penny?
just trying to figure it out.

2007-12-23 06:49:29 · 12 answers · asked by daisy 4 in Family

My boyfriend said everybody is getting him presents this Christmas but he doesn't want that. He said he didnt ask for anything so he doesn't want anything. He said all he want is money not stupid gifts. He said this after I told him i got him something. I AM CONSIDERING TAKING BACK WHAT I BOUGHT because I don't think he would appreciate it..WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-12-23 06:49:00 · 10 answers · asked by facethefacts 1 in Singles & Dating

you think he was doing this just to be funny or do you think he was curiious to see how it looked and felt?

2007-12-23 06:43:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My hubby is stubborn and has EVERYTHING!!! He usually buys the stuff he wants, and I am left clueless. Any suggestions?

2007-12-23 06:42:20 · 2 answers · asked by Tanya Lynn 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am female my roomate is male and I have asked repeatedly for him to wait my permission to enter.He states he has a right to do so. I installed a deadbolt as to ensure my privacy.He now demands Im wrong for doing that and it will be removed one way or the other. What is proper in this situation?

2007-12-23 06:36:16 · 14 answers · asked by d w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i think so .and i.m 6 ft .

2007-12-23 06:34:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i hear n / y is good .

2007-12-23 06:32:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My bf, wants to get married. One problem. He refuses to tell me his past.
He is 43. He hates talking about his childhood. Anytime I try to ask him something about what he did in life between the age of 20 and 40 he shuts down. He says that he does not want to go there. That he does not want to talk about his past. He has never been married. Has never had kids. He has spent a little bit of time in jail. A few weeks here and there for drinking. I have known him a year and I have been going out with him for 6 months. I want him to be open with me. I want closer to his past. Yet, he will not tell me. Then, it is all left to my imagination to wonder.

What would you do, if the guy you want to marry refuses to talk about his past? Especially if you felt like he was hiding something from you?

He is a nice guy. I just feel like I don't really know him, because he won't share.

I even asked him if he used to be gay. He said no.

Thoughts?

2007-12-23 06:24:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my early 40's and a recent breast cancer survivor. I'm posting this looking for honest opinions from men as I don't have a lot of male friends to ask. I have scars and implants now. What do you men look for in a woman? I have kept myself in great shape and take good care of myself, have lots of interests and friends. And I do know how to treat a man. How soon should I reveal the fact about my cancer? Would you still consider a woman to be sexy even with the scars? If I didn't immediately tell a man about the cancer, would he feel like I hid something or somehow lied to him? And one more ?.....it's been a long time since I was on a date. If I invite a man in for a drink or coffee after the date would they think they were automatically going to be invited to spend the night? Thanks for your honesty and please, no jerks.......

2007-12-23 06:24:08 · 13 answers · asked by justlilme 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I can’t stand that she smokes; we are both adults, we are together since 3 years ago and she smokes since a long time before that. She smokes very few, but I can not stand even one. She knows I do not like it and she tries to do it when I am not around, but the odor remains.
I had even taken the cigar from her hand a throw it in the floor.
What can I do to make her stop smoking?
makes me believe that smoking for her is more important that our relationship.

Regards,

2007-12-23 06:23:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-23 06:23:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

um, i alredy posted a question wishing evry1 merry xmas but it got deleted :( anyways, so im trying agen MERRY XMAS EVRY1!!! im sayin it early now cuz im takin a few day break, which i dont want 2 do but i need 2, so ill miss all of u 4 howevr long im gone!!!! *hands out cookies and gives hugs* i hope u all hav a great holiday!!! ill talk 2 u all agen soon!!! (this also means i wont b on 360 or anythin, so the best place 2 reach me is email, if i check it...)

2007-12-23 06:23:18 · 15 answers · asked by Andrea Gracexox 5 in Friends

ive been dating this guy for only a few days and i wanna break up with him. he keeps telling me how much he loves me but the problem is i dont love him and i think we should stay friends.
should i break up with him and how? like any good break up lines??
fyi im only in middle school

2007-12-23 06:21:55 · 13 answers · asked by Kiwi S 2 in Singles & Dating

why?

2007-12-23 06:19:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Am going to renew my wedding vows, how will it differ from my original ceremony?

2007-12-23 06:19:21 · 8 answers · asked by heather c 3 in Weddings

My college rooomate and I do not get along at all, we come from different backgrounds and income levels and never see eye-to-eye. However, a mutual friend came to our room right before break. My roomie was not in the dorm so the girl wanted to wait. I then started packing my clothes and had my back turned to this girl while still making conversation. The girl turned on my roomies flat iron and started using it. I wasn't paying attention and didn't see her do this. My roomie came in, the girl apologized and I thought that was the end. But the next day my roomies flat iron didn't work and the mutual friend refused to pay for all of it. My roomie now thinks it was my responsibility because I was in the room and this girl was "more my friend than hers". I do not believe it is my responsibility, and though i feel sympathy I do not feel obliged to pay for it. My roomie has been calling me "sick, twisted, selfish, and a rich b****" for not doing this.

2007-12-23 06:15:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know that some girls do this. Like, when a boy breaks up with the girl. The girl's friends will immediately develop a "dislike" in the boy, even if they dont know the reason behind their breakup. Well Im wondering if guys do that too. If they begin to dislike the girl for breaking up with their friend, whatever the reason is. Because I have a boyfriend, and I was wondering what would happen to the new friends Ive made from meeting him.

2007-12-23 06:14:47 · 1 answers · asked by asdfghjkl 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfried has not one, not two... no even three but FOUR ex girlfriends that still consider him a friend/'best' friend.

why cant he see how strange this is too keep these women all hanging around?

barely a day goes by when our day isnt interrupted by a text/phone call or email from at least one of them.

i cant stand it. i dont think its right and i have tried talking to him about it. he says he understands but has never explained why he needs to keep all these women.

normally when you break up thats that. if you break up then there is no more love... if there is no more love there shouldnt be anymore friendship... especially the way some of them (all come to think of it have done him wrongs) treat him!!

i cant stand it and i dont know how to deal with the jelousy. i didnt think i was a jelous person. honest.

any advice at all is greatly appreciated. thanks in advance

2007-12-23 06:09:04 · 14 answers · asked by LBB 5 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I waited till we were 18, I understand that underage sex is illegal and different countries set the bar at different ages but there are some things I'm not too clear on. Millions of kids as young as 12 and 13 have sex, as soon as they're able to get erections or get wet they're humping away. But how is the law enforced, how are the police to know about these kids having sex and the penalties? If someone of age has sex with a minor it equates to statuory rape but what about kids the same age, who gets charged with the rape or is there no charge as such? For example, Britney Spear's sister and her boyfriend have been having sex, but now he might face up to 10 years because she is pregnant. How else was anyone to know? I just want to know how all this works and the point of having a law that is so poorly enforced.

2007-12-23 06:06:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-23 06:05:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-23 06:04:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 17 n in gr12.
ok so theres this girl, a really close friend of mine, we've known each other for a while now, and lately ive beginnng to think im startng to have feelings for her, like i cant stop thinking about her. but i dont want to, like shes such a HUGE flirt with all the other guys, i dont want to say anyhting to her, b.c it would be awkward with her, i kno that for a fact. i dont know what to do, i know she doesnt like me the way im beginning to like her. likew e talk all the time on msn at school and stuff, but she just likes talking and flirting with every1.. what do i do :(

2007-12-23 06:00:30 · 3 answers · asked by John 1 in Other - Family & Relationships