ive been dating this guy for only a few days and i wanna break up with him. he keeps telling me how much he loves me but the problem is i dont love him and i think we should stay friends.
should i break up with him and how? like any good break up lines??
fyi im only in middle school
2007-12-23 06:21:55 · 13 answers · asked by Kiwi S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is it mean to break up with him on the phone or wen im-ing him?
2007-12-23 06:27:15 · update #1
be str8 up with him tell him hes f***n crazy ...but laugh it off n go from there
2007-12-23 06:24:38 · answer #1 · answered by Rico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5th grade!!! you are not even old enough to have puppy love. Girl, you need to learn that actions speak louder than words. He can tell you anything,, you can say anything but what you do is a hundred times more solid than any words,, good words or bad words. You have been dating for few days,,,? a few days, is not even enough to learn to like anyone... You are just a child and you have not started to even touch on the meaning of love,, not for a person, especially a guy outside your family, at least the kind of love that a girl would feel for a guy. Now confuse the kind of love that you have for members of your immediate family.
2007-12-23 14:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by jorge e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in middle school and have only dated a few days I do not think there is much to break up. You are too young to be with one person anyway. Tell him you want to be friends and that you want to have fun, fun, fun, with all kinds of different people not just one. Phone is fine.
2007-12-23 14:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Middle school...
i miss those days.
okay well if i were you id deff break up with him.
i mean a few days and he loves you already!?
i hate it when people told me this but they were sooo rite!!
he dont even know what love is.
and to this day im not so sure i do either.
i guess it jus depends on the person.
anyways i do deff think you should break up with him...
i mean you said it your self you do
and your not gonna be happy staying with them if you've already said you dont wanna be with him.
theres no such thing as a good break up line..
they all suck babe.
jus say that you're not as into him as he is you
and that you think youre better off friends.
i mean whats the worse that could happen?
good luck!
2007-12-23 14:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you told us. Gently, and to his face. If you really want to stay friends with him, do it. Don't use any "lines." You will do this a lot in the future and it will be done to you. It will not feel good no matter which side you're on, but it has to happen. Just be as nice about it as you can.
2007-12-23 14:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you feel friendship for him, but don't love him and don't want to date anymore You don't need a line.
At your you are really too young to know what love is...sorry if that makes you mad but you will find out in the years to come that this was just a crush.
2007-12-23 14:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea if you don't really like him then you should end it now before you guys go to far and screw up your freindship. I was just in the same situation I'm in middle school and was going out with one of best freinds(who is really hot) I ended it though and we are still really good freinds. As for a breakup line tell him you really value his freindship and that you don't want to screw that up.
2007-12-23 14:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by i'm A BEAST 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and tell him nicely that you are not interested in him and that you would like to concentrate in your studies. If he's mature enough, he will understand your reasons. If he's not, I would suggest you to treat him as a friend only. Avoiding and ignoring him will not solve the problem.
2007-12-23 14:27:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i see your in a rut here. Well just bring him over to the side and tell him how you feel, if he loves you so much hell understand. And middle school love is puppy love so dont get to stressed about it=)
2007-12-23 14:25:34 · answer #9 · answered by Manda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i am also in middle school and i have the perfect solution to your problem. you should make sure you do not do it in public. tell him that you really are not that interested in him as much as he is to u. then say i want to be ur friend and thats all. if this does not work ask a friend to tell him. make sure u r as sincere as possible and do not make a big scene!
2007-12-23 14:26:51 · answer #10 · answered by Hannah K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol just tell him. its better to tell him now than later because its only goin to hurt him more. besides i dnt think u should b dating . your only in middle skool u have the rest of your life for that! have fun while u still can .
2007-12-23 14:30:20 · answer #11 · answered by dopexnenax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋