I'am a big fan of romantic movies but im afriad im not a romantic person.Im in love with love but when it comes to relationship I don't fall in love.my last 3 boyfriends were all romantic but i want in love with any of them!!!I strongly believe in soulmate and in love but what is my problem?why nobody is perfect for me yet?I cant tell how much i enjoy the love in the movies but are they real?
2007-12-23 06:50:37 · 5 answers · asked by aida 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good God, no, movie love is not real! But, if you believe in "soulmate", then you believe all the Hollywood nonsense, because that, and silly fluffy romantic novels, is the source of these ideas. There is not just one "right" person for you, not one "soulmate." I don't mean to drop an ice cube down your back, but the sooner you lose that idea the better suited for a REAL, realistic relationship you will be. Otherwise you will still be eternally an emotional cripple, waiting for the movie theme music and all the romantic horse manure to sweep you off your feet into the "perfect person's" arms. UGH! There are 6 billion people on the face of the earth, my dear - do you REALLY think there is just one person out there for you? Oops, if yes, then, sorry to tell you, yours is a 48-year-old CPA in Grand Forks, and you will never meet him, so this means you are doomed to a life of loneliness. (see how ridiculous that sounds when you put it that way? that's because it IS ridiculous!!!!)
2007-12-23 06:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find someone some day, don't worry, he's waiting out there for you. You'll meet a guy one day, and fall in love with him, I'm sure. Movie romance isn't necessarily real, because the director of the movie made the script the way they wanted it to be, so, of course, that's how the movie would turn out if the people were good actors. As they say, "There are many fish in the sea, but only one for me."
2007-12-23 14:55:52 · answer #2 · answered by sugarfootlong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i love love movies and im a hopeless romantic , but with you maybe you just think of a relationship to much like you expect the guy maybe to be somewhat perfect and even if the guys were great they werent what you wanted them to be kinda thing ?
2007-12-23 14:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by Malia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love in movies is not always real, but there are plenty of people out there for you its just a matter of time so be yourself and love the person you meet just the way you like and they will love you back
2007-12-23 14:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
funny question u got there. i dun think that love in movie is real. they are real in our world - i mean in the reality. coz producers and directors inspired love from real life.
2007-12-24 16:19:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋