I can’t stand that she smokes; we are both adults, we are together since 3 years ago and she smokes since a long time before that. She smokes very few, but I can not stand even one. She knows I do not like it and she tries to do it when I am not around, but the odor remains.
I had even taken the cigar from her hand a throw it in the floor.
What can I do to make her stop smoking?
makes me believe that smoking for her is more important that our relationship.
Regards,
2007-12-23 06:23:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It really comes down to what you care about most. Her. Or her smoking. Tobacco today is so much more addictive than it used to be. If however she only smokes occasionally, she might be able to quit without too much of a problem. You say you are both adults then you must know you cannot change someone. It must be her decision. So just sit down with her and tell her that you don't like her smoking not just because it bothers you, but that it is dangerous to her. Cigars especially have more in them and are of higher concentrate. Addictions are terrible and tobacco is second only to meth, crack, cocaine and heroine. If we love someone we don't want them doing something that ultimately will hurt them and others around them, but we also have to be there for them and support their decision. It's all about choice and how much you love each other. Three years is a long time. I wish you both the best of luck!
Warm Christmas wishes, Pami
2007-12-23 06:59:38 · answer #1 · answered by Ballerina Butterfly Queen 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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I can’t stand that she smokes; we are both adults, we are together since 3 years ago and she smokes since a long time before that. She smokes very few, but I can not stand even one. She knows I do not like it and she tries to do it when I am not around, but the odor remains.
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2015-08-06 14:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by Patrizius 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got into a relationship with her knowing she smokes. You can't force someone to change - she enjoys smoking, and you accepted it 3 years ago.
You either learn to deal with it - or you walk away and find someone new that doesn't smoke.
2007-12-23 06:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if she does really love you, she will try to stop smoking.
Have you talked with her about this?
I am personally can not date a smoker. I have smoker at all. I find woman with cigarettes is the worst ever.
2007-12-23 06:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by paulkun 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Tell her this relationship is longer going to work and you'd rather sniff an ashtray
2007-12-23 06:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by Regina Thunderpants 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well, I know this seems hard, but just forget her, if she like really liked you, she'd try even harder to stop.
but, it sounds like she doesn't even care that you don't like it.
2007-12-23 06:28:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋