I am a 20 year old lady. I strongly believe that I have found my soulmate. I really love this man with true love.
2007-12-23 00:05:00 · 21 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can marry whomever you choose if you're of consenting age by law. Don't worry what others think of your union; if it feels right, age doesn't matter as two adults. Good luck to you both. :)
2007-12-23 00:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are no laws preventing you from marrying this man, and there are instances where the marriage lasts..........but few. You go through many stages in life, and just about the time your "biological clock" is going crazy, your "husband" will be thinking of enjoying a peaceful existence and not exactly overjoyed at starting a family that will not mature until he is of retirement age. He has already experienced and moved past all the things you will want to do. Then keep in mind that he will hit 70 and you won't even be 50 and if he has not been blessed with good health, you will become his caregiver/nurse. There are however benefits to be considered, he is less likely to cheat on you, he will bring maturity and stability into your relationship, he has likely moved past the drinking, going to bars, hanging out with his buddies etc, he knows how to treat a lady like a LADY and not a piece of furniture. He will most likely be more patient and understanding. Only you can decide if you are really in love with him or just infatuated, I can only tell you to take your time and base your decision on hard facts. You are very young, just a few years ago you were in high school and he was approaching mid life, there is a whole world that you have yet to discover, are you willing to compromise and perhaps even give up on your dreams?
2007-12-23 00:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by canuck1950 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Has he asked you to marry him or you just day dreaming? Seriously though, I was 23 and married a man 25 years older than I was. It was great for 5 years, then dreadful for the next year. By the time I was 28 there was too much life experience difference between the two of us, but he was a loving caring man and became too much like a grandfather than a husband. Give it a go if you a serious but at 20, you have no idea of what a soul mate is. Living life first gives you experience to make that comment.
2007-12-23 00:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by magictige 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Make darn confident he has a catalogue of his components and values on the day they're married. She probably needs a million/2 of them. in many states she is barely entitled to a million/2 the appreciation. it is in keeping with danger unavoidable that she gets a million/2 the abode. playstation : In some states an 18-year previous won't be able to be put in detention center for having intercourse with a sixteen-year previous.
2016-10-09 02:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) 20 is too young to get married - this is the age whereby you to need to explore, be free, enjoy. You will realize it later and want to have your fun- by then it will be too late you will be one of those women in the 30s 40s that go clubbing with their daughters- trying to have the fun they missed out on
2) 22 is to much of an age gap. Relationships like this do not last believe me. What you find funny or exciting he wont. Everything you are doing now he did 22 years ago. It has nothing to do with maturity, as human beings we go through different transitions in life, Child to teen to young adult to adult to old age. It is not fair for you or him to deny yourself this experience. He has had his fun, now its your time.
2007-12-23 00:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by lululu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
babygirl you can marry whoever you like you are not 18 you're a woman now and you can make your own decision now if you still live with your parents then that i cant say. but if you love this man and he loves you as well then go head on marry your man girl but make sure the two of you are ready good luck and many blessings go out to the two of you from purplewoman 86
2007-12-23 00:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
IF yiu love him with all your heart and he feels the same and respect and honors you as a human being, a woman and his wife i dont see why not. Forget about what society says, society is too corrupt and hypocritical anyways for anyone to listen to it . Go for it
2007-12-24 03:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by virgin guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughters 20 yr gap relationship didnt work and she swore at 20 yrs old she knew he was the one and it was real and they were soulmates...but.... as it turned out it was just as another person answered you ...she was just his pretty ,sexy young bride to show of to his friends...it was just his ego..."hey look at me ,I can still turn the young chicks on ".
Be very careful!!!!
good luck
2007-12-23 00:16:32 · answer #8 · answered by Augie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can but be sure. He may not want to start a family. When he is 50 and slowing down, how will you feel.
2007-12-23 00:13:58 · answer #9 · answered by Wild Bill 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
22 years!
u should ask if u r his soulmate also, or u r just sexy young bride
2007-12-23 00:10:02 · answer #10 · answered by amer83 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋