Family & Relationships - 15 December 2007

I'm getting married in Florida next year, wondering if anyone can tell me how much it would cost to hire just one guitarist to play for a half an hour for a wedding. Any guestimates???
Thanks!

2007-12-15 03:22:08 · 5 answers · asked by *EmmaSurella* 2 in Weddings

so theres this guy and i guess he really likes me but HE wont ask me out he keeps having our mutual friend scott ask me out and i keep saying no and i told scott to tell him that im not gonna go out with him until HE asks me. and scott told me i was being a ***** and i just needed to give dennis a chance. but im trying! hes just to shy to ask me! am i being unreasonable or do u agree that what im doing is good?

2007-12-15 03:20:14 · 22 answers · asked by gr3en_with3nvy 1 in Singles & Dating

I have intelligence but i'm pass the dumbline for common sense...which is more important to you in a girl/guy? and why?

2007-12-15 03:18:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 14 he is 14 and we have been dating for a little more than a month and I don't know what to get him! I don't wamt to get him clothes or something like that! i want to get him something he will think is cute but that he will still like! No video games, clothes hats, cds etc.! Cus guys always just get something like roses or flowers cus all girls like those but what is something like that that all guys like! Thank you and sorry if I am being a pain in the ***! Remember that we are only 14!

2007-12-15 03:15:24 · 18 answers · asked by punkyMacpunkpunk 2 in Singles & Dating

It's better to that then lead him on once I stopped be interested altogether, right? His best friend who was once my friend, pretty much hates me. He tells him it's because I likesomeone else but that's not it I just don't like him as much anymore. But i wasn't trying to hurt him it was for his own good?

2007-12-15 03:15:15 · 11 answers · asked by kate<33 1 in Singles & Dating

It's not like when we met. I'm 35 & hardly ever think about sex. I don't watch porn. I don't fool around. I don't mastrubate at all & she's nearly 30 & wants to do it all the time. So it's pretty safe to say my sex drive is low. She's a good woman not no skanky bar fly one nite stand. What can I do other than ED drugs to get up to her speed.

2007-12-15 03:04:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do you know that you love someone and they love you back?

How do you know that you are making the right choice in realationships?

How do you know if a guy likes you or not?

How do you know if you are going to be with the same guy forever?

PLEASE ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS

2007-12-15 03:02:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, say for a moment that a woman comes to you, she knows you are married, but she tells you she just wants one or two nights of intimacy...(You know she is sane and disease free...maybe you have known for a year...) Suppose in this scenerio, you are willing to have this one night with this woman EVEN THOUGH you are married... YOU DO NOT WANT TO HURT YOUR WIFE! You are happy, but intrigued and aroused by this other woman. And especailly if you know absolutely for sure that your wife WILL NOT find out!

Why would any guy tell this other woman that he wants to be friends first...?! Before having this night? Wouldn't being friends defeat the whole, 'just one night' thing....? Couldn't the guy get 'feelings' for the other woman? And what if the other woman doesn't want 'feelings', and only wants to relieve a huge drive she has with the married guy?? Why would a guy ask to be friends with someone just asking for sex...? Why not just say no?

What are your opinions?

2007-12-15 03:01:17 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend of 6 months have had sex already, but I am one of those type of woman that feels that having sex with a man takes away my strength. it makes me feel vunerable, and I tend to become emotional to easy, become my thought process becomes cloudy... we haven't had sex in a month, and things are going great with us. I just told him that I didn't want to do it again until we make the decision to get married, and if we never get married, then I guess we'll never do it again...
I'm wondering if he's going to be able to do this, or if he will just have sex with other women behind my back ?
What has been your experience..??

2007-12-15 02:53:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-12-15 02:53:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has a daughter from a previous relationship,she is 10 now. We've been together since she was 2. When her mother feels it's necessary, she will throw in comments about me being a beaner or just plain call me a Mexican when she's talking to my husband. I am 1/4 mexican & carried the last name. I have the fairest skin for a person who has mexican in them. I AM SO PROUD OF WHERE MY FAMILY COMES FROM. I've never dealt with racism except from her. How do others handle this?
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My question is - I refuse to have involvement with this person - I don't talk to her. I don't have to b/c my husband makes arrangements w/her. This problem has caused me to not even want anything to do with my stepdaughter, because she is 1/2 of her mother. I'm questioning if my marriage is worth me getting hurt by this, I don't have to live like this and I feel like if I said goodbye, I won't have this woman in my life ever again..I'd be so relieved!

PS my husband and I have 2 children together.

2007-12-15 02:53:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-15 02:53:04 · 8 answers · asked by AMBA03 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, so theres this guy, and his name is Josh. He used to talk to me alllll the time and flirt with me alot, and he wud always sit next to me and stuff... and then he started doing it to this girl named a Madison., and i found out that they were dating, so i was really really hurt. but yesterday, i found out that they broke up last week. and then i was really really happy because i was excited cuz i thought that i could finally get a chance with him. Then after skool yesterday, i saw him and he was with a 7th grader named Jenna (Josh and i are in 8th grade) and they were totally flirting and he was tickling her and she would laugh and then lean against him, and i hated it, all of this was happening right in front of me. i really thought that he used to like me! my hopes for him got crushed. again.
Also the thing is Jenna is my friend Lauren's little sister, and Jenna is always with jake, on the bus, etc. should i tell lauren that i like josh? what should i do? how do i cope with this?

2007-12-15 02:51:50 · 8 answers · asked by !HannaH! 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl who is a stranger fancies me I see her in the mornin g on the bus. Beae in mind shes 15 and so am I, she is ok but im not intrested in a girlfriend, so would it be nice of me just to say hello because its mean to ignore her. Would it make her feel pretty and happy.

2007-12-15 02:49:59 · 13 answers · asked by answers 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 2 mths. out of a 4 yr. relaionship-although I loved this guy very much (he was very loving, affectionate, romantic) he is an alcoholic which caused alot of conflict in our lives. Our sex life was next to nothing because he was either tired for too drunk. In the entire four yrs. he never went a day without drinking.He was a hard worker but, never seemed to have alot of money-where it went I don't know. We shared the bills but, were always scraping by. Well, 2 mths. later after our split he is seeing a married woman who he claims he loves. I don't know her situation but, she is still with her husband. My ex can be very convincing in the beginning, quite the charmer (thats what got me hooked) & you never see the big picture until its too late. My question is if this woman leaves her husband what are the chances that she will be happy with my ex once the real him surfaces. It gulls me to think that he left me because I couldnt deal with his drinking & then like nothing go on happily!

2007-12-15 02:47:25 · 8 answers · asked by Mary B 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I read in a newspaper that a boy is giving his girlfreind, a twelve thousand dollar ring........I know its stupid to ask such questions but I wonder what will the girl think?

Is the ring price' ok for an engagement ring?
Just ladies' opinion!

2007-12-15 02:42:16 · 57 answers · asked by Kokujo- Evil Pervert & Genius! 3 in Weddings

Ok my situation is really complicated so Im going to do this one at a time:
I am in a common law relationship right now. My spouse and I have a kid together and been living together for about 2 years now. Lately him and I are not getting along. Ever since I got a job and got back to school, he became so distant. I've wanted him to go back to school coz I know it will be best for our family but he just keeps procrastinating. I finally just gave up and just live with what I have: a highschool undergraduate.
On the other hand, I started working. I didnt realize that there are several guys at my work that really liked me. I particularly liked this on guy. He's very educated, eloquent, and good looking. Only one problem: he's my supervisor. I learned that h liked me too. So we went out for a couple of dinners and lunches. Soon we decided to have an affair. Only prob w/ this guy is he loves to flirt. Im the jealous type. We just had our major fight last night. Should I work it out with him?

2007-12-15 02:38:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like having a crush on her now, and then years later, you have a crush on her again when you see her again. do such things happen?

2007-12-15 02:36:34 · 6 answers · asked by rachel 3 in Singles & Dating

i am SO hurt... my ex-bf and i were together for 2 months... i really let me guard down and was seriously falling in love w/ him... he broke up w/ me after an amazing w/e together... he said he was neglecting his schoolwork b/c he is wanting to spend all his time w/ me... i've tried leaving him alone for a few days and i tried texting and calling A LOT which i know is not good... i am just so upset and miss him SO much! i don't understand how he can just be fine w/ ignoring me.... is he not missing me too? he told me he was falling in love w/ me... even last time i saw him we were cuddling while asleep @ night and he would kiss the top of my head all through the night while he was sleeping... i don't answer my phone when he calls just a week ago b/c i was sleeping and he panicked and called and texted like every 5-10 until i called him back... how do you go from that to ignoring a person like they never existed??? i miss him and know i have no choice but to let it go... but how?

2007-12-15 02:31:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how old were you when you got married?

2007-12-15 02:30:47 · 11 answers · asked by kiaangel86 2 in Singles & Dating

My g/f of several weeks just decided two days after we had sex that she just wants to be friends until she get things straightened out in her head. She says that sex was great but I think she just wanted a fling and I think I got a little too close to her. She says its because of her issues with her drug dealing father and her sexually abusive grandfather when she was younger. Her sister said over email that she isn't over her old b/f and that she just needs more time and for me not to take it personally. I'll give her time, how long until then? A couple of days ago she called and said she cares for me and she is going to therapy starting January. Ok... I REALLY like her, but after having sex with her, how am I to act around her? She knows I want something long term. Any advice other than moving on?

2007-12-15 02:30:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think that girls don't fart due to evolutionary reasons.

In the caveman days there were 2 types of girls - farting and non-farting.

But the farting ones turned men off too much, so they never reproduced. So their farting DNA was not passed on.

The non-farting ones did attract men, reproduced, so passed on their non-farting DNA.

It's survival of the fittest/non-fartiest.

2007-12-15 02:26:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He broke up with his ex girlfriend.. It was hard for him to forget her.. Now he says he's over her but i feel he fears love.. He doesn't want to take risks and fears commitment.

2007-12-15 02:26:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 02:23:32 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why is it that when guys and girls fight and argue the guy thinks that they did absolutely nothing wrong,....
i got in a fight with my boyfriend last night and he just made it sound like everything i do is wrong.....i'm like sittin there admitting to some of the wrong things i have done and he is jsut like putting all the blame on me and putting me down...and when i asked him why he had no answer surprise surprise...

2007-12-15 02:23:25 · 6 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

my week hasn't been normal and my friend knows that. we were go to hang out on Thursday then i had to switch shifts to watch my niece and nephew, who were suppose to come in but didn't. my friend was thinking about hanging out with us but they had another friend who had a Christmas show to put on. i told them last night i felt like i need a day to myself. and they ask if i am trying to be mean and scam them and only need them when i want and that is not true. i have planned a trip with this person whom i have promised not to pull out on. i have already got my requested days off and all. and i plan on going on this trip with this person. did i betray this person and if so how do i apologize if not is this person oversensitive since they have been hurt before in a different situations but similar incident?

2007-12-15 02:19:23 · 4 answers · asked by bettyb 5 in Friends

He is also think so like me. I am 6 feet and 80 kg weight and very handsome my friend is 65 kg and ht is 5.7 is it better to make sex and illigal relations with hime

2007-12-15 02:14:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 02:08:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-15 02:03:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

some time ago i found something in my teenage son's room, when i was cleaning it up....a photo of me. he had obviousely taken sectretly while i was changing in my room and the door was a little open. it showed me from behind, bending over, in only a thong (and a t-shirt), and recently i even found one of my own (worn!) thongs besides his bed. i know he has lots of pictures on his PC, mainly of women's behinds in thongs. he obviously has a thong-fetish. but with all the pics from the internet, why does he get turned on by MY butt? is his brain turning off, as soon as he sees a woman in a thong?

i know that teenage boys can be very much influenced and controlled by their hormones. so i decided that i won’t talk to him about it, cause that would embarrass him too much and be just terrible for him.

but i'd just like to understand....why does he masturbate looking at HIS MOM's butt, when he can look at any other girl's thong/butt?

2007-12-15 02:01:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships