Family & Relationships - 15 December 2007

If you didn't know her?

2007-12-15 09:34:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hello everyone. I was clicking around on the family computer and couple hours ago (I'm 17) and I found some naked pictures of my 19 year old sister. I had never considered myself attracted to her until i saw her gorgeous body. Now I just can't stop thinking about her, What do I do?

2007-12-15 09:29:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There is this younger guy that flirts with me a lot and said several times that he wanted to have sex. He knows I am married. I finally told I would like to be with him and now he's hardly said 2 words to me. How can I regain our flirting relationship?

2007-12-15 09:28:46 · 6 answers · asked by calendargirl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Three years ago, my grandmother passed away. I was very close to her, and she left me a pair of beautiful diamond earrings. This is the one thing of hers I have left. Unfortunately, the posts were to big to fit through the tiny holes in my ear.

I broke my ankle about a month ago, so I'm on crutches. Plus my dad was yelling at me today, so I went upstairs to talk to my mom (we have a good relationship). I walked into her room, and saw a pretty chinese print pouch on her dresser. Thinking it was a Christmas gift from one of her students (she is a teacher), I opened it.

Inside were the earrings. I thought she had been using them for herself, so I started screaming at her for stealing them. After I was done, she told me she had gotten the posts fixed and was going to give them to me as a Christmas present to wear to my winter formal, my first high school dance (my ankle will have healed by then). Then, out of anger from the rest of todays events, I told her it was

2007-12-15 09:28:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is this Christian? Are there any alternatives? Are there any Christian authors on dealing with one of these problems that writes against separation or divorce? Please don't harp on this sounding codependent just non emotional facts with authorities.

2007-12-15 09:28:18 · 4 answers · asked by Larry62 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Planning 2 chat to this girl on Monday but the last time i spoke to her was once and when she got lost and showed her were her class was. What do i say to her? I have never really spoken to her before. Should i make a joke on if she needs help finding her class.

2007-12-15 09:25:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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We broke up one week ago, her decision. She wants to be friends. says that we can be friends, start from the beginning, and take things slow. She doesn't want to see me right now bc she says i still have feelings and only when i can be her friend we can see each other..

We started out our relationship really fast from the get go, three weeks of knowing each other and have been dating. for 2 months, until last week.

It is so hard to see her as a friend than a gf.
She says she wants to be single, have fun with her friends..

what should i do?
is it the end?
this is really bothering me.

She has been hanging out with her guy friends and will take vacations with them this holiday. She wont even spend Christmas with me, instead it will be with someone else whom she calls a friend, an the unknown gender, due to information, when i spoke with her three days ago. In doing no contact and will try to heal my inner wounds.. hope i will be okay and over her soon. thx for reading.

2007-12-15 09:25:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And says its no big deal and his not addicted to it and can stop at any time but wont because he is enjoying it at this point in his life and wants you to understand as their partner and accept it.

2007-12-15 09:25:02 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

cause around school ive seen quite a few guys look at me like that, and i dont even know them! why would they do this?

2007-12-15 09:23:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well, i'm a 15 year old guy and i know im gay, but last weekend i was at my friends house (a girl) and her dad came on to me... lets just say i might have been just a little tipsey and didnt resist... he has been pestering me ever since and i dont know what to do ... can i tell my friend!?!...ps i liked it :S

2007-12-15 09:23:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

JUst thinking that christmas is coming , new year's eve is coming and I don't have a bf to be with makes me feel very sad !

Unfortunatly the only guy that I like is going to his country during all this ( and I'm sure that he is going to see his ex girlfriend because she lives in his country)
Believe me I feel so dippressed right now , I need a guy that will be there for me , that will take me out , make me happy and give me gifts . So my ex boyfriend called me 2 days ago that he wanted to talk to me ....so I don't know if he could replace this guy for this period because I need company , even though my ex is a jerk sometimes .

What do you guys think I should do????? By the way this is the only place where I can express my feelings and where I get good advise .

2007-12-15 09:21:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 09:21:30 · 20 answers · asked by suspicous C 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I've been recently referred to as "FREAKY" in a good way by you (a man). What does "freaky" mean to you? I would like to just refer to myself as being "FIESTY". A "Gentle fiesty" to b more exact.

I've also been referred to as "scary" but he has clarified that as a "good thing".

So, What am I????? if unsure, refer back to my previous post: Why do men get intimidated by a profesional women, etc.

Honest answers only please.

2007-12-15 09:20:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

mark has a 7 yr old son that he has joint custody who he is totally detacated to. He gets such joy from being with his son its all he can talk about. We are to be married next mon. and looking at houses to buy and I happened to just say something about a nursery and he just ignored me. Later he said to me he hoped I would not try and push him into having a child and if I wanted one it would be a deal breaker. I was in shock as he loves his son so much and wants to be with him 100% I guess i just thought he would what one with me too. When i asked why all he gave me was excuses nothing that made any sence. Now his child was planned not an accedent and was the only reason that keep his marrige going as long as it did. 1st marrige. So can anyone tell me why he would be so against having a child with me when he loves his 1st child so much?

2007-12-15 09:18:10 · 7 answers · asked by Gfhf F 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm pretty sure my 19 year old son has got involved with dealing drugs. I dont really know what to do.
Me and my husband have become suspicious over the last 2/3 weeks, he has a photo on his phone of what looks like 5 bags of white powder or tablets, the photo was taken on his computer desk, also i found a little bag (like the corner of a food bag, triangle cut off the corner). Then last night he came home a bit worse for the drink, and I heard him on the phone to his mate saying he had been working for someone they had met 2/3 weeks ago.

I know whatever I say to him he'll deny and lie through his teeth. What would you do?

2007-12-15 09:17:15 · 2 answers · asked by aqua 1 in Family

mark has a 7 yr old son that he has joint custody who he is totally detacated to. He gets such joy from being with his son its all he can talk about. We are to be married next mon. and looking at houses to buy and I happened to just say something about a nursery and he just ignored me. Later he said to me he hoped I would not try and push him into having a child and if I wanted one it would be a deal breaker. I was in shock as he loves his son so much and wants to be with him 100% I guess i just thought he would what one with me too. When i asked why all he gave me was excuses nothing that made any sence. Now his child was planned not an accedent and was the only reason that keep his marrige going as long as it did. 1st marrige. So can anyone tell me why he would be so against having a child with me when he loves his 1st child so much?

2007-12-15 09:17:01 · 44 answers · asked by Gfhf F 1 in Weddings

all he seems to care about is sex, but i really feel for him and have for a while....but he makes me feel used and tells me he wants to be in a relationship with me but he is still getting over his last relationship, its been 2 months now and im tired of playing games how can i tell him that without severing our relationship completely? how do i say no when he tries to make a move on me? i can never seem to resist
Cait

2007-12-15 09:14:36 · 17 answers · asked by Complicated_and_Confused 2 in Singles & Dating

he is single nevr married.but he told me he had lots of gfrnds.... honestly, i have feelings cuz he is sonice to me...

2007-12-15 09:14:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brothers fiancee bought her own ring and gave him the bill. He didn't even have a chance to go shopping with her...is she wrong to do this? I'm getting the feeling that she is controlling and she also forced the marriage thing in his head.

2007-12-15 09:11:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-15 09:11:13 · 15 answers · asked by Michael M 1 in Singles & Dating

i've known this guy for about 3 days and he asked me out to the movies and we went. he didnt do anything at the movies we were just leaning on each other with only our arms touching then that night online, my friends messaged him asking if he was dating me and how the movie went and stuff he asked me if alotta ppl knows that were dating and i said no, only two and i asked him why and he said jw. but then 30mins later he asked me to be his g/f so i said yes then right after i said yes he said he had to go and signed off then today when he signed online again, he was acting weird so i told him we should be friends for awhile and get to know each other better. Any clues to why he was acting like this? and suggestions on how to play hard to get???

2007-12-15 09:10:17 · 1 answers · asked by xblondatheartx0x 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 09:09:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like a shy guy. im sure he likes me to.he would always stare at me, accediently take my thing, then come to give them back, lingering smiles, long eyecontacts across the room, even when we are close, always smiles then looks at the floor smiling, shy hellos etc

anyway i sent him an email to join myspace.he never replied. he stopped saying hello and looking at me to my face. but he still keeps looking at me, staring at me when he thinks im not looking.

then one time i saw him in the libary, he was standing like a meter,behind me. i saw him starring at me in the reflection infront. he didnt know i was looking at him. but he stood there starring at me for like 8/10 sec straight. then he started saying hello to me again from that moment on.

does he still like me?
im really shy to. but what can i do?
whats the right thing to do? seems the email scared him away. so? what now?

i really really really like him. we are 21/22

2007-12-15 09:09:12 · 1 answers · asked by girl 2 in Singles & Dating

Then after sleeping on seperate rooms he thinks he can creep back in for a bit of 'hanky panky' in the morning?

Bah humbug!

2007-12-15 09:03:00 · 11 answers · asked by Bird 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it wrong to have 6 bridesmaids and only 4 groomsmen??

2007-12-15 09:00:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I really like this boy but he use to go with my best friend. She's not my best friend any more but we still talk.(She was my bestfriend from Kindergarden to 6 grade. We didn't fall out or anything we just grew apart. But when i was in 7th grade i liked this boy and she started going with him so i was just like i don't like him any more. But then me and the boy started talkin and became really good friends.(while he was still with my ex bestfriend) and everyone was saying he liked me. And i kinda still had a crush on him. But now i am in 8th grade and he is a freshmen and he always come back to my school to see me. And he broke up with my ex best friend before he graduated so should i go with him beacuse he keep tellin me he likes me? But my ex best friend is in all my classes andwe still talk and she might get mad.

2007-12-15 09:00:01 · 4 answers · asked by y$topdo!nw@t!mdo!ng 4 in Friends

my gf is coming over in 1 hour. she sent me and email that she was horny and is "cummking over soom" i dont know what to do. i have done other girls but not like her. pleeeez help. i dont want to mess this up.

2007-12-15 08:59:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know it's a party, you're supposed to have fun but he was flirting like a real player... when usually he's quite normal. I was really surprised. we're together for some months now. he said he was doing nothing wrong... but I really was shocked when I saw all this. too much for a quiet and nice bf he always used to be. he talked so much about being true to each other and now this... I know it's nothing important but can't help feeling hurt. Feel like he lied to me about his true self

2007-12-15 08:58:30 · 7 answers · asked by ania361 4 in Singles & Dating

my friend is getting married and i told her i would help with the music. does anyone have any ideas for cute love songs. all answers are apreciated. thank you.

2007-12-15 08:56:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My name is Karmina, i have 14 years.

2007-12-15 08:54:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends