Family & Relationships - 15 December 2007

Just went through a very difficult (expensive) divorce with a woman who turned out to be a manipulative, whore. After cleaning me out financially, she decided there was no reason to continue her charade and let me see her for who she really was. She moved out after 8 days of marriage, and tried to "shake me down" for more money during the divorce.

Now two months after the divorce was final, I am told that she has been dating/sleeping with my brother for at least the past month!!

Apparently ALL of my other family members were "in" on their secret relationship, and helped to conceal what was going on.

She is now working on cleaning out my brother's bank account before she "finds true love" again.

My entire family has decided to side with this woman against me in my desire to have deported back to her home country, and now they have done this little secret..
So I feel that it is only proper that as long as they don't consider me to be family, I should treat them the same.

2007-12-15 00:33:59 · 23 answers · asked by redheadedstepchild 4 in Marriage & Divorce

your spouse to cheat,she/he would?

I am just curious how much people trust their spouse.


I think mine would cheat if there was a chance.

2007-12-15 00:30:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-15 00:25:53 · 17 answers · asked by cutie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What turns you on the most? For example: I know lots of girls who are crazy about musicians,especially the violinists.What do you think about them?(Violinists).Do they turn you on? Just curious.Thanks!

2007-12-15 00:23:53 · 7 answers · asked by david 1 in Singles & Dating

well there is this one lace we wanted to go and we have been friend sence kindergarden and we talked about going to this place alll the time! and i mean all the time! and she said i promis me and you will go there. well insted she invites our other friend to go insted of me then goes well maybei can invite you! is that a true friend?!

2007-12-15 00:19:34 · 9 answers · asked by little_mama_on_the_block 2 in Friends

My mother stays at nere partners house down the road alot as christmas dinner there with here partners kids dosent invite me and dont let me make my own food. Dosent get me christmas or birthday presents If I ask for any she says get lost I give her 100£ bord a week clean the house get no thanks for it work allday come home get small meals. My fiend took me to a market with his perents one morning and when I come home my mum said have you had anyting I said yes a bacon sandwitch she said that will do you for the day.Took her partner and his kids away and dident invite me. On my 18th and 21st birthday I got nothing and they didnt say happy bithday.There tv broke took my tv and wouldnt let me use my ps2 down stairs. I went to work got hit by a car and they said you will do anyting to get out of work. I got her a mothers day card and some flowers and she said why bother. and sat down and said why do you treat like this she said thats the way it is.

2007-12-15 00:16:55 · 9 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Family

Because when i see someone i fancy
and maybe he's got a bit of chub that perhaps he doesn't like
I love it and think its cute and i love the way that his face is different. Like its pretty big but i find it Rugged and handsome. don't think he likes it though. LOL
is this the same for Guys?

Would you accept that little bit of cellulite or extra fat on a girl??

Just wondering
Much love
Huggles

2007-12-15 00:15:41 · 8 answers · asked by Huggles [mozzafan] 4 in Singles & Dating

Been married for 3 years my husband Terrance is verbal and emotional abusive to me. The way I feel about him is unthinkable. He always talk negative and try to put me down. He thinks he is better than me when we support to be a team as husband and wife. His job pays more than mine and he always throwing that up in my face. We both graduated from the same college. We also have a 3 year old son together. I work 30 hours a week and take care of our son and he don't do nothing. I am tired of him and want to divorce him. I can't take it any more. I'm so sad, stressed out, and depressed. I need to talk to somebody anybody before he come home from work being mean to me. I think he hates me. How can anyone hurt a humanbeing the way he hurts me.

2007-12-15 00:15:40 · 16 answers · asked by LivingMyLife 5 in Marriage & Divorce

You cannot live with it so DENY it.....But it keeps coming back.....it won't go away !!!!!!!!!!.Have you tried covering your guilt under a pile of good deals It maybe just be that you feel guilt because you are guilty.But you can ge rid of it by experiencing forgiveness of your guiltiness.

2007-12-15 00:07:37 · 3 answers · asked by BitchEmpress 1 in Family

my boyfriend suffers from serious clinical depression. I love him more than anything in this world and I've been supportive and patient with him. we've been dating a year and a half. After 9 months of dating he "pushed me away" for 2 months. When he came back he aplogized said how dumb he was and said that when he gets depressed he isolates himself and pushes people he cares about away.

Well I took him back after he promised to never do that again. He acted amazing for about 3 months then he pushed me away again.

He said he loved me and still wanted to be with me when I asked but he keep on acting like this so I asked him again about a week later. he then said he "guessed" he wouldnt to be with me. When I told him that wasnt very convincing he said he needed wanted to break up because he needed time and was tired. I asked if he still loved me and he said "will it make it any easier if I say no?"

Can someone please help me understand his actions? Do you think he loves me?

2007-12-15 00:04:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this girl some days back and I just realised she is the sister of my sister's friend. Should i ask her to get me her number or not?

2007-12-15 00:03:04 · 16 answers · asked by lee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

sorry...half of my last question was filled with spam!

my bf's bro blocked me from aim and removed me from facebook. I haven't talked to him in forever...except recently i imed him bcuz my bf wanted me to tell him his secret santa... he said he was trading w/his dad cause his moms a *****..i said dont say that bout ur mom..and he got mad.

i talked to my bf's bro and he said he doesn't dislike me..he just doesn't like the things i say sometimes and that im toom much sumtimes...and he thinks we shouldnt talk anyway cause he doesnt think my bf would like it..i said why? and he said he didnt know but he didnt think hed like it...

im confused..he says he has no problem with me but he has me blocked?

ive been so nice to him its not fair!

(no he doesn't like me cause i hooked him up w. a friend of mine in the past!)

whats going on?

btw we used to get along. saw him 3 wk ago and he was nice. im 22 my bf 23 and he's 25

p.s. please don't tell me to talk to him...i already did. as u can c

2007-12-15 00:02:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships