Family & Relationships - 15 December 2007

Ok so i met this cute guy this past Thursday at a bowling alley while I was waiting for some friends. He asked for my number after my buddies showed up. It was real cute he was bowling till late with a league but he kept on comming over to talk to me and laugh at my crappy bowling abilities. haha but anyways I left a bit after and failed to say good bye. He texted me and teased me about me not saying goodbye to him etc and asked me when I could give him a ride on my bike. In the end I let him go since I had morning plans the following day and he said something about always being at the bowling alley Thursday and that he would talk to me later. Now its Sunday, I'm thinking a tad in advance whether I should A.) go practice my bowling Thurs and suprise him? B.) Text him good luck C.) Do nothing and wait?

2007-12-15 21:19:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 21:17:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

- regularly works til 2am in banking
- teases other girls
- has a girlfriend

2007-12-15 21:15:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I let a girl have her way with me last night even though I told her that I don't do it the first night. This has happened several times now and I am starting to get the feeling that girls only want me for sex. Am I being used?

2007-12-15 21:13:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have known this girl for some time. the other day we went out for coffee and then I asked her what she wanted to do next, she said she wanted to find a quiet spot and watch the sun go down at the beach.

Thing is I am really good friends with her but before she told me she had a crush on me a long time ago. But now she is dating another guy, but I think their relationship is sketchy at the time being.

When I'm with this girl I really want to kiss her and I feel very romantic with her. We are friends but it FEELS so much more than that especially when she wants to watch sunsets and have long coffee chats with me.

I am not sure how to take it to the next level or how I should express my feelings for her? I don't want to scare her away because I value her friendship but I am wondering if she has feelings for me because she spends a lot of time with me and calls me and always wants to hang out. things are 10x more complicated because she is in a relationship

how do I tell her, help?

2007-12-15 21:12:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im asking this coz i dont see much more than a 4 year age gap between my mates and their mrs! Im 31 but im attracted to ladies in their early to mid -20's is that okay do you think? Or will they think im too old? I just seem to fet on with them better, oh by the way i suffered from a drug and alcohol addiction for 7 years! Also im a bit balding all over i shaved my head no.1 tho does that bother women? Oh could you put your age to so i know, where the opinions come from! Thanks for help!

2007-12-15 21:12:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend & I's relationship is perfect in every way apart from one little thing, we are bored & broke. we have been together for 3 years & we are freshmen in college, we don't drink, we are not into partying and hanging out with loads of people. We have a couple close friends that we stick with. What can we do on a cheap budget that will get us out of our apartment and having fun. We are sick of laying around all damn day haha! What are some fun things to do? Things that are cheap please!

2007-12-15 21:12:00 · 18 answers · asked by Beeg 5 in Singles & Dating

Do you truly love yourself? before answering this do you love anyone in this world. if so, how can you love them if you don't love you first?

2007-12-15 21:09:40 · 11 answers · asked by truly_blessed80 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom had my older brother and was pregnant with me shortly after (2 yr. age difference) My mom didn't want another child but had me anyway. I know she is bitter that my dad (once a violent alcoholic) quit drinking for the family but mstly for me. She is very jealous of the relationship I have with my father. She will tell me I can do something then when my dad comes home she will be like why are you doing that I asked you not to and have him yell at me. I know my mom loves me and at times we get along wonderfully but everyone in my family has nitced through all the years how in her eyesmy brother does no wrong & I am the "screw up" She constantly compares us, my bro treats me the same way she does. even if Im right they argue or belittle me until I just give up. I am an etremely loving,compassionate girl, and when my dad travels for work Im home being ganged up on, it kills me. Idk wut to do,when I tried to talk to my parents about it my mom says i just want attention & pity.

2007-12-15 21:04:22 · 16 answers · asked by Mia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im asking this coz i dont see much more than a 4 year age gap between my mates and their mrs! Im 31 but im attracted to ladies in their early to mid -20's is that okay do you think? Or will they think im too old? I just seem to fet on with them better, oh by the way i suffered from a drug and alcohol addiction for 7 years! Also im a bit balding all over i shaved my head no.1 tho does that bother women? Oh could you put your age to so i know, where the opinions come from! Thanks for help!

2007-12-15 21:04:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It quite pitful when I noticed change of behavior to my neighbors daughter. She was growing too fast beyond her age and body language told it all. Her mother had accused a man tempering with her daughter because she did not like the young man (18yrs)befriending her daughter thus the man is in on probation for sexual misconduct. Yet the mother allowed her daughter to flirt with another man almost her dad age because she was having affair with the man's brother behind her husband back. I caught her kissing and her daughter 14yrs is now pregnant, and had dropped out of school. I brought this to her father attention that I did not like his daughter behavior around my kids because she was too fast. Her father turned against me, calling me names, a predator, wanting her daughter etc but my concern was her behavior with her mother which was unusual for her age. My cousin works at the hospital, and my neighbor was there as a patient treated with "ghonoria" and blamed his wife without even.....

2007-12-15 21:02:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i need to find out what this girls relationship status is on facebook. i have my reasons, im not a stalker. and im not gonna do anything, its just for peace of mind. is there any way to fubd out w/o adding her.... shes not in my network, and she is in a college network. any codes/hacks?please:(

2007-12-15 20:48:07 · 9 answers · asked by brittknee08 1 in Singles & Dating

She is a fren of mine, she likes me but I don't. She calls me very often. I respond to her very casually as a good fren n whenever she doesn't like anything I say, she bangs the phn, which I really hate. Later she calls me ask for forgiveness n I say its ok, but these its not just once or twice. It happens almost every day.

Sometimes back she even asked me if she was bothering me by calling and if she is then she would stop calling me to which I said no, however she did annoy me, but I didn't want to hurt her.

Even now she's calling me, but I don't want to pick up her call.

Please help me!!!!

2007-12-15 20:44:39 · 20 answers · asked by Damn Gudd!! 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I'm thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend in 2 weeks. 2 weeks because I'm being nice or very greedy. My question is should I? Well i know it's a stupid question. The reason why is she is very sexual deviant and can be very aggravating.. I just would feel bad because she found out her mom has cancer and more stuff. The main reason is why i wanna break up with her is to protect her. Protect her from me( I have a bad temper) and i have very good control over myself. Im scared i wont one day though and it will be her not someone else.It's almost our 1 year anniversary though ive known her for 4 years. Her family hates me. They dont even know my real name i use a fake one. We are 40mins apart also. What should i do? Plus i do love her i just dont wanna hurt her again. 4 years ago we went out and made her life a living hell. She said she'd hurt herself if i broke up with her so now im scared for her. I dont know what to do. Please help and give some reasoning not just break up...

2007-12-15 20:41:18 · 13 answers · asked by Blood Lust 2 in Singles & Dating

We're both 18, this is the first Christmas we are spending together and I want to surprise him with a really special gift.

His father told him that Christmas and birthdays are not important -_- but I really want to change that mindset, and make him happy this coming Christmas!

Some people say guys love gadgets but as I am still studying, I don't think I can afford something so expensive... For one, he doesn't like computer games.

Any others ideas would be great, thanks! =)

2007-12-15 20:39:54 · 13 answers · asked by Krystal 2 in Singles & Dating

She and her cousin were drunk and they ended up having sex. What should I say to her to make her feel better about the situation?

2007-12-15 20:22:31 · 6 answers · asked by me 4 in Family

What I mean is, when you want to build a family, would you make it with your special boy/girlfriend, or you`ll find another boy/girl when you want to get married?

2007-12-15 20:21:52 · 4 answers · asked by ~BimyOu~ 1 in Weddings

K so i have been the nice guy my whole life. But it seems every girl i like always ends up sayin i like you as a friend right before she goes out with the a**whole guy. So should i just start bein an a** or do girls really like the nice guy???

2007-12-15 20:21:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

No greencards or anything like that. No arranged marriages. I'm talking about if one or more person is unable to physically have sex but still wants to get married...is it possible to have a lifelong marriage if the other partner agrees to a sexless marriage?

2007-12-15 20:20:54 · 8 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a college student. While i'm away at college i am living with a roommate. As some of you know good roommates are hard to find. The one i have now is a good roommate but i live 15-20 miles from school and for as much as I'm paying in rent I could be living on my own. (I am paying month to month, no lease)
Do i venture out on my own, find a single unit place for what I'm paying now but much closer to school, plus saving a ton on gas and wear and tear on my car, or do i stay where i'm at out of loyalty to a really good roommate?

2007-12-15 20:19:48 · 12 answers · asked by mars_23 2 in Friends

I am East Indian: Most of my relatives had arranged marriages and they are very happy (contrary to what western society may think).
-Why arrange marriages work out:
1)Both families look for both partners of equal qualifications (eg. education, looks, personal attributes, values, cultures (for compatibility))
2)After extensive research by families, girl/guy meet and discuss many things in order to find compatibility.(if not, then marriage is cancelled)
3)Both partners have had very limited number (or none) X- partners, so their love is much more intense. (Dont tell me that love doesn't lose some of its meaning by having more partners b4 marriage, ofcourse it does and you know that, too).
4)Extensive network of close family/freinds is also involved. This provides support and positive reinforcement to both partners to make their marriage work even at bad times
5)Partners are much more less likely to cheat or simply get 'BORED' out of marriage(as is the case in some ppl in US/Canada)

2007-12-15 20:18:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I are in our 20's and have been bestfriends for 7 years. He wanted me as his girlfriend the whole time and I finally starting having those feelings back. We have been exclusive for a couple months even though we had sex occasionally while we were bestfriends. He never had a problem staying hard during sex unless he was drinking. But now he has this problem all of the time (when not drinking) and my sex drive is way higher than it has ever been. I want it all the time. I don't try to make him give it to me, but he knows that I am ready anytime. I love him and we are considering marriage. I don't want sex to be an issue now that I am finally wanting it, how can I keep him hard or inscrease his sex drive? And I am not at all bad looking so what is wrong, please help me I feel like he does'nt want me anymore. He wants help with this also.

2007-12-15 20:16:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just think its a disgusting lifestyle. I dont understand. I really don't want to judge people. I just don't agree at all. I just don't get it. What do you people think?

2007-12-15 20:14:58 · 10 answers · asked by candyapplesyum! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-15 20:12:12 · 6 answers · asked by Luckily Bewitched 2 in Marriage & Divorce

this girl i liked, who by the way knew, kept gazing deep into my eyes when she was talking to her friends about something funny and kept laughing. i was like 5 meters away, i could hear them, so im pretty sure she they were laughing at me or anything.... but i also heard she likes another guy shes friends with, and have seen her show interest in him too.anyways do u think she likes me?

2007-12-15 20:11:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and please don't tell me things that i already know.

2007-12-15 20:09:42 · 13 answers · asked by ChevyGirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been trying to get the girl im head over heals in love with for the last year and have at times sort of succeded but she wouldnt stay away from her ex who knew how to manipulate her using lies. And he would steal her away from me, has happend 3 times. Well the last time, hurting me wieghted heavy on her mind. Leading to problems in there relationship. I was devestated that she could hurt me over the guy who hurt her so much when i had never hurt her.

Well this is the question, should i date her again? she wised up but she had to learn the hardway. She got pregnant, and he reacted horribly and took off. She came back to me wanting forgiveness, i agreed. She wants to be with me. And i want to give her one last chance. I want to be there for her when she needs support, when she is sick, when she goes into labor, and i want to help her raise the child.(raised my brother basically) I love her so i want to make her happy. And hlp her. But im afraid ill get hurt so should i date her

2007-12-15 20:09:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i went to her house to give her a rose i called her to come out but then she never did.and one of my friends said that she had told one of her teammates that me and her were going help plz help what should i do

2007-12-15 20:07:09 · 6 answers · asked by pedro h 2 in Singles & Dating

Any tip to hide them?

2007-12-15 20:05:33 · 3 answers · asked by Clipper 3 in Friends

yea i am seein thinew girl.. and we both really like each other. she is insecure about her weight, which isnt even there..and she doesnt want to have sex because she feels insecure... what is a way i can get thru this? it would be good for me and good for her as well, but shes too afraid she looks bad but i tell her and think shes perfect.

2007-12-15 20:03:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating