Im asking this coz i dont see much more than a 4 year age gap between my mates and their mrs! Im 31 but im attracted to ladies in their early to mid -20's is that okay do you think? Or will they think im too old? I just seem to fet on with them better, oh by the way i suffered from a drug and alcohol addiction for 7 years! Also im a bit balding all over i shaved my head no.1 tho does that bother women? Oh could you put your age to so i know, where the opinions come from! Thanks for help!
2007-12-15 21:04:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's probably robbing the cradle a little ... but hey, the youngest girl I went out with was 16 years younger than me!
Shaved head is better than trying desperately to create the illusion of hair. A good head of hair is the best biological signal (linked with high testosterone) but second best is a bald head (male pattern balding linked with high testosterone also) ... don't ever let it get to a combover or a toupee.
4 year age gap is probably an average.
Often, large age gaps cause problems in relationships because the two people just lead very different lives and are looking for different things. However, many people will be able to tell you of some case where it works. So it CAN work - it's just not a high percentage thing. But if that's what you're looking for, go look!
37yo M
2007-12-15 21:08:23 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ey ur only 31??whats the big deal about mid 20's attraction thing?be very afraid if you're attracted to 10 to 16 year old girls coz youll be accused of pedophilia,lol.
anyway,strangely some early to mid 20's women find bald head in men to be sexy(& i mean clear of even the smallest of stubbles,the likes of telly savalas & yul brynner) so you may meet someone who will not be bothered one bit with your balding,shaved head.
just go for the things you really like(including women younger than you,ha ha)& just be yourself.if you had put your addictions behind you then thats better as it will give you a good chance at finding the one,no matter what age.
BTW im a 36 yr old lady married to someone 15 yrs older than me.
2007-12-15 23:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am timeless and ageless but I feel you will find someone much older than you ,and a shaved head is a beautiful sight, and I feel your sould has been ravaged by your past pain and you are still healing from it,this shows in your open and honest question,today start letting the concern of age cloud your vision, you are a strong strong person and soon you will find your soul mate, look for her under the stars and she will be wearing a silver ring on her right hand middle finger, peace be with you both
2007-12-15 21:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will not date a man above his thirties. Part of this is because I have to honestly wonder the reason a man of that age is looking at me and not the women his age. I truly feel vulnerable and that they are merely looking for a trophy. And this happens to be a very large truth.
And I'm going to be totally vain here. I exercise daily and take care of my skin. I'm not going to date a man who doesn't take care of his body or his age is clearly showing.
This is coming from a 22 year old who has not completed college, is trying to get a decent job, has yet to save enough money for her own place, and simply doesn't need a man at that age trying to tie me down to his life when I have so much going on in mine right now and in the future.
2007-12-15 21:17:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 20, almost 21. And I tend to like guys who are younger than me. Of course right now, anyone younger than 18 is illegal lol. So anyone from 18-20, is my age range for the guys I'm attracted to. I really never like older guys, because I think I'm pretty immature for my age.
2007-12-15 21:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats obvious aren't we all attracted to women in their early twenties they are beautiful now to your question. I have seen that most women especially those under 30 are attracted to older. Maybe its because older men give them a sense of security or experience...
Thank you, Lenin Patino
2007-12-15 21:13:26 · answer #6 · answered by patlen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. A guy your age has to be either gorgeous or rich to get a girl in her mid-20's.
2007-12-15 21:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by precision 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 19 almost 20 and like older guys. not like in their 30's but my friend is a year older than me and she wont date a guy younger than 30.
2007-12-15 21:14:13 · answer #8 · answered by *Sweet_Kisses* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Provided you are a millionaire you can never be too old
2007-12-15 21:07:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋