Family & Relationships - 15 December 2007

2007-12-15 19:58:54 · 9 answers · asked by yog c 1 in Friends

ok here I go well umm.. can you guys tell me 18 things how can a girl tell if a boy is intrested . because there is there guy in my class and he always smiles at me and trys to impress me is by him smiling at me does that mean he like me and does that mean he is flirting with me

2007-12-15 19:52:48 · 6 answers · asked by J WEEZY LOVES NIKKI R.I.P. 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 19:51:30 · 17 answers · asked by Helena 6 in Singles & Dating

this girl i liked, who by the way knew, kept gazing deep into my eyes when she was talking to her friends about something funny and kept laughing. i was like 5 meters away, i could hear them, so im pretty sure she they were laughing at me or anything.... but i also heard she likes another guy shes friends with, and have seen her show interest in him too.anyways do u think she likes me?

2007-12-15 19:50:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 19:48:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This friend of mine is a professional athelete. While he was running he got a hamstring tear. Now, when they took him to the hospital, the doctor confirmed the injury and said he would be out for a month. His wife was standing a little far away, she had her head down and was tapping her foot. Before I left me and her husband realized that she was crying.

Is that normal for a wife to react like that !?!?! I mean, have heard that when you love someone you feel the pain because they are also in pain. It is kind of surprising for me because my gf never cried for me. So could it be that she just loves him a lot?

Or is she worried about his money?

They are married for four months. He is still going to be paid for one month and his expenses are on his club.

2007-12-15 19:47:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am trying to understand something. My ex was into SM. He also said it "wasn't that important" to him. I expressed interest in it but when we first tried it I thought it was too scary. He was very forceful and teased me about ignoring my safe words. He also tried to do stuff that I had told him not to do when I was in a vulnerable position.

This episode really scared me. However, I liked the guy a lot so I told him that he needed to respect my limits and we needed to take things slow.

Ever since then things were "different" and he pulled away from me sexually. He since broke up with me and said his feelings changed over the past few weeks. (Time wise, this matches up with his feelings being different since this specific night I'm talking about.)

I don't know much about SM...was his behavior normal for SM? I thought safe words were "sacred," and not to be joked about. Was I right to feel scared? Why did he reject me after this?

2007-12-15 19:45:56 · 3 answers · asked by quirkyfunnyone 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine, although a very fallible decision is Ville Valo. I think he's one of the sweetest men alive. Very poetic.

2007-12-15 19:44:42 · 16 answers · asked by 666 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 19:41:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She's cute and all and this is the first girl thats ever had a crush on me... what should I do?

2007-12-15 19:41:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend really likes this guy, ever since the stoneage. But he's recently considered himself gay. I didn't really mind because if that's this choice, then it's up to him. But my friend really likes him. What advice can I give her? Just tell her to give up? -which sounds mean- or tell her to keep trying, when she doesn't stand a chance?

Help?

We're 15, by the way.

2007-12-15 19:38:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I ran into my ex at the mall after like 4 years of no communications. After talking she asked me if I would like to out to dinner. I said I would have to check my schedual. What should I do?

2007-12-15 19:25:54 · 3 answers · asked by Chantol๛ ดวงอาทิตย์๛ 4 in Singles & Dating

Hi Iam planning to get married in April 2008,Mumbai.Currently I am staying in UAE.I would like to know whether I can do court marriage before I go for the traditional marriage.If its possible then what are procedures for the same.

Rgds./Sachin

2007-12-15 19:25:35 · 8 answers · asked by sachin m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a a niece, and I love her and I am just worried about her. You see her parents never took care of her and her grandmother ended up taking custody of her. Thats just the situation. So, to my question... recently my niece (18 years old) has talke to me and mentioned very casually that she is going back to school (she had dropped out of highschool about 6 months ago and has not been going to school ever since as far as I know).....so she also mentioned that she only goes to school about 3 days a week and each day is about 2 and half hours........ What type of school is this? Being her uncle, I'm just concerned... What type of program is this? I never heard of a highschool that has their students come in for 3 days a week for 2 and half hours each day.... Please any knowledge is greatly appreciated... Thank you in advance.

2007-12-15 19:23:57 · 7 answers · asked by JIF 2 in Family

Im confused. A guy that is always asking me out, &seems to like me a great deal, said he had a question for me. He asked me If i would go w/ him to his works christmas party. I said Id request it off work and told him yes. I drove all the way to the Hyatt (an hr away). when i got there he said there were rules, 1 to be respecful of everyone and 2 hes not dancing. i was like OKAY i already know the 1st one and the 2nd i didnt ask u to dance. Then we were having a good time and I asked him an hour later why did he invite ME. (cuz it was a VERY ritzy party.) He said nonchalantly "Honestly? You were the only one available." I was like NICE. He was drunk and got even more drunk a few hours later. Everyone was heading out to the clubs and i just walked away and waved goodbye to him to go get my car from valet parking. He chased me & asked where i was going? I said Im leaving bye and turned around left. My question is why was he acting like an A***hole to me? I WASNT available the night eithr

2007-12-15 19:22:47 · 8 answers · asked by Fiona 2 in Singles & Dating

I haven't been able to sleep all night. my bf's been asleep since 12 cause he works at 5. but i can't help but o in there and lay with him and hug him and give him soft kisses and whisper in his ear that i love him. i'm worried i'm bothering him, but i just love him so much!!! is this wrong? i only go in there every hour or so.

2007-12-15 19:21:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Maybe it was an older sister, or a neighbor girl or maybe just your girlfriend, but I know that when I was around 12 or so my friends older sister one day put me in a headlock and took me to the floor then sat on my chest. I've also heard from other guys who have told me similar stories. Has anyone else had this happen to them, or does it still happen with regularity? I'm just curious about this.

2007-12-15 19:18:43 · 12 answers · asked by krute 5 in Singles & Dating

This is why I come home from college as little as possible. My mom, of course, is never the bad one, always the victim. She yells and screams and cusses, etc. Constant bickering, usually at least one big fight a week. I'm tired of it, I can't deal with it. My brother seems to easily blow it off and not let it get to him when he's home but I dunno how he does it. I wish I could be like that. I'm 23 years old and it STILL upsets me. I've tried to talk to both my parents about it. My dad says he'll try to change but doesn't. He's even tried counseling but I guess it hasn't worked. My mom asserts that she's the victim and my dad's horrible and that her yelling and stuff is how she deals with his issues. I just can't deal with it anymore. Even if I go to grad school, I won't have to come home as much, so this is technically my last 3-week school break to have to spend at home, but I don't want ANOTHER miserable holiday season. How can I deal with it?

2007-12-15 19:11:57 · 5 answers · asked by Michelle G 2 in Family

can you name what this example is coming from?

2007-12-15 19:11:55 · 8 answers · asked by emmy 2 in Singles & Dating

So after a my school dance where my ex and I danced with numerous people in competition to each other, the stories continued about how he "wants to be friends with me." I've heard these many times from a best friend who is good friends with him, but I can't find a way to let myself talk to him. I feel like I'm over him after I'm with another boy, or doing something fun and grand, but when I see him with another , I feel nautious, like 'didn't i mean anything to him?' and 'i want him to do that with ME again.' How can I make amends with him, and eventually feel better about this. I may have even loved him, I'm just too crazy to deal with this any more. Do I talk to him, or just let go forever and let it be? (we're at the same SMALL school for 3 1/2 more years however)

2007-12-15 19:10:29 · 6 answers · asked by giving. 3 in Singles & Dating

I feel terrible. I am very sad. My boyfriend just broke up with me.

I can't sleep, I am so sad over this. I feel alone and like I have nowhere to turn. I don't know how I will manage because I really was in love with this guy. I feel that there is nothing worthwhile about me. This guy was so sweet...he surprised me with a homecooked meal by candlelight; he asked me out and called me all of the time...and I feel like an idiot because I actually though he felt the same way about me as I did about him...stupid, stupid!! Nothing can ever work out for me...I'm so sad...

2007-12-15 19:09:03 · 12 answers · asked by quirkyfunnyone 1 in Singles & Dating

He has been texting this girl who is programmed in his phone as Sexy Mama when I am only in there by name. He has appearantly driven her to work a few times, that I never knew about, and hung out with her when I didn't know about it. He said that two times when she got out of the car the song Closer by Nine Inch Nails has come on the radio. If you dont know that song.. the main line says I wanna f*#? you like an animal, I wanna feel you from the indide. they have plans to see eachother thursday when he told me he has to work. it did just say hang out and watch a movie.. but i cant believe that after every other deception. what should I do. Should I freak out on him now.. or wait til thursday and see what happens. My heart hurts soo bad. Please help me?

2007-12-15 19:07:25 · 10 answers · asked by SnOwBuNnY 3 in Singles & Dating

Well, there is this girl I know, whom is pretty and very outgoing and fun, she's cool. Lol. But here's the deal, the other day, we we're talking and she pretty much came to me for advice and told me somethings she said she is surprised to tell me, that she would only tell things like this, about another guy, to her sis or best friend. Now I do NOT want to fall in love with this girl, she is too good of a person to have me like her, and maybe later on, not. But my point is I do not want to take it any further than she wants too. I want to respect her. Here;s the bottom line question. How do i NOT fall in love with her, cause slowly, I am!

2007-12-15 19:05:22 · 5 answers · asked by John G 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a co worker who is very, very cute and i find her very interesting. She keeps to her self as far as i can tell, atleast around me i think. She hates when people hit on her or so im told, so i dont say cheesy pick up lines and such, besides its not my thing. But i have occasionally tried to communicate with her, and i heard someone say she hates me. However, we still chat every now and again, and lately i am very intrigued by her. I dont know if shes shy or maybe just not interested in me. we talked once and she brought up never having eaten oysters, and i told her i love them, but before i could ask her to go get some with me, another co worker rudely interupted our conversation, and I couldnt help but feel that she wanted me to ask, but im not 100% on that. Just the other day, she asked my friend if he knew any nice guys, (which i am) and he said he knew one. (he didnt say my name) This is a friend that I am very well known to associate with. Im unsure of what to do...

2007-12-15 19:01:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she doesnt have any income other than my ssi i have spina bifad and wheelchair bound she quit her job due to back and knee problems and has a sudden death disease she has 2 girls and just to over the care of her nephew even though she has no money because he was being abused she doesnt have anything for her kids fro christmas thanks chuck

2007-12-15 19:00:04 · 4 answers · asked by chuck e 1 in Family

hi all,
my ex and i broke up because he was always working and he never had time for me. we broke up about 2 years ago. after we broke up he would always keep in touch till this day. he calls me like every 3-4 weeks to see how i am doing? also, when he calls he wants to hang out and everytime i hang out with him we end up kissing (no sex) just kissing,,,so its not a booty call...im trying to figure him out..what does he want from?? does this make any sense at all?? cause im so confused as to why he hooks up with me when we hang out but we r not together...ive been dating other guys after him and i know that hes been dating other girls after me...i need help trying to figure this out??? im gonna ask him whats on his mind, but before i do this i just want everyones opinion...im curious

2007-12-15 18:51:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am the matron of honor at my sister in laws wedding. I was wondering when we should have whatever parties (bridal shower, bachelorette party, and whatever else there is).

2007-12-15 18:50:30 · 9 answers · asked by Someonesmommy 5 in Weddings

I've been suspecting something was up, like shes been with someone and not telling me. Few times my picture in her room has been face down all of a sudden,once i showed up early and she was dressed super nice/ full make up job because she "felt like it" (she never dressed up), acting like someone is around when she calls in the afternoon,+ lots more.Well, I always notice when we go to this gas station by her apartment she never wants me to come in, just says wait in the car i'll be right out.This time I needed something and I went in.The guy working there gets REALLY excited when he sees her walk in "Hey!! Haven't seen you in a while! what's up!!"being extremely friendly, and by some stuff he said I knew they must have talked more than just chit chatting.Same thing a few days later.When we leave, she gets mad at me for coming in, and accuses me of "checking up on her"! I just got a bad vibe about it. She said she just goes in there a lot and he is always working.What do you guys think

2007-12-15 18:46:00 · 3 answers · asked by Jack B 1 in Singles & Dating

because we just had a really fun night together playing poker, video games and drinking. Then had great sex. He fell asleep. Then his stupid friend called and wants my husband to go have a drink a couple blocks away. Now I would go with him but I have two kids asleep in the other room. Do I have the right to be a little upset when I say I'm sick of always being left alone when he goes to hang out? I also don't care he's going for a drink. We have alcohol. So his two single friends take him away from his family instead of sticking around here. Especially after such a great night. It makes me feel like I'm not enough.
Honestly it's late and I'm still kinda drunk so I'm usually not this pissed but tonight really bugged me. Not sure this is much of a question but should my husband be shocked when he gets the cold shoulder when he gets home?

2007-12-15 18:40:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my parents are married. ( in their 40's)
my dad has always been the forceful type, and she's a pushover and does WHATEVER he says. She knows me and my sister hate it, and we tell her to stand up for herself, but she never does. i was recently on my mom's labtop and i found a file of my dad's full of different picture files. of course i looked at them and i found some really disturbing pictures and i wish i wouldn't have looked.... keep in mind my dad WAS present for all of this.
-- there were numerous albums of my mom and two other older men fooling around and she even had sex with one of them. i naturally freaked out after i saw this but i can NEVER confront her about it... i guess im just wondering if this is normal and how i can handle this. i'm scared my dad forced her to do it and i guess thats what really bugs me, but any comforting or informative advice would be great! this is serious so please answer accordingly. THANKS!

2007-12-15 18:36:56 · 17 answers · asked by hill <3 2 in Family