So after a my school dance where my ex and I danced with numerous people in competition to each other, the stories continued about how he "wants to be friends with me." I've heard these many times from a best friend who is good friends with him, but I can't find a way to let myself talk to him. I feel like I'm over him after I'm with another boy, or doing something fun and grand, but when I see him with another , I feel nautious, like 'didn't i mean anything to him?' and 'i want him to do that with ME again.' How can I make amends with him, and eventually feel better about this. I may have even loved him, I'm just too crazy to deal with this any more. Do I talk to him, or just let go forever and let it be? (we're at the same SMALL school for 3 1/2 more years however)
2007-12-15 19:10:29 · 6 answers · asked by giving. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should move on.
It's natural to want to still be friends with someone. It's natural for you to feel unhappy/uncomfortable (nauseated) at the thought of being replaced ...
But if he replaces you, surely that just shows you how unsuited you both were ... perhaps he didn't love you as much as you thought he did.
It doesn't mean you are unlovable ... it just means he didn't give that much of himself for you.
You need to find the guy who is going to love you - who is going to make the effort for you.
2007-12-15 19:15:55 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get that "nauseous" feeling because you still care for him which is normal after you've been with someone you cared for. I don't think it'll be easy to make amends, though, until you can see him with someone else and be genuinely happy for him that he's happy. It'll be difficult to just be friends when you want him to hug you and hold you instead of another girl. Take care of that issue first before you can move onto a friendship with him. I know lots of girls who are friends with their exes and there's no weird "thing" there. But it'll take some time to get to that point. Good luck and hope I helped!
2007-12-15 19:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by jalvarez626 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all. dont be a tease. in specific situations, whether you dont advise to if seems that way so watch what you do. Being pals after a wreck up takes time no rely what so enable pass sluggish. You seem attempting to rigidity the difficulty. in case you already pronounced what you quite needed then the character artwork. it is your maximum suitable wager. You dont be attentive to his actual thoughts so time permit you to the two be attentive to in case you will possibly be pals. sluggish.
2016-11-27 20:05:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your piece of mind you need to forget about him. I mean you can still be friends with him but that's all. Remember why he's your ex in the first place.
2007-12-15 20:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by mikk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just seat down with him,spoke franckly,tell him all about,what in your heart.after that if he feel for u,then start,otherwise you will be liability.
2007-12-15 21:28:15 · answer #5 · answered by uae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you are still attached to him..
its time to let go and move on..
2007-12-15 19:15:15 · answer #6 · answered by dj princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋