Family & Relationships - 15 December 2007

2007-12-15 13:59:51 · 24 answers · asked by Ksenia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-15 13:57:24 · 35 answers · asked by oncemarriednowsingleandhappy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents weren't all that fantastic - they were abusive and generally unpleasant. I left home abruptly (technically I ran away) several years ago because I could no longer survive mentally or physically in that environment anymore.

I am very angry with my mother for the things she did and said and how she made me feel. I'm furious at her. But for some reason, I don't have anywhere near the same level of anger toward my father.

I have far more reason to be angry with him - my mother made my childhood lonely and extremely miserable...he made it hell. But for some reason, I feel nothing toward him - just emptiness with the occasional exception of a little pity, fear or irritation. It's as if he no longer matters to me. I just don't care about him anymore.

Now that feels far more comfortable than the anger I have for my mother. But I don't understand the difference in the way I feel toward them. Why am I able to feel like this about my father but not my mother?

2007-12-15 13:56:40 · 11 answers · asked by . 6 in Family

Last night my boyfriend tried to have sex with me. I wanted it too but I tried to tease him to say "no", "stop it" and moved away his hand. Then he stopped and became so mad. I tried to touch him back but this time he stopped me and said he didn't want anymore. Actually I feel so sorry to tease him this way but I just feel so shy to say "yes" each time we have sex. This morning he insisted to leave me. He said this is not sexy to do that and he will not ask for sex from me anymore. Any guys can tell me what I should do?

2007-12-15 13:53:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK SO my gf's birthday is 2marrow, she has some stuff planned for her birthday already, btw we are in highschool. and so she is goin to skate country for her b-day to jsut have funa nd hang with friends, but my question is what should i get her, not cd's and dvd's and ****. it has to be something meaningful but idk, im out of idea. i need help!!!!!!!!

2007-12-15 13:52:28 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do girls thik im a player.... im 19 years old, and people think im a player... but i dont brag about girls i've dated or whatever and im not all smooth, but a few days ago two people i know said im a player (a girl and a guy) and they were being serious. im not even that good looking im just normal. and i dont even date a lot. good explanation please for points.

2007-12-15 13:52:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I usually only ask once a week and every time she turns it into a big deal, and she has never asked for it ever and we have been married for 8 years, life is too short I think I'm going to look somewhere else and see how much she misses it when I'm gone

2007-12-15 13:48:32 · 12 answers · asked by mintman123 4 in Marriage & Divorce

everyday at school or in the store..i see couples everywhere..and especially at school..i think to myself..why hasnt it happened to me..now i know what your thinking..your so young live it up..well let me tell ya...you cant just let loose of something your heart desires..so why do i desire a boyfriend so much?? maybe becuase i want someone to hold and cuddle with and for once tell somebody everything..why my heart wishes for this?? i dont know..but it makes me upset..and it has never happened to me..not once

2007-12-15 13:48:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wrote this to the girl that ive being having communications with... but i wonder what would you all think about the matter....

I mean is weird for me to be expressing myself like this... is wierd for me that out of nowhere everything with me and around me has change... could you believe that my view of things and else has trnasform... i mean not only that but im sitting down in from of a pc writing to an unseen person that i think is not only a physical beauty pageant but everything else might just be as beautiful, and im totally intrigue to find out the good and the bad answer... I MEAN i know i havnet met you in person and right now im the biggest geek or looser in the universe this is wierd for me and i dont know what are you thinking.

I hope you believe me and treat this with absolute truth after all you are really far and i know limits and boundaries... you could say anything from you are not interested, seing someone else better than me,... i dont know

2007-12-15 13:47:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok well i like this guy and im a freshman and i play ice hockey for my Jv school team. Well he's a junior and he plays on my hockey team. Well hes kinda cute but hes really nice, funny, protctive during games, he always sticks up for me, and he just makes my life so much easier. But like im pretty sure the only reason he does this is cause were friends. So im not sure if he likes me or if its just cause were friends and were on the same team. We see each other all the time in school and we always joke around and i see him at hockey. its just idunno. Like im not sure if he would ever go out with a freshman because of the age difference! Or if he would go out with a girl on his hockey team cause it could be weird. What should I do?
Thanks!
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Need all the help i can get so keep the answers commin in!
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2007-12-15 13:46:29 · 1 answers · asked by hockeyislife 2 in Singles & Dating

Susan: "I just wan to be freinds."
Eric: "But I jsut can't be frends.
Susan: "Why not?"
Eric: "Becsue I love you!"
Susan: "I don't know what to say/"
Eric: "I have known you for years, poured my heart out to you and you don't know what to say? Maybe I should just learn how not to care and love for you the way I do."
Susan: "Why would you do that?"
Eric: "Susan, my feellings for you are true. No guy would ever make you as happy as I would and no guy would ever treat as good as I do. Maybe I should just leave and hook up with all those other strong good guys who are victims of unrequited.
love".
Susan: "Eric, you would leave me???"
Eric: "For my sanity my love, for my sanity. I will not act as your best frend. I am your leading man."

2007-12-15 13:46:16 · 2 answers · asked by Monsieur Rick 7 in Singles & Dating

I was happy when we became engaged a few months ago, though we have been through many ups and downs in our relationship. I have experimented with women before and during our relationship a few times but nothing serious. He approved of me experiementing at the time because we are young. Now that we are going to be married, he wants us to be monogamous, and so do I.
The problem is that I met this woman (a lesbian) at work about a month ago, and I am very infactuated with her. We have become fast friends and have admitted that we are both attracted to eachother, but we are both taken so we are not going to act on it.
I realize that I don't really know her well, and it's probably just a "crush" but it's really bothering me that I have feelings for someone besides my fiance. Is this normal? Am I just afraid of committing? Should I just back off from our friendship? Help! I am too scared to admit this to any other friends or my family.
I have been open with him about my feelings for her.

2007-12-15 13:46:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the question says it all....i was thinking of putting flowers outside her house, so she sees them on her way to school(shes 18) with a simple note that says "thinking of you, beautiful" Any ideas would help, big or small. thanks ahead of time.

2007-12-15 13:43:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 13:42:57 · 1 answers · asked by rey1101 3 in Singles & Dating

just found cousin's husband on adultfriendfinder.com
they just had a baby and his account is fresh and the pic are none too wholesome. what shld i do? i like him but you know what they say about blood...

2007-12-15 13:42:36 · 15 answers · asked by Kiome_274 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A friend mentioned that she has seen many university diplomas made of simple and hymble paper. She said that many of this diplomas are made of a white letter sized sheet of paper with gothic fonts, and in this sense they look more like "fake diplomas" which were made using "word" or some other software. Why so many university diplomas look so simple??

2007-12-15 13:42:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 13:42:05 · 29 answers · asked by maburke71 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I have lived together for 3 years. When we first moved in together she was pretty good about helping me keep the house clean. Over time she got where she cleaned less and less and now she just sits there and reads or does cross word puzzles. If there is something she wants to do she will get up and do it. I'm not extremely picky about the house being cleaned but I don't like it when the sink overflows with dishes. There is only so much one person can do and maintain their sanity. Am I thinking about this all wrong?

2007-12-15 13:41:06 · 15 answers · asked by Tinker 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my ex broke up about 8 months ago. It wasnt a rough breakup but it wasnt a nice one either. Im still in love with her. We text eachother sometimes, but about insignificant stuff. She for some reason tries to keep contact with me and my family(talks to both my brothers still). I became really close with her family during the relat. so her brother still calls me and invites me over to his house. The thing is, im still in love with her. But she might have fallen in love with someone else already, and she MIGHT not know i still love her. What should I do. Should I keep contact with her so one day we talk again? Shes the girl i want to marry. Im not a needy guy. I have women, but i want that one. Is it even possible?

2007-12-15 13:40:30 · 3 answers · asked by bad2bone2212 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 13:38:48 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 12 years old and my mom owns a shop in my town. but she makes me work and i HATE it
help

2007-12-15 13:37:26 · 8 answers · asked by beckyw2013 1 in Family

2007-12-15 13:36:44 · 5 answers · asked by bosco r 1 in Singles & Dating

my dad and step mom are getting a divorce because my dad drinks too much. She has been there for me my whole life basically, when my birth mother was not at all. I dont want her to stop talking to me or including me in family gatherings, when this offically happens. What should i do??

2007-12-15 13:36:11 · 10 answers · asked by ERIN B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

knows all the details of your past and is alright with you still communicating....will continuing the communication prevent him from moving on if he feels he made the right decision to marry without love??

2007-12-15 13:35:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my partner have been together for 4 years now he is older then me and we both really love each other he was my first for many things we cant imagine life without each other my only problem is i really want to marry him but when i say anything he just laughs at me and makes a joke out of it he tells everyone else he would marry me and thats good as before he said he would never get married but now he tells everyone if he was to get married it would be with only me, when he as brought me rings ive said which finger is that for hint hint but he says IF we ever got married you would have a better ring then that but i dont want to be dangling i want to know theres nothing more i want but i dont think deep down he feels the same i think hes affraid i have told him theres nothing to be scared of i have agreed to sign saying i dont want nothing money and property wise so i dont no what the problem is please help i dont no what to do any suggestions?

2007-12-15 13:35:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-15 13:31:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the human race would have died out .. i mean when they get sick.. who takes care of them.. US.. when we get sick.. it honey what for supper..lol

2007-12-15 13:30:26 · 10 answers · asked by vis 7 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been dating for 4 months and she has been a part of our relationship from day one. Now he is looking for more quality time with her, without me. Should I be worried?

2007-12-15 13:27:38 · 19 answers · asked by Amy H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just wondering, when you are in love with someone do you always have a faster heart beat? Is it possible you don't get a faster heart beat if you have been with that person for a while and at ease...?

2007-12-15 13:27:37 · 5 answers · asked by jewellui 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 13:27:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family