knows all the details of your past and is alright with you still communicating....will continuing the communication prevent him from moving on if he feels he made the right decision to marry without love??
2007-12-15 13:35:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They married as a mutually beneficial agreement, but they want to try to see where things go. He and I can not be together at this time and he did this to try to move on. His wife knows about our feelings and condones our communication.
2007-12-15 13:48:14 · update #1
They will end up with a lot of problems. He will not be able to hide the lack of true interest. This happened to my girlfriend. ...Anyway no matter what the other woman should leave marriage alone and let him try to be a good man.
2007-12-15 13:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by heartsarebad 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound like my brother, his wife and his girlfriend.
OK. My brother told his wife that he wasn't happy with just her and wanted to get a girlfriend. his wife, not wanting to loose him gave the go ahead.
my brother got a girlfriend, they all had a understanding of where they all stood in the relationship.
the girl started telling my brother she really loved him and wanted him to leave his wife so they could be together. My brother loved her back and said he would leave his wife but then latter changed his mind and kept them both on a string.
The girl ended up moving in with my brother and his wife, then she got pregnant and told him to leave his wife or he wouldn't see the baby.
my brother is still married because his wife refuses to get a divorce and my brother hardly sees his son.
moral to this story if you really care about him and he really cares about you and the wife agrees with your relationship and the two ain't happy, have him get a divorce before you two get any deeper involved to save you a hassle latter on.
confusing I know, I have a hard time keeping up with it myself!
2007-12-15 21:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by candy w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure his wife knows that you and her husband are still communicating? I was in exactly the same situation, where my hub and had an affair with one of his EX girlfriends, I forgave him,but would NEVER give him the O.K to still communicate with her or it would be over, for sure.
2007-12-15 23:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by Sariee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What?
Joe loves Jill and Jill loves Joe but Joe marries someone else? Is that the question?
Jill should drop his a ss until he divorces his wife and is single again.
2007-12-15 21:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it will. A marriage of convenience is impossible to deal with, if waiting in the wings is the one you love...constantly reminding you that you left love for responsibility. If there is no one to distract him, he may choose to love his wife in the end...it often happens that way.
2007-12-15 21:42:47 · answer #5 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are stupid if you think that he don't love his wife that why he married her because HE LOVES HER if I was you get out now because the wife is going to kicks your A*S*S.
You need to move on and find someone that don't have a wife or a girlfriend.He gave you a line of S*H*I*T that what he did he lied big time. I HOPE SHE KICKS YOUR A*S*S
2007-12-15 22:00:00 · answer #6 · answered by carrie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is hard to understand...are you saying you're in love with someone who married another, but doesn't love them they love you, and you can still talk to each other? what the hell is that going to do but be torture...or lead to cheating, i don't know. i would move on love...they married someone else, you'll find another
blessings and luck to you
2007-12-15 21:41:15 · answer #7 · answered by starting over 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you are asking, but I promise you, no matter how much he tells you that he doesnt love her, he won't leave her. You should just move on..
2007-12-15 21:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by melissa.speer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
back away. this can only get ugly and confusing.
if/when things don't work out for the guy and his wife, and he really loves you, he'll find you.
2007-12-15 23:49:20 · answer #9 · answered by equimatch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R U KIDDING ME, U ARE FALLING FOR THAT OLD LINE, THAT LINE HAS BEEN IN USE SINCE MARRIAGE BEGAN AND I CAN'T BELIEVE SOME WOMEN STILL FALL FOR IT
2007-12-15 21:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by Dale T 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋