Family & Relationships - 15 December 2007

argument, before i could find out what that is....... what is it??

2007-12-15 12:40:00 · 5 answers · asked by biglou 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a little nervous, and no it's not sex. Please be aware I am not too young but I am curious and all that and so is my boyfriend. So I have to make my descision by 10 PM if I want to do it or not. And the "it" is sending a picture of me naked or just underwear by cellphone. I'm kinda scared honestly because I have never sent a porn-ish picture to a guy before in my entire life. But then at the same time, I want to. What would be my best descision - to send or to not send? Oh and if this helps, We are both 14.

2007-12-15 12:38:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

O.K., here is the case: I want to get this girl, who I think is kinda cute a christmas gift. The problem is I don't know what to get her. And the second problem is that I told her I was going to get her something, but she said she didn't want me to get her anything. But she said the reason that she didn't want me to get her anything was because her mom would not let her accept the gift. Whatdo I do and if I get her a gift what should I get her? Thanks.

2007-12-15 12:38:32 · 1 answers · asked by Pre Lives 3 in Singles & Dating

We both love each other a lot but there are too many issues. First she was the "other woman" for a year before becomming my main girl which has resulted in lack of trust. We fight. shes mean. her family and friends dont know shes with me bcause she wont tell them untill she sure about us working out. (they know about our past and dont agree...her friends and family are very important to her). She wont even add me to her facebook because of this. We both act like were single because we are not officially a couple. Will it ever work?

2007-12-15 12:38:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex cheated on me 6 months ago... we were set to be married and everything... we still talk to each other and see each other on the by and by... he seems so happy with her... its killing me... and it hurts the most right now because we would have been together 3 years this month... any helpful words... please

2007-12-15 12:34:11 · 16 answers · asked by mercedes O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Should he not love them both the same but for different reasons.
HIs mom gave him life and his wife shows him a new life.

I'm asking because I"m trying to understand an ex-coworker of mine who has said his wife will always come before his mom.-because she's HIS WIFE..(hes gone though several wifes for various reasons but HIS MOM is always there to help pick up the pieces...So I don't understand why he can't just love them equally...Is it wrong ??

2007-12-15 12:32:48 · 14 answers · asked by C 4 in Marriage & Divorce

omg do they???! if they do THATS SOO WORNG

2007-12-15 12:32:23 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I received a Christmas card from a friend with a letter inside saying what she, her hubby & baby have been up to this year. The letter had so many grammatical errors & spelling errors. It basically made no sense! How do I nicely tell her that she needs to have someone proof-read things before sending them to all of their family & friends? Everyone is making fun of her!

2007-12-15 12:31:45 · 32 answers · asked by Kittykat24 4 in Friends

ok this is me
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and theres the cutest guy in my theater class. i think he likes me i'm not sure, i mean he tries talking to me, he says hi, and looks at me, and says i'm cute all the time, does that mean he likes me? and do i have a chance with him? because i like him a lot

2007-12-15 12:31:08 · 4 answers · asked by giggles♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 12:27:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I really want to know what others might think about this. Yesterday my husband asked me to go to a concert by a band that I did not like. I reluctantly agreed, after much cajoling. When we got there he reminded me of a very important (to me) holiday party that we were missing.

When I asked him whey he didn't mention that when we were discussing what to do, he said he thought I knew already (when he had the invitation and I never saw it). He agreed that he did not forget about that other party.

Do you think he should have mentioned the other party to me? Do you think he did this on purpose. I do. I don't want to be angry but I missed out on something he knew was really important for a really bad concert by a local DJ.

2007-12-15 12:26:40 · 14 answers · asked by CiCi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Then we got pregnant and they were so excited until they found out I was going to see a family member that they felt we'd all get a germ from.They refused contact with us and their first Grandchild, unless we didn't see this relative.The baby was born and I was inviting them to visit sending pics and everything trying to make peace but we never heard back.The baby turned two and I ran into them and so they said they wanted to see us.My hubby wants nothing to do with them (which I feel is his choice) I just don't want my child to grow up without her grandparents.My child and I have visited numerous times but I feel things will always be so different.They don't say they love me anymore, they just treat me indifferent,like I'm still to blame for it all?!I just need to know a third party feeling on how to handle it all .They haven't seen our daughter in almost 2 months and it's like they don't even care!Thanks for any advice:)

2007-12-15 12:26:01 · 6 answers · asked by superstar 6 in Family

my boyfriend is with a girl that likes him right now, and i asked him to take the night off but his parents said no. he told me not to worry and that he honestly didnt like her at all. i am worrying a lot, but should i worry?

2007-12-15 12:24:45 · 1 answers · asked by Lilly T 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 12:23:52 · 3 answers · asked by In<3w/myBOO 2 in Singles & Dating

It's the wife fault when a man cheat am I right

2007-12-15 12:23:43 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My bff Sophie is friends with this boy that I kinda know, but not as well as she knows him. They have been friends since day-care, and we're now 13.

He always had a few social problems (he switched skools because ppl teased him so much), but she really seems to have hung onto his friendship. It is very important to her that this stays a friendship. He, on the other hand, has made it very clear that he likes her, and has told me on numerous ocasions to tell her, and I did, but she has always responded negatively and says she thinks of him as more of a brother. Not wanting to be the bearer of bad news, I told him that she was undecided.

It has been 4 months, and he is still asking about it, and I have tried to put him off, but he's getting impatient, and has been calling Sophie 24/7 to try and invite her places. She is always "not at home" when this happens.

I feel so awfull about this whole situation, and I dont know what to tell him. Plz help!

2007-12-15 12:20:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am nice and looking nice one

2007-12-15 12:19:16 · 15 answers · asked by Fikre B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Tell me your opinion and learn about your way of life.
Thank you.

2007-12-15 12:18:29 · 14 answers · asked by De las Pampas 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been friends with him for a long long time and it kills me to see him with someone else how do i tell him. i dont want to break them up i just want him to knoe how i feel but i cant get the nerve and i dont knoe how to begin to explain it. what do i do and how do i go about it?

2007-12-15 12:11:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What does this mean in girl language? she won't kiss me on the lips and is distant about touching in general now which is wierd to me after a two year relationship.

2007-12-15 12:11:22 · 17 answers · asked by ugaguy36 1 in Singles & Dating

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We broke up one week ago, her decision. She wants to be friends. says that we can be friends, start from the beginning, and take things slow. She doesn't want to see me right now bc she says i still have feelings and only when i can be her friend we can see each other..

We started out our relationship really fast from the get go, three weeks of knowing each other and have been dating. for 2 months, until last week.

It is so hard to see her as a friend than a gf.
She says she wants to be single, have fun with her friends..

what should i do?
is it the end?
this is really bothering me.

She has been hanging out with her guy friends and will take vacations with them this holiday. She wont even spend Christmas with me, instead it will be with someone else whom she calls a friend, an the unknown gender, due to information, when i spoke with her three days ago. In doing no contact and will try to heal my inner wounds.. hope i will be okay and over her soon. thx for reading.

2007-12-15 12:09:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 12:07:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It had been years since we went out, but I was the one who broke up with him. And I hurt him. I was afraid because he got close to me. And I ran from my feelings for him. He was always there for me though, and still cared. I am living with remorse, because I can't remember if I ever said sorry for the pain I caused him. Plus I realize he is the only guy who did really care about me. Ever. All my relationships since have been bad and abusive in one way or the other. I found out his were all bad too. I am close to his parents, and they treat me like gold. They know I feel really bad, and tell me it's okay. But it doesn't help. I am just so hurt. I lost my dad just 6 months before Brian and another friend in between their deaths. It is very hard. Brian is the on that is hurting me the most. Because I had so many chances to make things right, but I didn't. I do not know what to do. Does anyone have any comments? Or suggestions? Thanks AnitaMarie

2007-12-15 12:07:43 · 3 answers · asked by AnitaMarie 1 in Friends

...* can be a person, place or thing, YOU never want to LOSE...

for me: 1. MY WIFE 2. THE LOVE FOR MY WIFE 3. LIFE
...ALLthe above will come to be...for now, IM selfish...

2007-12-15 12:05:15 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 22 years old and my aunt is 31 years old. We are related by marrige. Our family was on vacation so i satyed at her house. At night i was watching a movie in the bedroom and i was lying down on bed. It was a 2 bedroom house. She had a tv in the bedorom and i was watching. She came n and lied down so close to me in bed watching the tv. I was always in love with her so when she lied down near me i got nervous. After 15 minutes she told me to take off my shirt because the room was hot and i did. Then she put her arms around me and she came on top of me and we were watching the movie. I fell asleep and when i woke up we were both naked. help!! what do i do?

2007-12-15 12:02:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why was it lower in the past?

2007-12-15 12:01:48 · 19 answers · asked by snakebites1989 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This morning, my dad creates a scandal that I am not doing enough chores and not helping out (even thought I think I do). One of my chores is getting mail up on the street. I was sick in bed but still changed and went for the mail, where I find an empty box. He took the mail two hours earlier for some reason! So I say, "why didnt you tell me? Be a good person!" And he flips out again! Who is right?

2007-12-15 12:00:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

It's a well known fact that alcohol will loosen inhibitions and even make a person more sociable to a point. But alcohol in men will diminish sexual performance past a point. How about these effects on women. Please give sex, age, weight and ethnicity as this is important to data of effects.

I am a man, 0, about 175 pounds and excellent health. Swiss ancestry. I could drink a good 12 oz of alcohol with almost no visable effect. But as I have no desire to get drunk or overwork my liver and kidneys, I don't drink nearly so much. One or 2 drinks might loosen me up socially and release inhibitions. With sex, 2 is my limit. I would definitely risk reduced performance past that point. I might get away with 3. But believe in safety margins. And in reality I consume about 30- 22oz bottles of home made IPA beer annually and not in conjunction with being with my girlfriend as she hates the smell of beer.

2007-12-15 12:00:40 · 4 answers · asked by genghis1947 4 in Singles & Dating

We broke up in mid October, and now I've found a new bf and have gone out since this Tuesday. I know my ex still has feelings for me because he's been acting more annoying to my bf, talking to him more, and when passes me in the halls, looked at me deeply and for a long time until we pass each other. Sometimes he'd say "Peace" to me, and he is also sitting in the same seat I was seating at for lunch last school year. When we broke up, I didn't want to get back together, but something keeps reminding me of "us", and now that I've found a new bf, I'm getting the same feelings about my ex. What do I truly want?? My bf is treating me just like the way I wanted, but for some reason I keep thinking of my ex. What should I do??

2007-12-15 11:58:26 · 1 answers · asked by Mystify 1 in Singles & Dating

so last week i went with my parents to the anual christmas party. it's at my dad's friends house and all his old buddies from his old company go there including their kids. i've been going to this since i was 7. every year i always see this crazy girl whose 6 years older than me. anyway i saw her last weekend and she was crazy as usual but a little bit mmoody.
so i just found out that she commited suicide last night,
her boyfriend stopped by her house this morning he found her hanging by a rope in the garage. I honestly don't know how to deal with this. all i feel is horror for her boyfriend having to find the one he loves most hung and dead in her parents garge.and right around the holidays too. no one had any idea that she was depressed and my parents know her quite wll and aren;t handling this too well. i don't even know what to do.

2007-12-15 11:57:19 · 13 answers · asked by :| 1 in Family