Why do I keep going back to him??

Question

We broke up in mid October, and now I've found a new bf and have gone out since this Tuesday. I know my ex still has feelings for me because he's been acting more annoying to my bf, talking to him more, and when passes me in the halls, looked at me deeply and for a long time until we pass each other. Sometimes he'd say "Peace" to me, and he is also sitting in the same seat I was seating at for lunch last school year. When we broke up, I didn't want to get back together, but something keeps reminding me of "us", and now that I've found a new bf, I'm getting the same feelings about my ex. What do I truly want?? My bf is treating me just like the way I wanted, but for some reason I keep thinking of my ex. What should I do??

Answer 1

Consequence of loving, hunnie, leaves scars, you have to learn to be COMFRONTABLE with those scars, not easy. That aside, unless you find something you feel as intensly for, as him, to shoot for, your lost to him. Relationships don't work like switches, are else, you'd be happy with the new guy, welcome to the reality of the human heart, find peace, or heck will find you instead. Much I can say, but here, your pretty much on your own, what you "Should" do is based on your own life purpose, THAT i can't detact, so on your own..... if you gave me more information, perhaps, but in the end, its your bed you get to sleep in, do what brings peace.