Family & Relationships - 15 December 2007

I was dating a man for about a year and a half now and I always knew he looked at porn, which I was ok with but the other day I was using his computer and looked at his history and saw that he had been looking at kiddie porn!!! I love this man very much but when I found out I broke it off with him, because that is just not something I think is not right. I did not tell him that I knew what he was looking at because I just felt very uncomfortable doing so but I know that the right thing to do is to turn him in to the law about this matter, because I am afraid that if he is not stopped now of what he may do to peoples daughters if he takes this to the next level. I feel really stupid asking this question but I don't know who to turn him in to. Do I go to the local police in his area or is there a special number to call about ts kind of thing. Also does anyone know when I report him do I have to give my name or can I remain anonymous because I'm not comfortable giving my name.

2007-12-15 11:56:38 · 20 answers · asked by vanillarose_19426 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to go to law school, become a lawyer and live a comfortable/rich life. Marriage is not taken seriously nowadays, and most people divorce anyways. I want a lifelong partner, but just never get married. I dont want the responsibility and fear of losing most of my money to a gold digging whore. I also want to be independent and not have to consult anyone about every decision. I dont care if it makes me selfish, but its my life after all. So my questions is, what are the chances of finding a women who wants to be a lifelong partner but not get married, and do you think that there is something wrong with me to not conform with the rest of the society?

2007-12-15 11:55:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my dad slaps me and i my friends ask me why im sad and i cant tell them or my dad would beat me harder.help me?? pleazz........................... i need it badly.

2007-12-15 11:54:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was seeing this guy for about 3 months and all of a sudden he won't return my phone calls text or anything. I was thinking and this may sound dumb but u never know, that maybe since my b-day is coming up on the 21st and christmas on the 25th he was feeling a little cheap, but why not say u don't have it. I can't think of another reason. What do u think? Things were going great by the way.

2007-12-15 11:50:56 · 8 answers · asked by violet83 2 in Singles & Dating

I left my husband back in April of this year.I moved out of the state.He told me he wants me back and I have a feeling he is moving here in order to do that.Yes,I love him,but he has hurt me a lot in the past and I finally found the strength to leave him.Since April I have not dated anyone or had sex with anyone.He slept with 5 women and even had a gf he lived with.This is tearing me apart and I just dont know what to do.I love him and miss him very much.We are married and Id hate to get a divorce.My gut is tellin me to stay away from him and my heart is tellin me how much I love this man.I know everyone is going to tell me not to go back to him.Would it be wrong for me to give this marriage another chance??ps:we dont have kids.

2007-12-15 11:48:53 · 20 answers · asked by Rain 1 in Marriage & Divorce

'You can have a boyfriend, but you can't date until your sixteen'?
I've asked her, but she just thinks I'm trying to be funny.

2007-12-15 11:47:29 · 44 answers · asked by .-. 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 21 years old and my aunt is 32 years old. She married my uncle 2 years ago but I met her this year like in April. When I saw her I thought she was really pretty and hot. When I starting knowing her I fell in love with her. She has a good personality, funny, makes me smile, and really cool. She has such a pretty face. Last week I stayed at her house while everybody else was on vacation for 3 days. On the 3rd day in her house I was sitting in the couch watching a movie and she sat next to me. The air conditioner was on and she said she was really cold but I thought it was still hot. She started hugging me and she didn't take off the AC. Then she came on top of me and really started hugging me. I liked it but I didn't know what she was doing. She kept moving and was really hugging me and couldn’t let go. She was really grabbing me and then she put 1 hand under my shirt and 1 in my pants. Then I started hugging her and was touching her butt. I was so happy. I lied down on the couch and we were making out. I never knew she liked me. After making out for couple of minutes I wanted her so much I couldn’t let go of her. She was the reason I didn’t ask anybody out the entire year because of those feelings. After making out I carried her to the bedroom. I took off all my clothes except my boxers but she took every single clothes off. I didn’t know if I should take off my boxers but she took it off from me and we had sex. I stayed with her the entire night. She is incredible in bed. When we woke up I was facing her and she was facing me. We started talking on how great that was and I told her how I was in love with her for the entire year and how strong it was. She told me she always wanted to kiss me and be with me but she never knew it would go this far but she was really happy it did. She told me that she didn’t want to tell anybody yet and I agreed. As I was about to get dresses she stopped me and told me we still have 3 hours then she was like I want to take a nice hot bubble bath and was pulling me if I wanted to join her and I said hell yeah. We did it for like an hour and a half making love. After I left because everybody will be back soon I was se excited and happy. The next time I will see her is next Tuesday and I don’t know what to do. I’m really scared and nervous. I’m in so much trouble help!! This is serious and true and I don’t care if u don’t believe me just tell me what to do. Help!! She is very special to me. I wanted this for so long. When I jerk off I think about her. Please tell me what to do? I care about her so much.Even if i dont have sex with her i dont care. i love her before even the sex. When i saw her i fell in love. I want to be with her. I want to hold her hands, talk with her, smell her she smells good, touch her hair, kiss her, touch her lips, eat with her, when i wake up the first thing i want to see is her in my arms, and etc. i care about her too much.Its not lust. U people wont probably believe me but i dont care.I fel like she is my soulmate. In my life i want her to be cooking for me, sleeping with me, going out, talking, laughing, watching tv, kissing, making love and etc. I want to be with her. i was in love with her for a year. In your eyes she may not be hot as in hot but in my eyes she is. I will choose her for a billion dollars, jessica simpson, eva longoria, and etc. I'm telling the truth.What will u do in my position?

2007-12-15 11:43:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've looked online and at Party City, but I'm not finding but one thing. Any ideas? Also I need ideas for what to say on a divorce cake!

2007-12-15 11:42:24 · 34 answers · asked by Heather 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I just got married, my husband wants to play Warcraft all day and i was feeling ignored. Am I sick for starting to like porn.

2007-12-15 11:40:32 · 16 answers · asked by Paola D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents think its a bad site because of girls getting kidnap. And there so overe protective. But i just talk to my friends its like a email but you can decorate your page.How can I break it down to them?

2007-12-15 11:39:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I act very serious and talk only very specific when compared to other friends of my age. They all love partying and drinking and spend their life easy and enjoyable. On the other hand I cannot find any friends because my nature being a serious person is scaring them away. I love being with people but every time I talk I feel that I'm not normal or that I'm lacking something which they all have in common. This is causing me lot of problems and some have openly admitted that I'm too strange for a person of my age. Am I ok? or is it some kind of trouble that I should be worried about later in my life? One of the test proved that my personality type is typical to that of "A". How can I be more like a person who, people would like to label as a "20 year old guy" rather than a "40 year old man"??? Please help. I do love to be a guy who is more fun and easy going at least during my college life. I think that I'm ruining myself for being so weird.

Thank you

2007-12-15 11:38:50 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my mom and I have been living together with out my dad for allmost 6 years . He lives in Florida I have not seen him for almost like 2 years . When I say seen I mean no contact at all! I am beggining to miss him what should I do ?

2007-12-15 11:38:37 · 8 answers · asked by elexus101 1 in Family

Why is it guys in high school are soooo immature?I mean, seriously. Put girls in one room and guys in another separate room and you'll see a huge difference if they are behaving or not. even their conversation is different! For example, "that's what she said!""You're a jew!""No, you're a jew!" and there are a lot of sexual stuff in the conversation. My gosh. Why cant they just grow up? They're a bunch of idiots! No offense.

2007-12-15 11:38:05 · 1 answers · asked by Oh, that one girl ;) 5 in Friends

If I caught a pic of him am I aloud to show it to my sister?
He thought if he threatened to wear it I would

Here is what the dress looks like
http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=279120&CategoryID=14514

2007-12-15 11:35:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I both working during days, but I'm the only one who picks up after my children, I even did all the yard works. Is our marriage over, yeah I do love him, but what he doesn't made me wonder if he loves me and our son back.

2007-12-15 11:35:09 · 13 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My girl and I are finished. With Christmas right around the corner it seems harder than it should. We've been together for three years and this will be our first Christmas apart. I know it's over, I would just like suggestions on speeding up the process of moving on...
Thanks!!

2007-12-15 11:34:15 · 11 answers · asked by The_Gov 2 in Singles & Dating

A lot of people are getting married around Christmas, is it more romantic, cheaper, or What? Do you have the wedding inside or outside? Is the wedding attire more wintery?

What is the most poplular month to have a wedding now?

2007-12-15 11:33:00 · 12 answers · asked by tc22 3 in Weddings

He stares at me A LOT; we always make eye contact; he’d be with his friends and he’d stop talking to them and step away and stare at me and my friends, wondering what we’d be talking about; he’d face his torso at me actually; when I walk by him, I’d look at him and catch him already looking at me, then he’d look away; when I enter the room, he’d be with his friends and they’d all stare at me and talk between themselves; or they’d stop talking and all look at me; when he stares at me, he has this serious look on his face or he’d be smiling; I can sometimes predict from the way he stares at me that he likes me; when I come down the stairs, he’d keep his eyes on me, and vice versa; when I walk by him without even looking at him; from the corner of my eye he’d turn his whole body and watch me as I walked by. This guy always notices me, do you think he'd stare if he was interested?

2007-12-15 11:32:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend told me:

"You look less fat than you did yesterday."

Please no answers like this. (Although it is pretty funny).

2007-12-15 11:30:59 · 23 answers · asked by nick 2 in Singles & Dating

this is sad but im 15 and ive never been kissed i would like to know how does it feel? is it weird and what kind of feelings do you get in yout stomach??? buttterflies? nothing im just curious and want to know what its like .... thanx

2007-12-15 11:27:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am five foot seven and my current boyfriend is 6 foot 2, but I have a friend who is an absolutely gorgeous looking lad, but worries about his height as he is only 5 foot 8! I keep trying to reassure him that it doesn't matter, but he is adamant that it does! He won't approach women because of it!

2007-12-15 11:26:59 · 55 answers · asked by scouse princess 4 in Singles & Dating

Well I've been going out with this guy for like a year.We've only done the basics but i want to get way more serious.Plus he's a virgin so if it doesnt workout am i to blame? Also is it wrong of me to want more experienced person? I just dont know.He doesnt like that I'm not a virgin should i be mad or ok with that ? He just isnt clear. Should i dump him or sleep with him?Help!

2007-12-15 11:24:50 · 9 answers · asked by tiffinynb93 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 11:24:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I made out for the first time with my boyfriend last week and it was great but I want to be better. What turns guys on? Like the neck, the ears, what do they like?

We're both over 18

2007-12-15 11:22:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There was this guy that I have been talking with and flirting with for weeks over email, and we see each other at work, but talked much more over e-mail- almost daily. He told me that he was physically attracted to me and had growing feelings for me. I responded telling him that I think about him too, have feelings of wanting him, too, and care about him. Well, slowly but surely he stopped with the flirting and emails. I really don't understand. He's still 'polite' to me, and I still have to see him. Does anyone understand this, and what do I do?

2007-12-15 11:18:21 · 3 answers · asked by Meg H 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife is getting older and having problems with bleeding after sex, we use k-y type lubricants and still intense sex makes her bleed, of course she worries that I will cheat on her if she does not submit.I have no intention to cheat,I love her heart ,soul and know all her ins and outs ,ups and downs, we are a perfect fit, But, the testosterone thing drives me crazy,advise?

2007-12-15 11:17:32 · 10 answers · asked by Joel S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just curious because you hear about men who are addicted to it, but I just never think of women watching porn.

2007-12-15 11:15:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that when a woman has a hissy fit its our hormaons and when a man does, it did not happen... I someitmes think my husband is worse than I am. He actually rolls his eys and huffs like a 15 year old girl. But when I say something, HE DID NOT.. Whats up with that
?

2007-12-15 11:15:08 · 8 answers · asked by Poppy 2 in Singles & Dating

and he says im pretty and that he likes me but a couple years ago he hated me what changed i have liked him since we were little and the more i get to know him the more i like him but i had asked him out a couple times and he always said no but now that things have changed should i ask him out again? or should i not risk ruining the new friendship me n him always hang out and he gives me hugs and stuff but c hes drinks n smokes pot ocassionaly but if i tell him not to then he listens and wont do it around me so i feel like maybe were good together but im still unsure as to whether or not i should do anything plz help me

2007-12-15 11:11:04 · 13 answers · asked by alahna_1267 2 in Singles & Dating

He talks to me a lot,and looks at me in the eyes when he does.
He smiles when he sees me,but I'm still not sure if he likes me.HELP!!

2007-12-15 11:09:26 · 7 answers · asked by Silvita[= 2 in Singles & Dating