I'm a little nervous, and no it's not sex. Please be aware I am not too young but I am curious and all that and so is my boyfriend. So I have to make my descision by 10 PM if I want to do it or not. And the "it" is sending a picture of me naked or just underwear by cellphone. I'm kinda scared honestly because I have never sent a porn-ish picture to a guy before in my entire life. But then at the same time, I want to. What would be my best descision - to send or to not send? Oh and if this helps, We are both 14.
2007-12-15 12:38:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't degrade yourself this way! Plus, think of what could happen if one day he decides to become irate with you and sends it to your whole school?!
It's not worth the chance... even if that never happened, you would always regret doing it.
2007-12-15 12:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Chances are you wont marry this boy, and chances are VERY good he will be showing your picture to EVERYONE!
Then you'll be known as a whore for life afterwards and you'll probably eventually break up with him.Next, after sending him a naked picture, he will figure you'll do ANYTHING and then he will want sex.After he uses you for sex and dumps you(you may end up pregnant by this time) all ANY boy will want to date you for is to get sex.He has NO respect for you or he would NEVER ask you to do such a thing.What if he loses his phone?Say his parents or YOUR parents find iit and find your picture on it?
Or someone you dont like (and doesnt like you)finds the phone and shows the picture around?
You have EVERYTHING to lose and NOTHING to gain but getting him off hon.Tell him no and dump him yesterday.
2007-12-15 20:45:08 · answer #2 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't
and sweetie sorry but u r too young to be sending a pic of ur body over the internet to someone u may or may not kno who can make it public to everybody in ur school, ur home, ur family, the fact u said it was "porn-ish" just gave it away tht u were too young
he may use the pic as blackmail to make u do anything he wants u to by threatening to show it around
its ok to be curious but girl u gotta be safe wit it at the same time, im glad u asked for other's opinions before u actually did it, i hope u make the right decision
2007-12-15 20:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by Miss J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have absolutely no control over what happens to a picture like this when you send it. Will he show it to his friends? Will his friend (say when he's out of the room) find it and forward it to himself? What happens if you ever break up with him? Will he post it on the internet then (now that he's mad at you), or circulate it around school? What happens when you get older - say you want to run for public office - will this picture come back to haunt you?
Don't do it. Never allow yourself to be photographed naked. Nothing good ever comes of it.
2007-12-15 20:44:13 · answer #4 · answered by Damocles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't send the picture! I know you want to please your guy but then once it's out there the whole world will see that picture. Not that we wouldn't mind seeing you naked. What guy wouldn't want to see a fourteen year old girl naked. I know at fourteen you are a very beautiful girl. Some day you would regret doing that. Then it will be too late to take back. :--#)
2007-12-16 05:15:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One, yes you are too young.
Two, because you are too young you will be supplying him with an illegal picture which could have him into some very serious trouble if he receives it and doesn't report it to the police himself.
If you really do care about him, do you want him to become a registered sex offender because of your sending him that picture?
2007-12-15 20:45:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm well i personally dont think you should. because a picture is forever...even if you trust him just ask your self if you're willing for other ppl to see this because it is always possible that someone looks through his phone and finds it or he shows someone...i did this before and i regret it because i have no idea what happend to it. so if your iffy about it i would say that you dont. do you really want to be know as that. it also depends on how long you two have been together for. good luck.
2007-12-15 20:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by that girl. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don' t be foolish it will be on the Internet in a week, and when you 2 break up all his friends will see it , they may even see it before you break up hes 14 and thinks its cool to show it.
2007-12-15 21:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kate..
ok its past 10:00
but plzzz dont do it, u'll regret the minute it sends. i promise you... just imagine if someone like ur mom or teacher or ssumthin saw them..it is possible, if you really want him to see you naked, that badly, do it in person
but stil 14 is young fort that even tho u dont think so
gl, i hope u do the sMaRT thing
...
2007-12-15 22:24:15 · answer #9 · answered by brig :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it. I'm sixteen, and I even think I'm too young. Also, if he ever got mad at you, he could send or show that picture to anyone. Don't do it. If he showed his friends, or worse, it could end up a catastrophe for you.
2007-12-15 20:42:12 · answer #10 · answered by Jessie 5 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋