Gf is gone, need some help please?

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We broke up one week ago, her decision. She wants to be friends. says that we can be friends, start from the beginning, and take things slow. She doesn't want to see me right now bc she says i still have feelings and only when i can be her friend we can see each other..

We started out our relationship really fast from the get go, three weeks of knowing each other and have been dating. for 2 months, until last week.

It is so hard to see her as a friend than a gf.
She says she wants to be single, have fun with her friends..

what should i do?
is it the end?
this is really bothering me.

She has been hanging out with her guy friends and will take vacations with them this holiday. She wont even spend Christmas with me, instead it will be with someone else whom she calls a friend, an the unknown gender, due to information, when i spoke with her three days ago. In doing no contact and will try to heal my inner wounds.. hope i will be okay and over her soon. thx for reading.

Answer 1

It is really hard to go backward in a relationship and I get the feeling that she really just wants a friend and has no intention of renewing the dating aspect. Maybe she just realized she wasn't happy in the situation and didn't want to make a complete break that would hurt you. Move on to other relationships, even if it is hard, and take it slower next time. If she has feelings when she sees you out starting over with others, this may spur her to renew the relationship. Just don't count on it.

Answer 2

well maybe she just doesnt have feelings for you that way. or even maybe she just doesnt want to fall in too deep and end up getting hurt. ik you wont prolly hurt her but things do change. thats what my ex said to me but he hurt me anyways. just try to be her friend instead of her boyfriend. good luck.