What does this mean in girl language? she won't kiss me on the lips and is distant about touching in general now which is wierd to me after a two year relationship.
2007-12-15 12:11:22 · 17 answers · asked by ugaguy36 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Girl language"? It means "take it slow"- Our language is human just like your's.
Don't rush into a relationship because she's probably hurt and doesn't trust you anymore. She needs to regain her trust for you and forgive you (if that's applicable here). By her asking you to slow down, she's asking for time to rekindle or rediscover the love you once had.
Only time will tell if it ever comes back.
2007-12-15 12:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is feeling kind-of hesitant. She probably has the vibe that you want to take it faster than what she does, so she is kind of feeling wierd. She got really close to you, then probably got some bad advie for the girls at works or something. Just let her know that you respect her and tell her you like (or love) her. She will feel much more comfortable if you don't try to pressure her. Be a gentlemen and take her on a date and give her roses. Girl always love that!
2007-12-15 20:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by sparkle_sticks_101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it means different things to different girls.
But it sounds like your (ex?) girlfriend wants to do basically a do-over.
If you jump into the physical stuff that you did before, pretty much just picking up where you left off, you stand a good chance of falilng right back into the same pattern, which apparently did not work, seeing as you broke up. Not to mention, it can really cloud the judgement, and it sounds like she's wanting to make sure you're together because you WANT to be, or because it's comfortable or familiar or you have good physical chemistry.
2007-12-15 20:18:43 · answer #3 · answered by CrazyChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she is afraid of getting hurt again so she wants to take it really slow so she can see if this is what she really wants and if this is really going to work out. Just take it slow with her and treat her like a princess if you want to keep her. Be the biggest gentlemen she has ever known. You've been together for two years so you obviously love each other. Work through this. I think you just went through the stage were you're like, well were do we go from here. Do you go or do you stay?
2007-12-15 20:16:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why you two broke up. She may want to make sure that you want to get back together because you love her and want to have a future together rather than just to have comfortable sex until the "right" girl comes along. She wants to be sure that you're committed to making things work this time.
If you two broke up because she got angry with you for doing something, you should tell her you're deeply sorry for what you did and ask her what you can do to make it up to her. Once she tells you, FOLLOW THROUGH and do what she has asked. Don't just do it once and think that was enough.
If she broke up with you because she thought she was moving on to a better thing that fell through, I'd break things off for good because she isn't committed to you.
That's about all the advice I can offer unless I know more about the situation.
2007-12-15 20:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by K. F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you had a two-year relationship, but if you were apart for awhile, it may take some time to get back to the way you were. Obviously, something was wrong the first time, so she just wants to go slow to prevent rushing and making wrong decisions. She has to become comfortable with you again.
2007-12-15 20:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's completely what she said. NO touching--no 'couple's' stuff. Friends only for a while.
Taking it slow means you're back to square 3 or 4, not square 1. But you need to communicate together to be able to see if you're both still compatable with each other.
2007-12-15 20:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by Elaine M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay im 21 and heres what i think from past experiences
1. sorry there might be someone else shes interested in =/
2. its always awkward and she probably misses you just as much but she doesnt want to get hurt.
3. respect what she wants you to do. girls arent always about sex they want love. they want a friend. they want someone whos there through thick and thin. make sure she knows youre HER guy and you love her.
*** hope i helped ya out =]
2007-12-15 20:17:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't want to jump back into everything just yet...she might be kind of scared and wants to take it slow and work things back up...in a way let things work themselves out. i believe that there needs to be a friendship there for any relationship to work
2007-12-15 20:15:07 · answer #9 · answered by Dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no future in this relationship. Move on.
I always tell people that on your wedding day there should be NO DOUBTS. Remember that. On the day of my first wedding I had doubts. It lasted 18 months. On the day of my second marriage, there were no doubts. :)
2007-12-15 20:17:04 · answer #10 · answered by LadyLynn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋