It's the wife fault when a man cheat am I right
2007-12-15 12:23:43 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-12-15 12:34:37 · update #1
what ever makes you happy its in your conscious
2007-12-15 12:29:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 9⤋
Yes it is his fault. BUT, first of all-- is he is a decent human being he would not cheat on his wife. If he is not happy, he needs to leave her. It is NOT the wife's fault when a man cheats--it is HIS CHOICE. I dont care if she has not given it up for a damn year--he married her and he should deal with it. Where do you think it is going to get you? What is your goal? TO be considered a home wrecker? If he would cheat with you, are there others out there he is cheating with. I think you are extremely immature and irresponsible for considering this. Try to think of it from the wife's perspective. If you cant, then do what you want, but karma is a *****.
2007-12-15 12:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by pupgirl 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
People cheat for different reason and guys are no different from women. I am not condoling the behavior, but I have male friends who cheat b/c they are lonely and don't know how to cope with it. (they are deployed) There are men who cheat b/c they did not cut of a relationship prior to being married. And, there are guys you cheat, who are not deployed, because wife are ignoring their needs. This is no different when a woman who cheats b/c her man is ignoring her needs.
Now, is it either a man or woman's fault b/c her husband cheated...well, that person will have to figure that out for themselves. Personally, I will not judge. The problem will be between the man and woman.
2007-12-15 13:01:01 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine23511 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a man is married, he's not available... why date one?
There are plenty of men out there who are single and available.
People cheat for hundreds of different reasons, and why does someone have to take the blame? Wife, husband, who cares? Cheating is wrong.. And if the man is dissatisfied with his sex life, and too DUMB to talk with his wife, it's his problem... of course, there could be other reasons, too..
A woman who sees a married man usually does so because they know there is no chance for committment or permanent attachment, by the way.
If you don't care if he's married, you don't have much dignity... at least not from where i sit.
2007-12-15 12:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is not the wife's fault if a husband cheats and you should stay away from any man in any kind of relationship whether he be married or a boyfriend to someone! It takes two and it is your fault as well as his, you should be considerate of the wife's feelings and stay away, getting involved with him makes you a no-good homewrecking hoar! Obviously you have no morals or values or you would stay away from him, I hope you get caught, the wife leaves him, and he leaves you and you both end up miserable and alone!
2007-12-15 12:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The wife could be clueless to her husband's deceptiveness, cuz there is a reason why when a man cheats he is sneaking around trying to hide the other woman. And i think you are selfish and evil if you do not care about the wife's feelings and rather blame her than take responsibility for your actions. I hope you get yours and more, cuz you probably can't get a single man, so you are that desperate enough to settle for someone else's crap(cuz he has to be crap to cheat on his wife with you).
2007-12-15 15:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not the wife s fault if husband cheats ..it means they have issues that need to be worked out an come to an accommodating understanding to stay or move on..
That would be a marriage counselor an therapy.. in no way does this equation mean they need an outside woman to break them up .. We all are not without making mistakes, in life its how we correct them that matters most.
2007-12-15 12:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by Serina W 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this thought helps you sleep better at night then go ahead and think it.
Thing is though it's not even slightly true. A man can have a great woman and still cheat because there are hoes like you out there willing to give it for free. Best part about it is they only screw you, then they go back home to the good woman and you are still alone. Alone for every night and holiday that you choose to spend screwing a married man.
2007-12-15 12:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. It's the man's choice to cheat not the wife's. And if he wants to be with other women then he should get a divorce not go behind her back and hurt her like that. That's way worse. And you should respect that he has a wife. He's the one that made a commitment to her.
2007-12-15 12:28:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Not always. Some guys are just *ssh0les. My ex-husband cheated and now realizes how bad he screwed up his life and our daughter's. You should care if the man has kids. None of it is their fault and you could end up ruining their lives as well. Married men are off-limits to women with integrity.
2007-12-15 12:29:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
No, you're wrong. It's mostly his fault, but partly yours, too. Not the wife's fault at all.
If he leaves his wife for you, he's going to end up doing the same thing to you down the road. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2007-12-15 12:58:21 · answer #11 · answered by Mich 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋