Family & Relationships - 15 December 2007

If there was a really hot girl, naked and willing to **** him and not tell anyone (or get found out) would he do it?

And he said no.
(which is really cute!) and he also said that he would feel really hurt by doing it. and that the relationship wouldn't be the same after.

BUT ive asked other guy friends and they said the opposite. Is he just trying to make me feel better or do you think hes telling the truth. What do you think?

2007-12-15 14:58:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i have a bf but when i am around him im so dam shy i hate this shyness..... so ya one time he tired to hold my hands but i didnt let him n then he wanted a kiss but i said no but i really love this boy im crazy over him so what can i do about this dumb shyness:(

2007-12-15 14:57:46 · 6 answers · asked by nyc latina 1 in Singles & Dating

hi, i need some advice. i will marry a morocco man, but if i did not convert to muslim, is it possible? if i did not register under malaysian law, what is the effect to my marriage and children?
i am a malaysian chinese. is it a neccessary for a non muslim to change name when convert to muslim?
hope that i can get some advice here, thank you.

2007-12-15 14:57:35 · 6 answers · asked by feunhwa1121 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am virgin and he told me he is too but he already had few girls before and the the last girl he he had was kind of wild......... who liked to sleep around wth other guys.

2007-12-15 14:56:46 · 14 answers · asked by nanu 1 in Singles & Dating

this totally sucks or it did anyway...i knew this guy for two yrs and we were friends and all...but this yr. we started datin' and we've been together for 4 months now and its crazy b/c he was right there in front of me the whole time. and i had to go thru all that heartache and misery with all the other guys, i dont feel alone anymore and i am truly being loved by someone else

2007-12-15 14:56:14 · 7 answers · asked by itz meeeeeee 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi. I'm 14 and i have big problems with my dad.i remember a long time ago my family used to be happy and my mom and dad got along and he wasn't alcoholic, it really makes me mad that they didn't just split because i have thease horrible memories now in life on how my dad was like. My dad is NEVER supportive. He never came to my school concerts nor my sisters, he never congradulates me or my sister when something great happens at school AND at my sister's graduation, he cried and told my sister he was crying because he was disapointed in her, HOW ****** UP WAS THAT??? He drinks every night and gets drunk. My mom is always gone out of state to help her sick parents and i miss her and my sister a lot. My dad and i always fight and yell at each other and he is swears and talks to his own child like a stranger. I'm really down and sad, i miss my mom and sister and i always want to break down and scream. My friend's parents are soo nice and i wish i had a dad like that:( what should i do??

2007-12-15 14:54:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am a pathetic loser!
I have no friends, no sisters no brothers!
My parents are ashamed of me!
I Don't have a wife or kids, haven't had a date in years!
I depend on my 4 guinea pigs, and degus for company!
WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME!
i NEED A SPEECH!

2007-12-15 14:53:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

do you think step parents should disipline step kids, or should they step parent take the problem to the primary parent and let them handle it

2007-12-15 14:53:01 · 16 answers · asked by cashmere_mist 3 in Family

White guys, asian guys, mexican guys, etc.?

2007-12-15 14:52:07 · 6 answers · asked by Mika 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 14:51:29 · 45 answers · asked by she.fielding@btinternet.com 2 in Singles & Dating

after shes 18 she needs to wait 4 yrs to have kids is this normal

2007-12-15 14:50:23 · 18 answers · asked by Katherine M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think I'm a pretty good guy: ok on looks, a little chubby, good job, some college, paid for Camry, have an apartment.
The last girl I liked thought I was kinda a loser for not having a house but she also lived in an apartment. She was also concerned that I haven't finished my degree and I'm making the same money that she makes with her Masters. Other women have told me they only date tall guys. Another one says she wants someone more established, but she complains to me the older guys she dates often leave her home on a Saturday night. So I'm 33, 5"4", can't be too poor if I've traveled 3 other countries on two continents, I dress nice, am respectful to women, nice and helpful. Am also Loyal to friends.
So what the H-LL I am missing here? Is there a secret quality women are looking for that they won't tell us? What is wrong with me?

2007-12-15 14:49:10 · 6 answers · asked by TONY H 2 in Singles & Dating

I got past the inital point where EVERY day was a BAD day, crying, thinking about him and the relationship EVERY WAKING SECOND, and not being able to eat or sleep.I am now at a point where I have good moments and bad moments. I don't think I've had a full good day. But maybe once every 2 hours I get sad for about 15 minutes, sometimes I cry. But I am functional for the most part.WHEN WILL THESE BAD MOMENTS STOP? WHAT SHOULD I DO TO SPEED UP MY HEALING PROCESS.HOW LONG WILL IT TAKE TO GET OVER IT.the relationship was 4.5 years long. We just broke up a week ago. I am wondering if I will have some massive relapse, because a week seems like a SHORT time to be over my crippling depression (GOD KNOWS IM NOT COMPLAINING, I AM GLAD I AM OVER IT).But this guy was my LIFE, my ALL...(not in an unhealthy obsessive way...just LOVE!!)Is it ok to be over the worse already? (IT FEELS GOOD), but is it normal? AM i even over the worse? what should I expect? What should I do? it still hurts SOO much!!!

2007-12-15 14:49:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok ym fiance never drinks but when we go to a bar he likes to drink. today he did and came home got out of the car and threw up and inbetween then and the door 5-10 feet, he threw up 5 times. he is very pale. is there anything i can do or should do to help. i know he feels a bit better but should i keep the blankets off or what? i dont want anything bad to happen ...we hardly drink...

PLEASE SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY. NO I DONT KNOW OR RUDE OR JOKING COMMENTS. THANK-YOU

2007-12-15 14:48:44 · 7 answers · asked by miraclebaby_2006 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, there is a slight issue. I like a girl at my school, and the thing is, now that I have noticed things, I realize that I have been too clingy. You know, Instant Messaging while she is online(or not), talking to her any chance I get, and other annoying stuff. The thing is, I have done this in the past, but the girls I liked, well I got over them, but she is different. I dont know why I keep doing this, but I need to fix things, before the new year preferably. I really like her, and I dont want to ruin this chance. I need help from all sources. I am losing it here, I cant figure out how to fix things. I need some really good advice here. I just want advice, not criticism, so keep the harshness down please. I have even bought her somehting for christmas, but I need the next step in my plan before giving her this gift. I have 6 days to do this before the new year(before school lets out), help me!

2007-12-15 14:47:35 · 1 answers · asked by Mr. 3.14™ 7 in Singles & Dating

he is a bastard,,i just got a call from his wife and they told me its was his friend or wife who i talked to online yesterday and everytimei chated with him, his friends were with him and showed it to them,,u know what he just did to me? His wife called me and made me hear them make love,,,,i cant believe this and he even said,,cuz of me he had to dump everygirl ke played with,,,cuz he loves his wife,,,,do u think they will never divorce?? his wife says he says he will never cheat??i cant forgive these people

2007-12-15 14:45:51 · 9 answers · asked by Aiko 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was out and my mum said she had a headache and had blood on her shirt. and shes crying

MY BROTHER HIT HER IN THE HEAD!
AND HE'S ONLY 15!
My grandma was gonna call the cops but she didnt

What should I do?

2007-12-15 14:44:46 · 19 answers · asked by ☮ 2 in Family

Doing something romantic with him? Since we plan on doing this anyways at this certain time , and he told me he only wanted 'me' for x-mas. hah , i'm just trying to lighten the spirts,and for peoples information this isnt my first time with him, just something cute haha .

2007-12-15 14:44:09 · 5 answers · asked by StandStillLookPretty. 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and I recently broke up. I am not looking to date yet..but I fear that any 'good guys' won't want to date a single mom. I am 25 and I have one child. I consider myself to be good looking, I work and am just finishing up a certification program. my question is will guys run when they find out that I have a child?

2007-12-15 14:43:00 · 3 answers · asked by redsox fan 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 14:42:42 · 6 answers · asked by bria422000 2 in Singles & Dating

it s always the ones you like that don't like you and the one you don't like that do like you. can someone explain why this is.

2007-12-15 14:42:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dated my husband 11 years and I've been married for 5. Sometimes a think I finally earned her respect and some other times I'm like... man! I still have a loooong way!
Why are they like this? What's the reason?

2007-12-15 14:42:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in my late twenties and I work fulltime plus a mother of one and a student.. My parents are extremely controling even to the point they don't want me dating anyone, so I basically lie about where I am going when they watch my child. How do I address this

2007-12-15 14:41:00 · 5 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Family

I'm having conflicting thoughts. I have a serious crush on a guy. It is so serious that even talking to him is a task that scares me to tears (although I try). So as a (n unintentional) dare, a friend tells him that I like him. He says that he's not looking but he'll "keep me in mind". There's a part of me that believes him, and then there's the other part that's like "it means that you have no chance in hell".

Is this one typical hidden message of a guy that means "You stand no chance", or is it not one whatsoever? Guys, have you ever used this on a girl before? Like I said, I'm leaning towards the positive. And yes, I'd ask him myself if I didn't go all socially inept in his presence.

2007-12-15 14:38:27 · 17 answers · asked by nyree.kage 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so this is the story i know this girl for like 2-4 months and it's almost christmas and she wants roses. The problem is that she lives in cali and i live in MA and i told her that and she say well send it for me. i really like her. she sent me pics of her in my email. and i don't want to sent her roses just don't ask me why but i just don't. so how can i tell her that i can't send roses and not make her mad or never talking to me again. she was mad when i say i don't know. i was thinking of writing her a poem and sending it to her in her email. i dunno what to do and i don't want to lose her! she gave me her address and everything and i don't want to lose her. i'm moving to cali hopefully in 1-2 years to see her and we'll have a realtionship there for real. So what should i tell her that i can't sent her roses and that she won't get mad. is a poem nice to wirte to her? i don't want to sent her anything yet just don't ask me y.i told her when the roses reach her it be ruin,she say np

2007-12-15 14:37:32 · 10 answers · asked by Richard 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex and i broke up bcuz he liked another girl.i was cool with it and moved on too.but after awhile when my current bf and i are goin out still i started missing him.what do i do?

2007-12-15 14:37:25 · 4 answers · asked by Ace2 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 14:36:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when you really know this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with

2007-12-15 14:35:51 · 15 answers · asked by misstress100 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If a girl has a lot of guy friends but doesn't have a boyfriend and she doesn't like any of the guys she hangs out with... is she cosidered a 304?

2007-12-15 14:33:38 · 3 answers · asked by Blondy 1 in Singles & Dating

I think the question is pretty self-explanatory, but what are some activities you could do with your partner whether it be offline or online, that doesn't have anything to do with seeing each other in person. Some things we currently do are play games on Yahoo such as checkers, domino's, etc. We also get on cam for each other and just talk to each other in IM while doing that. But I want to try and keep this relationship alive without it getting boring and up until we can see each other for the first time.

2007-12-15 14:33:28 · 23 answers · asked by youresoscene_xxx 1 in Singles & Dating