ok so this is the story i know this girl for like 2-4 months and it's almost christmas and she wants roses. The problem is that she lives in cali and i live in MA and i told her that and she say well send it for me. i really like her. she sent me pics of her in my email. and i don't want to sent her roses just don't ask me why but i just don't. so how can i tell her that i can't send roses and not make her mad or never talking to me again. she was mad when i say i don't know. i was thinking of writing her a poem and sending it to her in her email. i dunno what to do and i don't want to lose her! she gave me her address and everything and i don't want to lose her. i'm moving to cali hopefully in 1-2 years to see her and we'll have a realtionship there for real. So what should i tell her that i can't sent her roses and that she won't get mad. is a poem nice to wirte to her? i don't want to sent her anything yet just don't ask me y.i told her when the roses reach her it be ruin,she say np
2007-12-15 14:37:32 · 10 answers · asked by Richard 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why not get her some yellow roses (which means friendship)? You can order them on line from someplace like Hallmark.com or FTD and they will delivery whichever flowers you pick out, and they will be fresh when they reach her? If you don't want to get her flowers, then you have to tell her why otherwise she will be hurt.
2007-12-15 14:45:05 · answer #1 · answered by Mika 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man it's very easy
first of, if she's gonna stop talking to you because you didn't send her roses.. then her loss, she ain't worth it.
secondly, don't send her roses. Rather, do search on the internet for some company that sells roses and delivers them
for example go to yahoo.com
enter the city where this girl lives (you said she gave you her address) well put her city or town + CA (for california) or hjer zip code ... , then click on local (you know where it says web, pictures etc... the it says web) and then you will get a list of florists in her area.
All you have to do is get their phone number, then just give them a call or visit their website if they have any and buy roses and deliver them to her adress . You can pay by credit card or else... anyway, it's not that complicated... in any instance, try and she must appreciate your kindness and the fact that you tried, or else it's her problem!
Good luck :)
2007-12-15 14:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by L.E.B. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 19:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell her that you can't and send her the poem and maybe you should say ur sorry that you couldn't send roses to her.
2007-12-15 15:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by ~LiFe'S HaRd EnOuGh~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well roses and poems are just symbols of love, i always surprise my girfriend with original symbols, last time i sent her a book filled with our email conversations so she could keep it, presscafe.com offer that service (book printing). I don't think anybody have done it so i am sure she will remember it and also share with her friends how good i am!
so be original
2007-12-15 14:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by babytarantula 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just.... weird.
It's weird that she would tell you specifically what to get her, and it's weird that you seem to like her enough to write her a poem, but you don't want to send her flowers. Are you just cheap or what?
You can't have it both ways; either have a relationship or don't.
2007-12-15 14:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send ehr something that wont die in the post like buy a beauty set from an internet shop and send it to her address with a note inside
2007-12-15 14:45:55 · answer #7 · answered by catssunsetsmusic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use interflora or some such they will be delivered to her from a local florist ---- and if you have a problem with roses she does not --- you dont have to touch or smell or even see them ---- order online and they will be there the next few hours or day at the latest ---- whatever your hangups with flowers ask yourself this --- what is more important --- your hangup or your relationship???? --- send them
2007-12-15 14:44:19 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say you need a credit card and you don't have one.. send her a picture of you holding a rose.. don't send roses.. you might think you will end up together but reality beats cyberspace.
2007-12-15 14:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by shopper1fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her sunflower, don't give her rose
2007-12-15 14:42:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋