What the H--- do I have to do before I can get a girlfriend?

Question

I think I'm a pretty good guy: ok on looks, a little chubby, good job, some college, paid for Camry, have an apartment.
The last girl I liked thought I was kinda a loser for not having a house but she also lived in an apartment. She was also concerned that I haven't finished my degree and I'm making the same money that she makes with her Masters. Other women have told me they only date tall guys. Another one says she wants someone more established, but she complains to me the older guys she dates often leave her home on a Saturday night. So I'm 33, 5"4", can't be too poor if I've traveled 3 other countries on two continents, I dress nice, am respectful to women, nice and helpful. Am also Loyal to friends.
So what the H-LL I am missing here? Is there a secret quality women are looking for that they won't tell us? What is wrong with me?

Answer 1

You sound like a wonderful guy. All you need now is patience until the right person comes along.

Dating is fun because it allows you the opportunity to meet so many different people.Be choosy yourself and careful because you don't want someone who is shallow or bases success on college degrees, money and materialistic things, but on who you are inside. If you love yourself and you should, realize how important the virtues you believe in and goals you have should be shared by a partner.

Remember, no ones perfect and in order for the relationship to flourish each must be able to help the other grow continually in the right direction.

Answer 2

look nothing is wrong you just need to be patient and the right person will come around and be your girl but a lot of women like having guy friends that if something goes wrong with their relationship they can have someone to talk to. my advice to you is just be patient and listen to what they say and possible don't overreact to their comments or if something doesn't go the way it was planned and they have to cancel at the last minute.

Answer 3

take a look at what you wear...truly first impressions are very important and if you wear glasses get your self some contact lenses and try a new cologne

Answer 4

I think these link will help you some:
http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/datingtips/11178/actions-speak;_ylc=X3oDMTFycm9uYmdkBF9TAzI3MTYxNDkEc2VjA2ZwX3RvZGF5BHNsawNhY3Rpb25zLXNwZWFrLWxvdWRlci10aGFuLXdvcmRz

http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/datingtips/62971/the-5-biggest;_ylc=X3oDMTFmaGNkdDNpBF9TAzI3MTYxNDkEc2VjA2ZwX3RvZGF5BHNsawN0aGUtNS1iaWdnZXN0BHp6A2Fi

they're really good tips, just take a look!

oh yeah and wearing a good smelling, but not the least bit too strong cologne can help too--smell is the strongest sense tied to memory, it's true
good luck!

Answer 5

Quick wit and the perfect cologne.

Answer 6

hmmm so where are you from and whats your number? :P lol