ok i have a bf but when i am around him im so dam shy i hate this shyness..... so ya one time he tired to hold my hands but i didnt let him n then he wanted a kiss but i said no but i really love this boy im crazy over him so what can i do about this dumb shyness:(
2007-12-15 14:57:46 · 6 answers · asked by nyc latina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok well today i got to hold his hands n im not shy no more n we even kissed lucky im not shy no more:P
2007-12-16 10:34:53 · update #1
oh yea baby.. I remember u were like that ... but we did got that kiss and it was magical... i don't know how you got rid of that shyness but i am happy you do... and your a really good kisser !!! i love it n looking forward to do it together some more... I love you baby ... Lala + Russ = True love forever
2007-12-17 15:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by Russel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember having these feelings and everything. It's because I wasn't ready to start kissing or holding hands or anything. I was too young. I would giggle when we did kiss for the first time and I would turn way way red after holding his hand. I was sooo nervous and would get ashamed if someone saw us holding hands. So I'm guessing that you too are just too young. Give it a couple of years or longer. Boys aren't all they are cracked up to be until you’re in your mid 20s. Trust me!! I'm 16 in high school and my vow is to not date another guy until I've been in college for awhile. They just aren't worth it right now. I've experience many things that I hate to think about and I have learned from them and they have made my relationship with God stronger. Wow! I know that's a lot for just your question but my advice is to just wait until you know you are ready and when you know God is okay with it.
2007-12-15 23:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by americasnextopfashiondesigner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what do you think would make you more comfortable around him? i think you should find out why your shy around him...
for example if you think he will dump you because you say the wrong thing... i can safely tell you you have to really insult a guy for him to break up with you. even if you say something that makes no sense, he will forget it if he really likes you
ill check back on this question every once and a while if you update it
2007-12-15 23:05:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting by himself and tell him why! That would most likely give you some time to fight with you shyness and just do it. It might feel odd, but try kissing him in privet and then when you get use to kissing him, try with others around like you closest friends. More like your best-friend.
2007-12-15 23:08:29 · answer #4 · answered by Holly H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up or move on. Sounds like your just too young and not ready.
2007-12-15 23:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by hoplessromantic 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not shy but inclined to let him express his feelings.
2007-12-15 23:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by SASA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋