Family & Relationships - 15 December 2007

Look I'm in my mid twenties. The love of my life is two states away.
I have to see him. It has been 3 months. Long story how I got out here. I have no friends or family here. My family lives half way across the country. I am dying to see my soulmate. He is dying to see me. I do not have a vehicle right now, because it is states away at my dads and I am letting him use it for work, since he is real hard up right now.

My question: How with no vehicle, only a couple hundred bucks. Do I get there?
I can't take the bus or train, because there is no way that I will leave my dog behind.
I can wait no longer, I have to see my love.

What would you do? If I wait one more month,I will have my truck back and my license back and can drive up. However, it has already been nearly 4 months. I can wait no longer.

Should I hitchhike? How safe during the holidays is that-for a woman to do?

Thanks.

2007-12-15 15:30:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 15:29:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just wanna know from the fellas...be honest and realistic please

2007-12-15 15:28:55 · 5 answers · asked by RARE GEM 4 in Singles & Dating

now the chair is stinky and my pants are ruined. Worst of all, it was diarrhea and it splashed on the floor. People laughed at me.

Now i am worried that my friends won't want to talk to me. What do i do?

2007-12-15 15:26:45 · 14 answers · asked by Jason Hasda 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This website is rediculous. All self help books are rediculous.
No one knows your situation the only one that can help you is you. Don't turn to these retards for help. Or you're retarded. Retards.

2007-12-15 15:26:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so one of my friends is in a long distance relationship. and her bf tells her unbelievable stories. completely off the wall you wouldn't ever believe are true. i know it doesn't matter if i believe them but i don't want her to get hurt and i don't know if he 's lying or not.

what should i do?

2007-12-15 15:24:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-15 15:24:34 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

When a boy is taking a girl's virginity, can he actually feel the hymen breaking? And is it painful for a boy when taking a girl's virginity?

2007-12-15 15:24:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend filed for emergency custody of my child and the judge denied his request because I showed a birth certificate without a fathers name. however he has her physically and the police will not get her because they say as far as he knows he is the father. What do I need to do to get her back.

2007-12-15 15:23:16 · 8 answers · asked by Susan F 1 in Family

2007-12-15 15:22:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex bf and i want to be together BADLY. but we did alot of things this yearthat made us get into HUGE amounts of trouble and our parents wont let us see eachother. we still wanna be together and im not sure what to do! its getting to a point where im so miserable every night crying cuz im not with him. so im thinking of asking my mom if she'll talk to him; if they'll try to talk things out, but i dont want to get my head chopped off for even considering that. any help?

2007-12-15 15:19:28 · 1 answers · asked by Halley T 2 in Singles & Dating

I woke up Saturday morning to find this guy left me 5 voicemails since Friday afternoon. I've been on ONE date with him.

The first one was pleasant. The second one he mentioned how this was the 2nd voicemail he left. On the third on he told me he was "annoyed." On the fourth, he said it would be "common curtesy" to call him back. The 5th one was downright hostile. It was especially funny since I listened to them all in a row.

I thought it was the girl that was supposed to be needy.

2007-12-15 15:19:12 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tell me what to say to her! she got hurt a lot!!!!!!!! what should she do????? i'm very worried about her!!!! :(

2007-12-15 15:17:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hey. So I always see the guy of my dreams, nice and funny, in passing. I usually only see him that one time then he is gone. How can I get his attention or talk to him without it making it seem stalkerish? For a girl in college.

2007-12-15 15:15:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm leaving for Chicago!
I'm going to see my dad!
You won't see me for at least a week....
So, see you!

2007-12-15 15:13:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I really hurt my girlfriend and we broke up (obviously) and two weeks later i REALLY want her back. her friend likes me. i dont wanna get the title of a user but wud it b a good idea to get her jealous via her friend? if not, what are some other good ideas on how to get her to like me again? she also kinda likes my friend and her friends are just starting to trust me again. help is greatly appreciated

2007-12-15 15:11:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so here's whats up. I have met this girl 3 weeks ago at school during a swimming class and ever since then she has flirted with me every class. She holds my hand every class for almost the entire class and likes to act really playful as she hangs on my back...but now there is a complication....

ever since then people who know her personally and people who know of her tell me how she is always with different guys every 2 days. they tell me how she likes to "get together" with other guys and how she cheats on people.

Now she knows people are saying this but tells me not to believe them...but every time i ask about something concerning her relationships past, she tells me "dont worry about it"

so ladies/fellas...am i being played or should i give her the benefit of the doubt?

2007-12-15 15:11:28 · 18 answers · asked by D 2 in Singles & Dating

Where is a good place for girls 19-20 can go to meet guys that are down to earth?

2007-12-15 15:11:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dream wedding is a small, church wedding with close friends and families. It would probably be in April haven't decided. Anyways the colors are red and black, the maid of honor's dresses red with black trimming, the guys black tux with red vest/tie, and I'll have on white. For decorations I would like red rose petals and candles lit with dim lighting. I want the wedding to be around 8 or 9:00 when it's just about to get dark.
Then after the wedding we will have the reception which will be about 11:00 so whoever doesn't party that late don't come. At 12:00 while the party continues thebride and groom leaves for the honeymoon. Anyways that just me dream wedding b/c I'm a very romantic person. Any ideas please feel free.

2007-12-15 15:09:26 · 11 answers · asked by tc22 3 in Weddings

I like this guy..ALOT..I used to get mixed signs from him or he would "play games" and say how much he liked certain qualities from me and stuff like that. Well one day i heard he was moving to Washington and i thought 'oh no ill never get to tell him how i really feel!!!' So I confessed my undying love for him and he shot me down by saying he "thinks im a really cool girl and that we should remain friends especially since that is all he is looking for." He moved back and now im in the same predicament i was in and dont know what to do..should i go for it again or let it play out on its own..or should i drop him and move on to the next??

2007-12-15 15:09:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 15:08:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 15:08:02 · 4 answers · asked by jane nicole t 1 in Family

2007-12-15 15:07:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im not talking to my boyfriend of 2months, cos after we love make without any protection, he says i wont get pregnant, but i was just asking him, what if i did become preg, he said u better get an abortion, and he thinks I should still stay? do u think thats rite?

2007-12-15 15:02:56 · 16 answers · asked by VIPER 1 in Singles & Dating

How do I put myself out there as like an available girl who is willing to have a boyfriend?

I've wanted one, and I've been single for 2ish years.

Yes, It sucks.

I have potential to have a boyfriend, I just don't put myself out there or make guys think I like them.

In other words, I'm not affectionate.

What should I do?

2007-12-15 15:02:50 · 5 answers · asked by Hi There :) 1 in Singles & Dating

i hav given the signals 2 evry guy i hav liked but none of them seem to lik me bak n i mean evrybody at school always tells me how heka pretty i am n a couple of the guys in the grade below me hav told my firends dat im hot but i cant get a guy in my grade 2 lik me n it really sux so i wana kno wat can i do 2 make them lik me i mean i flirt my butt off 2 da point where im known as a flirt but i mean i don kno how 2 get jus 1 guy 2 lik me HELP HELP HELP!!!
n plz giv any advice u think of

2007-12-15 15:02:17 · 10 answers · asked by blumunke93 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not sick very often, and usually keep it to myself when I am. However, I have pneumonia and pluracy (sp?) and sometimes when I have sharp pains in my ribs and back I can't help but to make a noise. When I do, she flies out of the room and accuses me of being dramatic.

2007-12-15 15:00:03 · 13 answers · asked by Billy Shat 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I told this guy that I liked him, and he seemed ok with it. We laughed and talked and he was acting really flirty, messing with my computer; taking my pencil/book/papers; etc. so anyway, we'll usually have mini conversations during the few classes we have together. One of the most recent being "Hey isnt this game great?" I replied, "No, I hate this game" and he says, "I know me too" and such. then in a writing class we played another game where we were versing each other and we were making fun of each other's answers and stuff like that. That night we had a dance and we talked a little and he made fun of me because i brought my iPod because the music they play there always sucks. Now, my question is why will he go days without talking to me? why does he all the sudden decide to back away just when we're getting close? It's always two steps forward, one step back, literally. what can i do?

2007-12-15 14:59:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I get along with guys more then girls and i like talking to men just to get to know them as friends, but sometimes all i get is your so pretty and are you married? and can i meet you some where? and i want to see you in person.

2007-12-15 14:58:08 · 9 answers · asked by nursetech 2 in Friends

Hank, Bill, Dale, Boomhauer, or Kahn?

2007-12-15 14:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by R. U. Serious 3 in Weddings