i hav given the signals 2 evry guy i hav liked but none of them seem to lik me bak n i mean evrybody at school always tells me how heka pretty i am n a couple of the guys in the grade below me hav told my firends dat im hot but i cant get a guy in my grade 2 lik me n it really sux so i wana kno wat can i do 2 make them lik me i mean i flirt my butt off 2 da point where im known as a flirt but i mean i don kno how 2 get jus 1 guy 2 lik me HELP HELP HELP!!!
n plz giv any advice u think of
2007-12-15 15:02:17 · 10 answers · asked by blumunke93 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok som ppl got confused i am friends wit a lotta guys im close wit dem n we r good friends so im cool wit bein jus friends but i kinda want jus 1 guy 2 b mor den dat wit u kno n i don hav a rep as a hopeless flirt im jus really "friendly"
2007-12-15 15:09:57 · update #1
i also do not change who i am and i am involved in a lot of extracurriculars i played volleyball i play bball now i play tennis n i am student body prez i also play the violin n i sing in the choir so i do a lot of stuf n i am not shalow or 2faced at all
2007-12-15 15:43:26 · update #2
First of all guys care about looks. Alot of 9th grade chicks tell me i look hot but none of the 11th grade chicks dont even look at me. My point is that some ppl dont care about u and some do. Look for someone that actually likes u for who u are.
2007-12-15 15:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if this will help but is there something you're really passionate about? Like an extracurricular or something you just love to do? Maybe you can just focus yourself on that instead of thinking about boys for a second. You know how when you want something, you never get it, but when you're not looking for it, it comes knocking at your door? Yeah, so just go on and do what you love, and boys will just notice, and they might even admire your passion. It's a great conversation starter and it gives them an idea of who you are besides a flirt. So best of luck!
2007-12-15 15:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
" a couple of the guys in the grade below me hav told my firends dat im hot"
You can "flunk" !
"i flirt my butt off 2 da point where im known as a flirt"
Guy's like girls "with" a butt !
2007-12-15 15:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by chuichupachichi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you could always actually make friends with a guy first and see where it goes from there. don't just flirt around with 10 people at once cause then guys wont date you and think you'll be going out with some other guy every other day of the week.
2007-12-15 15:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for one guy and intiate a conversation. Make him comfortable around you. You don't have to dress the part (a few girls dress like sluts to get guys to notice them) you don't sound like one of them. So just go and chat up a guy. When he feels comforatable he will approach you. It's easier for women to come to guys than guys to women. It's the opposite of what is socially acceptable, but it is suprisngly efficient. And smile a lot. Guys like a genuine smile and giggles.
2007-12-15 15:08:44 · answer #5 · answered by Weapon S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep on charming yourself, maybe u have a repution as a hopeless flirt (which i hope u dont) than every other guy will think they're the next victum, just charm/flirt 1 guy for like a week or so
2007-12-15 15:07:27 · answer #6 · answered by diver5231 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Outgoing guys like outgoing girls who play hard to get. Shy guys who don't have many connections with girls are happy if you flirt with them and will think about you afterwards (even if they might not appear to show it).
2007-12-15 15:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Defining your self worth by whether or not a guy likes you is bad mojo.
Be confident, relaxed and fun. Let romance happen, don't try and force it.
2007-12-15 15:16:01 · answer #8 · answered by Phoenix Quill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All guys are different, and like different things. Find out what he likes, ? Talk to them, and be yourself! Good Luck!
2007-12-15 15:08:40 · answer #9 · answered by limon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st... stop being so flirty. 2nd. narrow your target to like one or two people. 3rd.just be yourself. don't act like someone you're not cuz if you do,things are going to get more complicated and stuff. relationships last longer if you're not a fake/ two-faced.... If you be yourself someone will definitely like you. and one more thing.. IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW HOT YOU ARE!!!
2007-12-15 15:12:33 · answer #10 · answered by smiley1004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋