so one of my friends is in a long distance relationship. and her bf tells her unbelievable stories. completely off the wall you wouldn't ever believe are true. i know it doesn't matter if i believe them but i don't want her to get hurt and i don't know if he 's lying or not.
what should i do?
2007-12-15 15:24:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
nothing let her sort it out im sure shes old enough to figure out if someone is lying to her
2007-12-15 15:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell her that I personally do not believe what he said, but she can believe it if she wants to & then drop it. I know someone like that. He's schizophrenic, but I don't know if that has anything to do with WHY he thinks that we believe all those stories. Even his mom says she doesn't believe what he just told us (but not to his face.) He didn't get much positive attention when he was growing up. He said he was run over by a semi when he was a teen so I went & asked his mom & it was true! Boy was I surprised!
Another answerer (Stevie) must be sick in the head or just a pig. I went to the website & it was sickening!
2007-12-15 15:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by scaredeycat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....it'd help if you gave us an example of one of these stories. But your friend could be in denial. The only thing you can do is be a good friend...support her...and be there for her if she does get hurt. She'll start pushing you away for being a 'bad' friend if you try and tell her to break up with him.
2007-12-15 15:28:02 · answer #3 · answered by bickie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So does SHE believe them/?!! When she explains the stories, I would burst out laughing, and just say that is off the wall crazy. Someone needs to be honest w her!
2007-12-15 15:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that you feel her boyfriend is lying and if she wants to get mad at you for being a good friend then she can get hurt on her own and your concious will be cleared because you warned her beforehand.
2007-12-15 15:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by leona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to prove naything for your friend. Just stay out of other peoplee's relationships (i don't mean that in a bad way) just don't get betwwen her crazy bf and her unless she wants you there. Although it may seem harsh she needs to figure things out for herself, don't be like her mother
2007-12-15 15:29:08 · answer #6 · answered by Troopare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own buisness. She will figure it out if he is lying and if she gets hurt she will get over it. We all do. YOU just stay out of it. I mean no comments at all. When she talks about him,change the subject.
2007-12-15 15:29:04 · answer #7 · answered by ladya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance never worked 4 me..... sooooo sorry.... i got lonely !!! toledo is a long way away from bellingham, wa.. one thing always leads to another and most of the time it ends in IM SORRY! IT JUST HAPPENED!!!!! i wishish that question the best luck in the world. good question
2007-12-15 15:35:55 · answer #8 · answered by koolbreeze232000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is give your opinion. She will have to take it or leave it. If she believes what he's telling her, though, it probably isn't going to matter what you say. Good luck.
2007-12-15 15:28:14 · answer #9 · answered by jbean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't do anything. you may cast doubt, but that might also shut down the lines of communication with her. you could encourage her to check the validity of the stories. do they really get to spend much time one-on-one together so she can truly know if they are real? maybe encourage more time together so she can REALLY get to know him.
2007-12-15 15:27:59 · answer #10 · answered by valvalhoff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋