Ok so here's whats up. I have met this girl 3 weeks ago at school during a swimming class and ever since then she has flirted with me every class. She holds my hand every class for almost the entire class and likes to act really playful as she hangs on my back...but now there is a complication....
ever since then people who know her personally and people who know of her tell me how she is always with different guys every 2 days. they tell me how she likes to "get together" with other guys and how she cheats on people.
Now she knows people are saying this but tells me not to believe them...but every time i ask about something concerning her relationships past, she tells me "dont worry about it"
so ladies/fellas...am i being played or should i give her the benefit of the doubt?
2007-12-15 15:11:28 · 18 answers · asked by D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are being played.
2007-12-15 15:15:25 · answer #1 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible. It sounds like it, but maybe she is ready to change. I would try to start off as friends and if it doesn't work out, then be happy you didn't go further. If you pursue a relationship with her, keep in mind that she may end up cheating on you and to not get too attached unless after a while she manages to not cheat on you. Remember to give her the benefit of the doubt until she proves to you otherwise.
2007-12-15 15:16:32 · answer #2 · answered by liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should trust her if you want a relationship. Just until you get a good view of her thinking and her prespectives. Be an observer and watch. How does she carry herself around other guys? Some girls just love attention. Its really annoying lol. I personally think that you are with ONE guy and only that ONE guy. I know someone like her...once a flirt always a flirt...you decide. Dont let some girl tease you and then break you into pieces.
2007-12-15 15:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by Kaylee A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking about previous relationships, what for? The past is the past and let it be just that.
Do you want to be judged by things in your past?? None of us do!!
Please don't judge her on what people say! You will learn in life perception is everything, and what is one persons perception can be the total opposite from someone else!! With that being said - In life you can listen to what others say but always make your own choices. What is your gut feeling?Don't pass up an opportunity to be close to someone based on what others say.
If you do get played, learn from it and move on.
2007-12-15 15:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by 1girlwho 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. Maybe the people who r telling u this r just jealous.
Its a possibility. Also dont listen to wut others say. Get jher side of the story. I mean youve already known her for 3 weeks if she really liked u , u would probably be going out by now. No offense. Maybe just friends would suit u guys : )
2007-12-15 15:17:08 · answer #5 · answered by blondie329252 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask The LORD for guidance and then ask your prophet and then yourself and then your unconditional loves and then the world... Why do you keep mixing everything up all the time?
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1 God
2 Prophet
3 Yourself
4 Unconditional Loves
5 the world and everything in it.
Get it right and put it back in order, before it has order against you!
2007-12-15 15:19:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say if she really wants you, she'd answer you truthfully and answer if she does that kind of stuff. Maybe she just used to do that? If she keeps avoiding the question, then she is probably never going to tell the truth. It's up to you where to go from there, I think.
2007-12-15 15:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See what she's really like. Never judge a person by rumors or by the way they look. If it turns out she is the way people say she is, then she seriously needs a reality check.
2007-12-15 15:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by Gryffindorable 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going to get way too complicated if you go along with this. By her not wanting to explain herself to you she has already determined that what your thoughts are on this doesn't matter. Walk on.
2007-12-15 15:26:48 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Molly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take you time and just look into the situation. If she is doing something like that if will come into light real soon.
2007-12-15 15:15:17 · answer #10 · answered by strawberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think youre being played.....maybe she does like to hook up, but if the most aggressive move shes put on you is holding your hand, she prolly really likes you and is willing to be a one guy kinda girl for you
2007-12-15 15:18:01 · answer #11 · answered by sherrill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋