Im not talking to my boyfriend of 2months, cos after we love make without any protection, he says i wont get pregnant, but i was just asking him, what if i did become preg, he said u better get an abortion, and he thinks I should still stay? do u think thats rite?
2007-12-15 15:02:56 · 16 answers · asked by VIPER 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO! If he doesnt want to get you pregnant than why are you you guys having unprotected sex??? It seems to me that if he is not willing to raise a child that the two of you make together, but is willing to have unprotected sex with you, then he might not be with you for the right reasons. Its understandable that someone may not be ready to have children, but dont go and have sex with someone without a condom and then expect to not have to take responsibility for the consequences. Get rid of him! What a jerk!
2007-12-15 15:08:53 · answer #1 · answered by MD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly always protect yourself. Whether its birthcontrol pills, spermicides and condoms. You can never leave everything up to the guy. Theres so many diseases out there that you have to be careful. Since he wants you to have an abortion if you get pregnant that means keep it wrapped up. At least you know that he doesnt want any kids so if you decide to get back with him always carry protection. At least you know that if you were to have a baby he wouldn't be around. Good Luck!!!!
2007-12-15 15:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by strawberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's not good boyfriend material. Get far far away from him. If you did abort, you will have to live with that for the rest of your life but on the other hand, your baby doesn't deserve to have a dad like that and kids need a loving mom and dad.
2007-12-15 15:06:12 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! he doesnt love you if he said that.
a guy that loved you will still love you with a baby or not.
a guy that loved you would never tell you what to do if you got pregnant
a guy that loved you would never say get an abortion
a man doesnt have say on what you do with ur body.
this guy sounds like a jerk.
staying with him is wrong.
im sorry if you didnt want to hear that
but im trying to look out for ur best interested.
do the right thing.
break up with his @$$
hoped this helped
and good luck <33 =D
2007-12-15 15:09:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONLY 4 WORDS FROM ME: Don't get an Abortion!!!!! if yall dont wnt the baby thn put it up 4 adoption; abortions are counted as homisides to me cuz babies are ppl, 2
2007-12-15 15:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by **kayraa(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obviously only cares about himself. i was in the same situation and i dumped the guy. if he thinks so little of you to think of your body as a playground that you just "clean up when its dirty" he has no respect for you or the life you could create. run, dont walk away from him
2007-12-15 15:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by GirlRaisedInTheSouth(GRITS) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question you should be asking is why aren't you using protection!
2007-12-15 15:07:18 · answer #7 · answered by dyl17x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you use protection. take control of your life and your body
2007-12-15 15:06:57 · answer #8 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but if you can't make this decision on your own, you're probably not mature enough to be having sex.
2007-12-15 15:08:05 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no break up
2007-12-15 15:06:09 · answer #10 · answered by Kristin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋