Last night my boyfriend tried to have sex with me. I wanted it too but I tried to tease him to say "no", "stop it" and moved away his hand. Then he stopped and became so mad. I tried to touch him back but this time he stopped me and said he didn't want anymore. Actually I feel so sorry to tease him this way but I just feel so shy to say "yes" each time we have sex. This morning he insisted to leave me. He said this is not sexy to do that and he will not ask for sex from me anymore. Any guys can tell me what I should do?
2007-12-15 13:53:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Any remotely decent guy will always take "no" for an answer, and not act angry toward the girl or lay a guilt trip on her, ever, period. He may get pouty, but that's about it. Move on, next contestant please.
2007-12-15 13:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by joeaverage5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can understand him being upset because he did not get the joke about you trying to tease him.However, unless he does not truly love you but wants only a sexual relationship,he is now overreacting.Sexual intimacy is an important part of any romance but it has to be mixed with a certain amount of romance.If issues arise, which will happen on occasion, then communication comes in. Tell your boyfriend that you were just engaging in some sexual teasing which did not quite work out the way you intended and did not mean to reject him. If he remains in the same state of mind, then you will know that he does not really want you but only the sex.In which case, you may have to make the painful decision to leave him for someone who wants a total and complete relationship with you.Good luck.
2007-12-15 14:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
If I were you, I would definitely think again about this boy. What I don`t like from the story is that he was so persistant about having sex with you, that it put a big question about love ans so on and so forth.
But If you know him for a long time, don`t tease with him this way, because you have already seen his reaction to your teasing.
All the best,
Mika
2007-12-15 14:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by Mika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, But it sounds like your both playing games with each other not a great way to continue a relationship into the future, he seems very imature in his actions, after all if a guy makes you feel sexy and wanted, you will respond doesn't sound like he wines and dines you to get you in the mood.
2007-12-15 14:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by smooth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship isnt only based on sex. If he has sexual issues he has to deal with, then by all means let him deal with them by him self... But also, its not only his fault.. I mean your going to get him all HOT and going, then your just going to say NO.. what kind of **** is that? Sorry to say it, but If you DONT want to do anything then dont lead a guy on.
But if you say NO it means NO and he is just being a MAN and taking your word! I dont see him as a bad guy for if he was he would have just rushed you into having sex with him! So explain to him how you feel about not being able to say yes, and Im pretty sure hell understand and next time you both can try something differnt!
GOOD LUCK!
2007-12-15 22:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by Simply Adorable 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It ability you're returning interest for interest from him, and not in basic terms laying there... believe me, he thinks it is an superb ingredient! the different woman made him sense like she became into in basic terms tolerating it, no longer even particularly taking section in it.
2016-11-03 10:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. You guys can't even communicate well enough to continue a relationship. Seriously. Forget him.
2007-12-15 13:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by Eraserhead 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's just after sex, leave him. If he loved you he would have respected you.
2007-12-15 13:59:31 · answer #8 · answered by edrcormier 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.
It's clear that he is after one thing, and that is not good. You should think about this relationship, long and hard. God Bless.
2007-12-15 13:56:39 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say yes.
2007-12-15 13:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋