a feeling thats undescribeable??

Question

everyday at school or in the store..i see couples everywhere..and especially at school..i think to myself..why hasnt it happened to me..now i know what your thinking..your so young live it up..well let me tell ya...you cant just let loose of something your heart desires..so why do i desire a boyfriend so much?? maybe becuase i want someone to hold and cuddle with and for once tell somebody everything..why my heart wishes for this?? i dont know..but it makes me upset..and it has never happened to me..not once

Answer 1

your horny and want sex thats why!
well that was a joke, but it MIGHT be true, you want some guy to chill wit so you can feel special

Answer 2

Hi there. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Starting a relationship isn't as easy as you might think it is. Yes you may see there are many couples at school or in the store, but looking for the right one for yourself can be quite daunting and dangerous.
Perhaps you're feeling lonely that you feel you can confide in some who pays a lot of attention to you. Try to be friends with other but bear in mind, please be careful out there.

Relationship started out as friends. Do try but don't let other take advantage of your lonely heart. As your instinct will tell you when you found the person that you can hold on and cuddle with without doubt and worry.

Wishing you a blessed life ahead.

Answer 3

Sweety, All girls get those feelings. Some sooner. Some later. Be PICKY! Don't take the first one that comes along. You are a rare gem. When the time is right you will meet a boy who can be your friend and appreciate you for who you are. Don't give in to sensual feelings. Waiting for that stuff can be difficult but worth it. The couples you see may be in the early stage of their relationship. My thirteen year old daughter has never had a boy freind and doen't worry about it. You never know. Just hang in there baby! It'll happen when it's ready to happen!

Answer 4

Maybe you're a rare gem and you're too good for most people! Or maybe you're just smart and don't jump into stuff as fast as a lot of people do. Whatever you do, make sure you don't wind up doing that just because a fella comes along and you want a relationship, make sure it's for all the right reasons. You'll find someone, don't worry, and good luck :)

Answer 5

See, thats a natural feeling. There's nothing wrong with that, in fact, if you didn't want someone to hold and cuddle and tell everything to, you wouldn't be a person. everyone wants that. trust me, it'll happen when you least expect it. One day, you'll be going about your life, the next, someone great will sweep you off your feet. You'll see.

Answer 6

You've probably reached that age where your hormones are raging and you want to feel that special feeling you get when you hold hands with a boy.
Appreciate that feeling now because when you get older that feeling goes away. the "love of my life" is sitting here playing stupid video games and doesn't care to even hug me since he got home!
It's normal to want that feeling of being someone special to someone else, mostly everyone goes through it.

Good Luck, God Bless!

Answer 7

The answer is simple: you want someone to love you.
You are going through a time in your life that you are lonely and want a boyfriend to talk to. This is normal for a person to do this. You should get a boyfriend that is nice to you; this will solve your problems. ;D

Answer 8

Your heart wishes for it because it is a natural thing to have happen. It is natural us to seek out someone to share our life with. I can understand it being hard but you need patience. Your time will come, trust me. To increase your chances, socialise a lot.

Answer 9

Don't worry, you're not alone on that feeling. One might call it "lonliness"? Don't stress; it will happen at some point.

Answer 10

i understand what you are going through. i have been in that position before. just anticipate for the guy of your dreams and he will come.