just found cousin's husband on adultfriendfinder.com
they just had a baby and his account is fresh and the pic are none too wholesome. what shld i do? i like him but you know what they say about blood...
2007-12-15 13:42:36 · 15 answers · asked by Kiome_274 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well considering that YOU asked a question about YOUR SPOUSE a while ago, I would say mind your business before your husband finds out that YOU go on adultfriendfinders.com!
2007-12-15 14:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by Joox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open an account ... then tell him you know EXACTLY who his is but don't tell him who you are and then tell him that if he don't get himself together quick and treat his wife well you will make sure that she finds out what a low life scum bag his is because you are going to keep a copy of his page with the picture. If that don't scare him straight nothing will.
2007-12-15 14:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by melfan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your cousin needs to know about this. It could severly affect her life - she needs her family watching her back, especially after just having a baby! Good luck!
2007-12-15 14:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could save a copy of his adultfriendfinder page, while you decide whether to tell your cousin.
Talk to your mom or someone you trust and respect, if you need advice about this situation. Maybe with someone you know, you can come up with a sound solution to this "man problem".
He's a dirtbag, isn't he?
2007-12-15 13:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definately send her the link. You never know though she might be the one who told him to get on. Just send a message like I saw this and wondered if you knew about this.
2007-12-15 13:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by Bilinda G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you should do first is come up with a good explanation as to why you were there in the first place.
Then.....you have to rat him out. Sorry, it's just the right thing to do.
2007-12-15 13:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could either mind your business and pretend you never saw it or have morals, meaning tell. That is family and not to tell is betrayal.
2007-12-15 15:35:14 · answer #7 · answered by beezy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get up the courage to confront him,. if he doesn't agree to tell your cousin, then you tell her for him. She shoudl not be left in the dark.
She is likely to defend him because of her love or even denial...be at least you have done your part.,
2007-12-15 14:22:44 · answer #8 · answered by Karen S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO, dont tell him first! tell the woman, its better to catch him off guard, besides there may be preparations she needs to make before confronting him.
2007-12-15 13:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by the evil1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blood is thicker than water...sister you answered your own question...wouldnt you want to know???
2007-12-15 13:48:31 · answer #10 · answered by Leannamick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋