2007-12-15 19:51:30 · 17 answers · asked by Helena 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm...he wasn't drunk and was (not that I want to get graphic) rather large. I've never come across anyone who wasn't ready to go. We managed OK later but he was not for me. I do think he is gay.
2007-12-15 20:01:12 · update #1
Hmmm....I don't think it was me. He seems to have as it turned out later on psychological issues. We both weight train and neither of us are ugly. He has a great body as do I.
2007-12-15 20:23:03 · update #2
Erectile disfunction rarely has anything to do with sexuality.
Since you obviously wound up in bed with him, he's at least thinking he's straight, right? If he were gay, but thinks he's straight, that probably wouldn't affect his performance.
The issues might be one or more of the following:
1. the chemistry between the 2 of you isn't there, beyond a first appearance type thing.
2. maybe he had too much alcohol or drugs (less likely if this has happened more than once unless he is always under the influence.
3. maybe he has a girlfriend and he's feeling guilty
Most erection issues are mental. There are physical issues too, particularly in older guys, but really most of the time it's a mental thing.
It is possible he's starting to come out of the closet, and feels conflicted and that conflict led to this, but I think there are more likely issues that don't have anything to do with him possibly being gay.
2007-12-15 19:55:28 · answer #1 · answered by whiskeyman510 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-11 09:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm amused by this one. LOL . Well think about how your question sounds for a minute?
Are you male or female? We could assume you are a female and if so.........then no again as male sexual dystfunction is not uncommon at anytime..sad to say. Maybe too much alcohol? Too many party pills . Lots of reasons really.
If you are a guy then it looks like he is and the same as above applys.
Merry Christmas J
2007-12-15 19:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, He could be to anctious and keep in mind that gays have sex also if he can get it up for the booty he can get it up for the p____, A man regardless of his status gonna always get it up for a woman it is nature otherwise he would not put his self in the position to be with a woman, so even if he is gay if you touch him the right way in the right spot it'll come alive.
2007-12-15 20:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by Tiff B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Universal question of all time. If he can't get it up, or if he doesn't want to be with me, he must be gay. Nooooo, Sometimes this will happen. It's a mental thing. Maybe his mind is on something else or he's worried about something. Talk about sallow, LOL!
2007-12-15 19:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he been given a clean bill of health from the doctor? He could simply be anxious and nervous -- you know, performance anxiety. It could be anything.
If you are already intimate with him, you could try asking him. That would nip your curiosity quick and you both can move forward to solve the problem if there is one. Don't stress him out if you can't be understanding, calm and a good listener.
2007-12-15 19:54:50 · answer #6 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old? ED is caused by diabetes, nerve diseases, kidney diseases and vascular diseases.
There are other non medical reasons. Not all men are completely into simple sex. Some men are fastidious and get turned off by a list of reasons, private smells, dirty surroundings, etc.
2007-12-15 19:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by QuiteNewHere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his is nervous, or he could have a more serious problem of a physical nature. Stress, can do a number on your body too.
2007-12-15 19:55:13 · answer #8 · answered by afrocentric4 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily, just because Mr. right didn't peak at his moment doesn't mean he is GAY.... he hasn't met the right girl... lol.......J/J.........there could be many reasons for this non action.
Look under erectile dis-functions
2007-12-15 19:56:26 · answer #9 · answered by cocoamoe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be gay, he might have medical problems that have left him impotent, or he might just have performance anxiety.
2007-12-15 19:55:26 · answer #10 · answered by triviatm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋