He has been texting this girl who is programmed in his phone as Sexy Mama when I am only in there by name. He has appearantly driven her to work a few times, that I never knew about, and hung out with her when I didn't know about it. He said that two times when she got out of the car the song Closer by Nine Inch Nails has come on the radio. If you dont know that song.. the main line says I wanna f*#? you like an animal, I wanna feel you from the indide. they have plans to see eachother thursday when he told me he has to work. it did just say hang out and watch a movie.. but i cant believe that after every other deception. what should I do. Should I freak out on him now.. or wait til thursday and see what happens. My heart hurts soo bad. Please help me?
2007-12-15 19:07:25 · 10 answers · asked by SnOwBuNnY 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way i found out this girl is his ex girlfriend
2007-12-15 19:09:36 · update #1
You should freak out on him.
He's got feelings for his ex-gf the Sexy Mama and associates her with Closer by Nine Inch Nails.
You got a song for him too:
Head like a hole
Black as your soul
I'd rather die
Than give you control
2007-12-15 19:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Address it immediately!! I would not wait until Thursday. I would let him know that I needed to talk to him and that it was very important. I would sit him down and tell him my concerns about this chick and see what he has to say. Flat out ask him if there is something going on between the two of them. And not only that, ask him what he plans to do to help fix the situation. His reaction/answer will give you the answer you need. You all are about to get married so there should be absolutely no doubts about fidelity at this point. I would think that he would do whatever he needed to in order to assure you that everything is okay and if he doesn't ...
As far as freaking out, try (although easier said than done) to stay calm while you are trying to find out the info you need to know. Don't give him a reason to clam up or walk away.
Good Luck Girl and IM me u need to talk! I love relationship stuff.
2007-12-15 19:16:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well obviously the thing ANYONE would do is break up with this ******. But, you know what I would do.. on Thursday.. I would spy on him using my camera to get evidence. Then I would tell him that I know what is going on. He is such an *** for cheating on you. You will find someone better.
2007-12-15 19:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by c'estlavie.™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater, always a cheater, run as fast as you can. you can find someone worthy of you as this guy is NOT! He's a liar and you don't want to always question whether he's telling the truth this time or not. Dump him and move on to something better!!
2007-12-15 19:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by J D R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and I definately think there is foul play.Follow your heart. If the situation gives you suspicion, you're probably right!!!
If you want hard evidence just call Cheaters ;}
2007-12-16 12:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. get hard evidence.
2. confront him.
3. if he denies, show him evidence.
4. whether he denies or not, dump him.
5. its better to dump him now than to do so after you're married
2007-12-15 19:11:07 · answer #6 · answered by Self-Proclaimed Expert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man you should leave him big time. That is a horrible thing to do to you.If he is doing it now he is going to do it in your marriage. Do you want to share your man? I don't think so I strongly suggest you leave. I think you have enough evidence. Why should you have to prove it to him? You already know in your gut.
2007-12-15 19:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by candyapplesyum! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I read your post, I saw red flags going up all over!!!! Bad news....... He's not a keeper, hon. It's better you found out now than later.
2007-12-15 19:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by wildflower 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is not worth freaking over. Just quietly dump him, and find someone new.
2007-12-15 19:13:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
run fast
2007-12-15 19:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by BIG DICK 69 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋