I haven't been able to sleep all night. my bf's been asleep since 12 cause he works at 5. but i can't help but o in there and lay with him and hug him and give him soft kisses and whisper in his ear that i love him. i'm worried i'm bothering him, but i just love him so much!!! is this wrong? i only go in there every hour or so.
2007-12-15 19:21:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course not! From a man's point of view, I wouldn't mind it. Just reassures me that my companion really does love me and it's a true relationship. However, if he does tell you to stop, don't get offended! I'm sure he loves you just as much, he just needs to catch some Z's!
2007-12-15 19:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by Alex T 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm in the same boat as you.....
My husband works two jobs and I only work part time and full time mother so I tend to miss him alot but he is always so tired when he gets home he passes right out....
I like to go to him sometimes and try to wake him up or cuddle with him but he gets annoyed with me sometimes and I have to understand he works alot of hours and needs his rest.... But I love him so much I can't help it either.
But he does tell me the next morning he feels bad he feel asleep on me again and he is happy I still love and acknowledge him :)
2007-12-15 19:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by Sapphire 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't sleep, so instead you go in and kiss him and whisper at him. Wow... kinda creepy. If I were sleeping and found someone coming in and crawling all over me, kissing me and whispering at me, I'd be worried. Sounds like you have a dependancy problem. You need to go and get some help honey.
2007-12-15 19:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by dstluke 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Nothing wrong with it, as long as you're not waking him up all the time. Nothing worse than going to work with little sleep. I used to love it when my ex would do things like that to me
2007-12-15 19:27:31 · answer #4 · answered by Nightfire 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you wake him up, that could be a problem. Maybe you should eat a turkey sandwich...it makes you drowsy. That's really sweet and all, but I am a light sleeper, and if someone did this to me when I had to go to work at five the next day, I'd get pretty grouchy. I don't know if I'd go as far as to put a turkey over your head, especially if you take my advice and eat some...but try to go to sleep!
2007-12-15 19:30:12 · answer #5 · answered by Dan in Real Life 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
How old are you? Are you in the "honeymoon phase"? It's not normal to miss your boyfriend so much that you have to go in and kiss him while he is asleep every couple of hours lol. It's sweet, but it's weird. If you are a newlywed, I could sort of understand
2007-12-15 19:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by yomama23 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
that's not wrong but i think u should more understand him n let him get enough rest because he still need to work the next day.. he will know u love him so much and he also same.. so dont worry much..
2007-12-15 19:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well not wrong, but really, it is too much to be going in every hour. You are interfering with his much needed rest. If you really love him, tell him when he isn't sleeping. Right now you are probably driving him nuts.
2007-12-15 19:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by CB 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it probably wouldn't bother him if u stayed in there but in and out might wake him up even tho he might not care it can effect his health and his job so why dont u just go in there lay down beside him cuddle up and relax
2007-12-15 19:42:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong but don't disturb his sleeping because then it could turn into obsessive and freaky.
Just kiss him and cuddle with him softly and you should be fine :].
its not wrong at all! its cute :D
2007-12-15 19:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋